So I'm just super excited and this may be a bit inappropriate buuuuut
I was out running errands and DH was home from work by the time I got back. He asked if I wanted to have sex and since we're trying to capitalize on every moment for him I said yes but I had to "get ready" (I honestly wasn't in the mood but didn't want to deny him)....anyway, short story not only did I have the courage to use my toy during sex we both had orgasms! I'm not trying to brag in any way - this is a super accomplishment given the last two or so years.
Is it creepy that I'm super excited for you? Side note: I know the parts of your story that you have shared here and that is why.
Me:27 DH:27
Married: May 2013
TTC#1 since Nov 2014 MC June 2015 MC January 2016 Compound Hetero MTHFR Gene Mutation
I make our meal plans for the week and then head out to the commisary armed with a list to keep me on track. Yesterday I bought a bag of peanut butter m&m's, ate half the bag (whilst being entertained on TB) and stuffed the rest in my desk drawer so DH wouldn't find them. I don't want to share!
I just remembered I have them and now I want some but DH is home and if I try to sneak one, he will know and want some...
My husband and I are both total secret eaters. I'm better at it than he is, though. I can always tell when he's been snacking on his way home from work because then he won't be all "FOOOOD!" when he gets home. It mostly amuses me when he thinks I can't tell, but it can be a bit annoying when it's his time to cook. He won't be hungry so he'll procrastinate until it's like, 7:30 and I'm all "Food? :-S"
I really feel like I should lose some weight before I get Ku but food is just so good. I will have all kinds of terrible things (cheeseburgers, ready-made spaghetti) for lunch without DH knowing. "> And you'll just see that, on days that I'm good, he's been bad and I have to wait for dinner forever.
@missteacherlady16, congrats on the orgasms! I'd say your post fits right in with all the vibrator talk (and I actually think it's quite awesome that this is a topic that can be discussed on here).
I worked for 3 hours today and told my staff I had a meeting. Off to the two different bars for happy hour I went. Drinking away my AF sorrows one martini at a time! DH also thinks I was at work...
So I'm just super excited and this may be a bit inappropriate buuuuut
I was out running errands and DH was home from work by the time I got back. He asked if I wanted to have sex and since we're trying to capitalize on every moment for him I said yes but I had to "get ready" (I honestly wasn't in the mood but didn't want to deny him)....anyway, short story not only did I have the courage to use my toy during sex we both had orgasms! I'm not trying to brag in any way - this is a super accomplishment given the last two or so years.
sooooooooooooo excited for you!!!!
speaking of vibrators...and confessions.....i've never used one before, or any toy for that matter. i was/am the prude virgin when i met my wild child hubby. he's never suggested it, so we've never gone there...
*runs and hides*
Together 2007 | Married 2011 | Me: 36 | DH: 38 Adopted Furbaby: 2014 TTC#1 : 1/2016 | IUI #2 - BFP 12/24/16 -- born 9/8/17 TTC#2: 11/2019 | Dx DOR (AMH 0.3), AMA IUI #2 - BFP 7/1/20 -- EDD 3/14/21
So I'm just super excited and this may be a bit inappropriate buuuuut
I was out running errands and DH was home from work by the time I got back. He asked if I wanted to have sex and since we're trying to capitalize on every moment for him I said yes but I had to "get ready" (I honestly wasn't in the mood but didn't want to deny him)....anyway, short story not only did I have the courage to use my toy during sex we both had orgasms! I'm not trying to brag in any way - this is a super accomplishment given the last two or so years.
sooooooooooooo excited for you!!!!
speaking of vibrators...and confessions.....i've never used one before, or any toy for that matter. i was/am the prude virgin when i met my wild child hubby. he's never suggested it, so we've never gone there...
*runs and hides*
Get one!! It's seriously like, "What three things would you grab if your house was on fire?" My dog, my laptop, my vibrator!
Ahhhh thank you ladies!! (@nicosh8, @alex27, and @dutchlucylu) I was so excited to share with someone other than DH though we were quite pleased with ourselves too
I don't spend money often, but I was buying a tablet for our long road trip home and I shamelessly added to my cart a used copy of that Mayo Clinic Guide to a Healthy Pregnancy book. Thanks to someone's recommendation here. Luckily DH won't notice, haha.
