I am a full time working mother who has a 7 month old in full time day care and dh who works full time an hour away from home and has an extra curricular a few times a week at night. We have been making most things work including open conversation, but the issue comes to be chores and sex. I still am bf and have to pump at 5am, 2x during day and sometimes at 6 pm, and then again before bed at 10. She gets actually nursed 1-2 day during week. I have a low supply. Dh is now talking about stopping bf so I can go back to having a sex drive and enjoy it. He says he can tell the difference. We have sex 1-2 month currently (was trying for 1x week but daycare germs have left both of us suck often). I know I don't have any sex drive and still do the majority of the caretaking and housework. Anyone else having issues? Is my sex drive just taking that much longer to come back? Thoughts?
Re: new here, ft working mother with 7 month dd