These days it feels pretty impossible to be sexy or romantic and pregnancy really seems to get in the way of those special moments! What's your best example of this?
Mine is trying to take a bubble bath with DH... After several maneuvers to get comfortable... I laid back only to realize I put my newly cut hair into a lit candle! The sound and smell was horrifying (luckily not too much damage!) but it certainly killed the mood!
Since I'm always exhausted and have heartburn at the end of the night, we basically only have sex in the morning now. One morning our 2yo was up early and walked in on us. "What doing Mom?" really kills the mood. At least he didn't seem fazed.
The demoralizing moment of me farting during sex has to be on the top of my list of pregnancy-related mood killers. DH didn't seem to care, but it definitely didn't help me feel sexy in the least.
I just think the baby that never stops moving is a mood killer! lol
Usually our baby is pretty quiet during that time lol butttttt I'm always praying she doesn't move then since I think hubby would definitely be done after that lol
Mines the other way around...DH was trying to be helpful and great and asked to practice some labor coaching positions and I just thought he was trying to trick me into having sex (SO not in the mood) and poor guy just had this defeated look because he genuinely wanted to practice labor positions so he could be helpful when the time came.
TTC: 1/2014
BFP: 9/24
EDD: 6/8/2015
Sorry for the poor man's siggy...ticker won't load regardless of how many tips I read.
Since I can't see 'down there' anymore, I have this irrational fear that things are looking/smelling/feeing disgusting to my partner. As a result, I kill the mood in my own head as I wonder if I'm as swollen as I feel, if my crazy shaving attempts are lopsided, if I smell like pee or whatever. Last night I finally took a mirror to check things out on my own. )
I start making weird faces when I get bad back pain or rib pain like @KonaCoffeeBean during sex....... And then he's all... " what's wrong?!" And I just say oh nothing ! Keep going!!
1.) If I can't see my vagina, neither can you. 2.) There's always something wrong! This hurts, or that symptom is ruling my world. Howwww are any of y'all feeling sexy?!
I accidentally peed on my husband during sexy time. Yep. Totally just peed. Couldn't control it. Thankfully nothing is embarrassing with my hubby and we laughed to the point he almost peed himself.
Re: Romantic while pregnant fails
2nd round exp 8/20/18.
Me: 31 DH: 34
Married 11/09/2013
LO#1: LMP 09/14/2014 BFP 10/15/2014 EDD 06/24/2015 DS Born 06/14/2015
LO#2: LMP 09/18/2016 BFP 10/19/2016 EDD 06/27/2017 DD Born 06/27/2017
LO#3: LMP 05/16/2018 BFP 06/18/2018 EDD 02/20/2019
2.) There's always something wrong! This hurts, or that symptom is ruling my world. Howwww are any of y'all feeling sexy?!