Benjamin born on - 4/5/12 BFP 12/31/14, EDD 9/08/14 ~ Natural M/C 2/21/14 at 11.5 weeks BFP 5/24/15 - EDD 2/4/16
So I'm just super excited and this may be a bit inappropriate buuuuut
I was out running errands and DH was home from work by the time I got back. He asked if I wanted to have sex and since we're trying to capitalize on every moment for him I said yes but I had to "get ready" (I honestly wasn't in the mood but didn't want to deny him)....anyway, short story not only did I have the courage to use my toy during sex we both had orgasms! I'm not trying to brag in any way - this is a super accomplishment given the last two or so years.
sooooooooooooo excited for you!!!!
speaking of vibrators...and confessions.....i've never used one before, or any toy for that matter. i was/am the prude virgin when i met my wild child hubby. he's never suggested it, so we've never gone there...
*runs and hides*
Seriously get one. It is life altering.
$15 (although mine doesn't last more than a year lol) and it's super super basic with a handle and an egg on the end. Life altering.
So I'm just super excited and this may be a bit inappropriate buuuuut
I was out running errands and DH was home from work by the time I got back. He asked if I wanted to have sex and since we're trying to capitalize on every moment for him I said yes but I had to "get ready" (I honestly wasn't in the mood but didn't want to deny him)....anyway, short story not only did I have the courage to use my toy during sex we both had orgasms! I'm not trying to brag in any way - this is a super accomplishment given the last two or so years.
sooooooooooooo excited for you!!!!
speaking of vibrators...and confessions.....i've never used one before, or any toy for that matter. i was/am the prude virgin when i met my wild child hubby. he's never suggested it, so we've never gone there...
*runs and hides*
Seriously get one. It is life altering.
$15 (although mine doesn't last more than a year lol) and it's super super basic with a handle and an egg on the end. Life altering.
Amazon has a VERY good amount of them and you can buy it without having to go to a shop if you are nervous.
Also, consider the Hitachi "back massager". It's intended for massages but does wonders for the vajayjay and can hide in plain sight. I would post a photo, but it's almost like posting a pee stick, so no.
Amazon has a VERY good amount of them and you can buy it without having to go to a shop if you are nervous.
Also, consider the Hitachi "back massager". It's intended for massages but does wonders for the vajayjay and can hide in plain sight. I would post a photo, but it's almost like posting a pee stick, so no.
The Hitachi is GREAT but might be too intense for a first timer, IMO.
I drink cough syrup straight from the bottle. No measuring, just a secret thought of "oh please knock me out so the coughing with stop!" as i gulp down what is probably a double dose. Oops.
I make our meal plans for the week and then head out to the commisary armed with a list to keep me on track. Yesterday I bought a bag of peanut butter m&m's, ate half the bag (whilst being entertained on TB) and stuffed the rest in my desk drawer so DH wouldn't find them. I don't want to share!
I just remembered I have them and now I want some but DH is home and if I try to sneak one, he will know and want some...
My husband and I are both total secret eaters. I'm better at it than he is, though. I can always tell when he's been snacking on his way home from work because then he won't be all "FOOOOD!" when he gets home. It mostly amuses me when he thinks I can't tell, but it can be a bit annoying when it's his time to cook. He won't be hungry so he'll procrastinate until it's like, 7:30 and I'm all "Food? :-S"
I really feel like I should lose some weight before I get Ku but food is just so good. I will have all kinds of terrible things (cheeseburgers, ready-made spaghetti) for lunch without DH knowing. "> And you'll just see that, on days that I'm good, he's been bad and I have to wait for dinner forever.
@missteacherlady16, congrats on the orgasms! I'd say your post fits right in with all the vibrator talk (and I actually think it's quite awesome that this is a topic that can be discussed on here).
I am such a bad secret eater. Peanut Butter M&M's are my current addiction. I have banned myself from purchasing the family sized pack since I will make them my lunch a dinner. Thankfully, I don't see any single serving packages when I am at the grocery store.
I feel the same way about losing weight. I want to drop 10 or so pounds before getting ku but food is way too good to say no to.
My friend recently stopped selling 'pure romance' stuff and gave me a box full o' toys for free!! It was the best way to see what I liked and what I wasn't into.
Never again for us with the cockrings. I recently went to a 'household convention' (it's really terrible, basically just desperate housewives cruising for free stuff/discounts, but my friend and I mostly went to lurk on the baby-related section *ahem*) and I got a 'surprise romance tote' from one of the stands. Most of it was total rubbish and like, things we already had a higher-quality version of, and there was this really nasty, cheap, tentically cockring. We did just not get it at all. That said, cockrings are basically the only thing we don't have, so I'm good. :P
I drink cough syrup straight from the bottle. No measuring, just a secret thought of "oh please knock me out so the coughing with stop!" as i gulp down what is probably a double dose. Oops.
Ahhhh thank you ladies!! (@nicosh8, @alex27, and @dutchlucylu) I was so excited to share with someone other than DH though we were quite pleased with ourselves too
Yay! So happy for your guys!
