I originally thought I would wean my daughter before baby 2 comes. I thought it would be best for her and the new baby and jealousy issues . I'm now learning that tandem nursing can be a bonding experience for both kids and a good thing. I was wondering if this also leads to the mom dropping pounds faster. I'm just curious. Weighing pros and cons. I love the bonding time Ihave with my daughter and it's going to be sad to lose that but I don't as to nurse her past two. She is only nursing twice a day. She has cows milk the rest of the day.