At the ER

ivfmommy1228

Started bleeding again about 6 hours ago. Much worse than last Saturday with several large clots. One was about fist size (sorry TMI). Radiology tech let me "accidentally" see one baby and a little heartbeat. Waiting on the doctor now for the official report. So thankful one is still there! Please keep our LO in your prayers.

MrsBwIVF

Thinking of you!
Are you thinking it's a subchorionic hematoma? What color were the clots?
I spent Friday night in the er with massive blood loss and our tech also accidentally let us see before a PA told us the radiologist saw a sch by the placentas. Apparently, the one my doctor found last week decided to act up with a vengeance!
It's very scary but a lot better than the alternative!

ivfmommy1228

We had two embryos transferred, so it appears one of them was lost. Baby present measured at 6w6d with a heartbeat of 100. Bleeding is slowing down, but still significant. Calling RE in the morning (since they never returned the emergency call I placed over 5 hrs ago). Hopefully the bleeding will continue to slow and this baby will hang in there. Thanks for your thoughts

MrsBwIVF

I'm sorry for your loss but you still have a sticky baby left.

somewhereinafrica

I am so sorry! I found out last weeks that only one of our babies had a heart beat and the other was just a sack and the yolk but has not continued to grow! I had such mixed feelings happy for the one and sadness over the other.

I didn't bleed though and they said because of the progesterone I may not! I can't imagine how scary that must have been for you. So sorry you are going through this. I am wishing you a lot of strength to you and your sticky little baby!

lawmom747

Sending thoughts and prayers your way.  The bleeding is definitely scary - I've been there.  Please keep us posted.

przemosbabe

This is awful I'm so sorry. I am definitely praying for you tonight. Please let us know how you are doing and try to stay strong.

marnief

T&P heading your way. Hoping for a good update soon.

Pookster1020

Praying that little one holds tight!  Take care of yourself - sending T&P your way.

Justone13

Thinking of you during this difficult time. Hope you are doing better today. Sending prayers 

ivfmommy1228

Thanks everyone! Definitely lost one. The other seems to be doing fine. I have an US tmw to get more details. Btwn the ER, my RE and regular OB no one seemed to recommend bed rest. I did take mon off, but worked yesterday and today.
I almost kicked a co-worker in the teeth bc she said she "knows how I feel" bc she had a "procedure" done on mon.

LittleRocket

Oh my god, I am mentally kicking her in the teeth for you.

ivfmommy1228

No heartbeat for the other baby. Thanks for your support ladies. Maybe I'll be back in a few months. I wish you all the best.

lawmom747

I am so sorry for your loss. Take care and hope to see you back soon. ((Hugs))

MrsBwIVF

So sorry for your loss.
Good luck on your journey, our thoughts are with you.

marnief

Oh, I'm so so sorry. Wishing you comfort and gentleness now.

sweetpotato123

I am so very sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your OH.

Justone13

I am so sorry to hear this. Be good to yourself and take this time to heal. Wishing you the best in the future. Big hugs!

DSculley1824

I am so so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you!

fjamil1

I am so sorry for your loss.

PhoenixRyuu

I'm very sorry, though I know there's nothing I can say that will really make it better. I've been there. It's awful and the only thing that makes it better is time. Take care of yourself and stick by your partner and support each other and let yourself do whatever makes you feel better. I think I'd have gone crazy if not for my husband, particularly last time when I was 11w2d and had told a number of people already and then had to tell them what happened and put up with well meaning but hurtful comments like your coworker's. Just remember that no matter how bad it feels, it does get better. 

LittleRocket

I am so sorry.