I was a little bit of a prude before I met DH. He is the one that bought me a vibrator. He sometimes has *cough* trouble. But he gets super turned on watching me orgasm. It totally revolutionized my sex life. He becomes more aggressive and take charge.
I love a vibrator with sex. Sometimes when he's trying to get me to have a third orgasm, I want to say "just cum already!". But then I remember I use to go months and months and months without any Os and I want to punch myself in the face.
So I'm just super excited and this may be a bit inappropriate buuuuut
I was out running errands and DH was home from work by the time I got back. He asked if I wanted to have sex and since we're trying to capitalize on every moment for him I said yes but I had to "get ready" (I honestly wasn't in the mood but didn't want to deny him)....anyway, short story not only did I have the courage to use my toy during sex we both had orgasms! I'm not trying to brag in any way - this is a super accomplishment given the last two or so years.
sooooooooooooo excited for you!!!!
speaking of vibrators...and confessions.....i've never used one before, or any toy for that matter. i was/am the prude virgin when i met my wild child hubby. he's never suggested it, so we've never gone there...
*runs and hides*
Same here. I wouldn't say I'm a prude because we've done all sorts of things in all sorts of places, it's just never involved toys. Honestly, I don't find the idea of pleasuring myself that intriguing, so why spend the money?
Confession: I'm like a combination of horrible bitch with a side of road rage. Just honked at new people in the neighborhood because their moving truck was obscuring half the road. Seriously, you can't block the road! DH is dissapointed in me
Him:31♥Me:27
NTNP#1 since 12/14, TTC#1 since 4/15 LPD diagnosis 9/15 Femara + TI #1: 12/15 - 1/16 = BFN Femara + Ovidrel + TI #2: 1/16 - 2/16 = BFN Femara + Ovidrel + TI #3: 2/16 - 3/16 = BFP (Squish) 3/18/16, no growth/HB 4/12/16, MC on 5/3/16 Taking a break from trying to focus on graduate school!
I wish I could get my DH into sex toys and actually taking charge in bed. He is a very passive person and I'm the dominant personality most of the time, but in the bedroom I want him to at least try to do something without asking me if it was okay. I mean, we are married, yes it's okay.
Him:31♥Me:27
NTNP#1 since 12/14, TTC#1 since 4/15 LPD diagnosis 9/15 Femara + TI #1: 12/15 - 1/16 = BFN Femara + Ovidrel + TI #2: 1/16 - 2/16 = BFN Femara + Ovidrel + TI #3: 2/16 - 3/16 = BFP (Squish) 3/18/16, no growth/HB 4/12/16, MC on 5/3/16 Taking a break from trying to focus on graduate school!
I wish I could get my DH into sex toys and actually taking charge in bed. He is a very passive person and I'm the dominant personality most of the time, but in the bedroom I want him to at least try to do something without asking me if it was okay. I mean, we are married, yes it's okay.
Don't count it out... My fiance was very gentle with me until he realized how much it gets me going when he gets a little rough. I had to keep reminding him that he isn't gonna break me and I'll let him know if it's too much. Now he dominates me and has even surprised me a few times with how good he's gotten at it.
I hate how my profession is by nature extremely PC and touchy feely. A lot of times I wish I could just say "you're an idiot and you suck as a person and a parent." And even if I express this to other social workers, a lot of times you get the "well, just understand how they grew up blah blah blah."
Wait... Social workers can't say that to each other? Well shit, I'm not doing my job right. I've had this conversation with multiple social workers and we are all pretty on board lol. Just come to Michigan
I totally bitch all the time to my co workers about the stupidness of people that I see on a daily basis...guess we are meaner in PA
Me 32 DH 34
Married 9/2012
TTC #2 starting 9/2019 BFP 7/13/2020! Due 3/18/2021
TTC #1 since 2/2015 Diagnosis: Unexplained Infertility 9/2015
IUIs #1-#5: 9/2015-2/2016 all BFNs Moving to IVF with ICSI and PGS 5/2016-6/2016 Just kidding, BFP 4/4/2016! Spencer Elliott born 12/7/2016
I have too much Catholic guilt to use a vibrator, but we did receive a cock ring for our wedding and have used it maybe 3 times in the last year.
Who gives someone a cockring for a wedding present?!?
Well my best friend set up our honeymoon suite as a surprise, there was also champagne, strawberries, petals on the bed and lube haha. Her actual gift was a tasteful vase.
I have too much Catholic guilt to use a vibrator, but we did receive a cock ring for our wedding and have used it maybe 3 times in the last year.
Who gives someone a cockring for a wedding present?!?
Well my best friend set up our honeymoon suite as a surprise, there was also champagne, strawberries, petals on the bed and lube haha. Her actual gift was a tasteful vase.
Fair enough... But I still think it's weird. And a little creepy.
Re: FFFC
Side note: I know the parts of your story that you have shared here and that is why.
MC June 2015
MC January 2016
Compound Hetero MTHFR Gene Mutation
MC June 2015
MC January 2016
Compound Hetero MTHFR Gene Mutation
Not everyone can breastfeed - Mammary Hypoplasia/Insufficient Glandular Tissue Awareness
speaking of vibrators...and confessions.....i've never used one before, or any toy for that matter. i was/am the prude virgin when i met my wild child hubby. he's never suggested it, so we've never gone there...
*runs and hides*
Adopted Furbaby: 2014
TTC#1 : 1/2016 | IUI #2 - BFP 12/24/16 -- born 9/8/17
TTC#2: 11/2019 | Dx DOR (AMH 0.3), AMA
IUI #2 - BFP 7/1/20 -- EDD 3/14/21
Married since 3/2013
TTC #1 - Nov '14
DS born 10/18
BFP 12/31/14, EDD 9/08/14 ~ Natural M/C 2/21/14 at 11.5 weeks
BFP 5/24/15 - EDD 2/4/16
$15 (although mine doesn't last more than a year lol) and it's super super basic with a handle and an egg on the end. Life altering.
Diagnosed with PCOS: Summer 2007
Married: July 2013
Began TTC: June 2015
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/58d258
Also, consider the Hitachi "back massager". It's intended for massages but does wonders for the vajayjay and can hide in plain sight. I would post a photo, but it's almost like posting a pee stick, so no.
**Triggers**
Me: 32 DH: 35 Married 10/4/14
TTC #1 May 2015 BFP: July 21, 2015 Stillborn January 8, 2016
TTC #2 April 2016 BFP: June 17, 2016
Baby Girl Shih-Tzu and Baby Boy Boston are my furbabies
**Triggers**
Me: 32 DH: 35 Married 10/4/14
TTC #1 May 2015 BFP: July 21, 2015 Stillborn January 8, 2016
TTC #2 April 2016 BFP: June 17, 2016
Baby Girl Shih-Tzu and Baby Boy Boston are my furbabies
Not everyone can breastfeed - Mammary Hypoplasia/Insufficient Glandular Tissue Awareness
**Triggers**
Me: 32 DH: 35 Married 10/4/14
TTC #1 May 2015 BFP: July 21, 2015 Stillborn January 8, 2016
TTC #2 April 2016 BFP: June 17, 2016
Baby Girl Shih-Tzu and Baby Boy Boston are my furbabies
Not everyone can breastfeed - Mammary Hypoplasia/Insufficient Glandular Tissue Awareness
I was a little bit of a prude before I met DH. He is the one that bought me a vibrator. He sometimes has *cough* trouble. But he gets super turned on watching me orgasm. It totally revolutionized my sex life. He becomes more aggressive and take charge.
I love a vibrator with sex. Sometimes when he's trying to get me to have a third orgasm, I want to say "just cum already!". But then I remember I use to go months and months and months without any Os and I want to punch myself in the face.
Maybe this is the key to your husband too!!!
Same here. I wouldn't say I'm a prude because we've done all sorts of things in all sorts of places, it's just never involved toys. Honestly, I don't find the idea of pleasuring myself that intriguing, so why spend the money?
LPD diagnosis 9/15
Femara + TI #1: 12/15 - 1/16 = BFN
Femara + Ovidrel + TI #2: 1/16 - 2/16 = BFN
Femara + Ovidrel + TI #3: 2/16 - 3/16 = BFP (Squish) 3/18/16, no growth/HB 4/12/16, MC on 5/3/16
Taking a break from trying to focus on graduate school!
LPD diagnosis 9/15
Femara + TI #1: 12/15 - 1/16 = BFN
Femara + Ovidrel + TI #2: 1/16 - 2/16 = BFN
Femara + Ovidrel + TI #3: 2/16 - 3/16 = BFP (Squish) 3/18/16, no growth/HB 4/12/16, MC on 5/3/16
Taking a break from trying to focus on graduate school!
Eta spelling
TTC #2 starting 9/2019
BFP 7/13/2020!
Due 3/18/2021
TTC #1 since 2/2015
Diagnosis: Unexplained Infertility 9/2015
Moving to IVF with ICSI and PGS 5/2016-6/2016 Just kidding, BFP 4/4/2016!
Spencer Elliott born 12/7/2016