Wow, sounds like you know how the board works and yet really don't care at all! Good luck getting people to respond kindly to that. It's not like you actually have a question anyway - what difference does it make to you if someone else has had this experience? Cool story, though!
Honestly I just want to read about it, I want to be able to relate to someone in a way. But if not that's cool, obviously people are always going to be negative on here. That's kinda the reason why I stayed off this app for a while, but we are all people who need answers or maybe we just want to read about people's experiences.
Same here, I am almost 31 weeks and spent my first 20 weeks with spotting/bleeding which they think was a hematoma that eventually disappeared but never could fully find out the reason. They put me off work and told me to rest and take prometrium. Then I was told I had a low lying placenta but not enough to cover cervix. Been going for ultrasounds every two weeks to check but my Dr says it is common and in most cases it resolves later in pregnancy. Finally last week I was told it moved and is now posterior (which is good). Despite all this my Dr is confident I'll have a healthy baby and was never too concerned. It was all very nerve wracking and even now I am still nervous but happy to be at the third trimester. I just try to think positive and focus on eating healthy and resting (things you can control) and before you know it you will have your beautiful baby in your arms. Hang in there
Honestly I just want to read about it, I want to be able to relate to someone in a way. But if not that's cool, obviously people are always going to be negative on here. That's kinda the reason why I stayed off this app for a while, but we are all people who need answers or maybe we just want to read about people's experiences.
Actually, if you read through the board, we're not always negative. But when people who never post make a thread with snide little comments like the ones at the bottom of yours, it's hard not to be insulted/turned off. If you were looking for sympathy, calling people rude is not the best way to go about it.
Anyway, I haven't been having experiences similar to yours, but I wish you well with the rest of your pregnancy.
Right. "I want to take advantage of the knowledge of the ladies here, but don't give a crap about trying to being polite about it, don't want to take the time to look for myself, going to place restrictions on how that advice is offered, and don't want to contribute otherwise as long as someone else says I'm not the only person experiencing this"
OK. Statistically, someone else out there is having the same problem.
(Just for funsies - here is my reply had you NOT come out basically telling everyone what to do. 'I'm sorry that's happening to you. I haven't any experience with this myself, but if your doctor isn't concerned then I would trust their judgement, assuming they know about the current bleeding / spotting and you aren't just going off advice from about 10 weeks ago. You may find some situations similar to yours if you use the search field, I know I have found a lot of helpful info when I use it, if not in June then in other month boards. Good luck!')
Thank you for your story, Its honestly scarry no matter how use to it you are. I just try to remind myself that everrything is okay...I'm just glad I've made it this long & only have a couple of more weeks to go ! Once again thank you it means a lot.
Right. "I want to take advantage of the knowledge of the ladies here, but don't give a crap about trying to being polite about it, don't want to take the time to look for myself, going to place restrictions on how that advice is offered, and don't want to contribute otherwise as long as someone else says I'm not the only person experiencing this"
OK. Statistically, someone else out there is having the same problem.
(Just for funsies - here is my reply had you NOT come out basically telling everyone what to do. 'I'm sorry that's happening to you. I haven't any experience with this myself, but if your doctor isn't concerned then I would trust their judgement, assuming they know about the current bleeding / spotting and you aren't just going off advice from about 10 weeks ago. You may find some situations similar to yours if you use the search field, I know I have found a lot of helpful info when I use it, if not in June then in other month boards. Good luck!')
You're welcome.
Oh, Melly, you just can't help yourself ! OP is lucky you're on here, even if she doesn't appreciate it.
Yes I have had the experience of being from Houston. Represent woot woot! No I did not spot throughout my pregnancy. So I can half relate to your experience.
You would search Placenta Previa. Search option is at the bottom of the page if you're on mobile device or the magnifying glass if you're on a computer. Now you know where.
There are also many other online forums you can go to. I would respond more fully, but idk why I'd bother. You sound like a super sweet part of the Millennium Generation though (minus the tech skills, which is curious), so good luck with that and all else.
I also have the experience of being from Houston!!! Lol. Love the gif! If I could clear my pregnancy induced fog long enough to figure out how to post one from my phone I so would! I LOL'd @MrsWiggleWaggle
Ladies I know are hormones are all over the place but damm, no need to be smart asses about it!
If your tone had been more friendly, ours would have mirrored it. Again, calling a group of women rude when you go to them for help/feedback/support is counterproductive.
Ladies I know are hormones are all over the place but damm, no need to be smart asses about it!
Smart asses? Your original post attempted to dictate how people respond here when you are new to this community. Good luck getting the answers you want because you will get mostly sass from this point forward and that has nothing to do with hormones.
You would search Placenta Previa. Search option is at the bottom of the page if you're on mobile device or the magnifying glass if you're on a computer. Now you know where.
There are also many other online forums you can go to. I would respond more fully, but idk why I'd bother. You sound like a super sweet part of the Millennium Generation though (minus the tech skills, which is curious), so good luck with that and all else.
That is so meeeeaaaan that you're suggesting she search for herself! Everyone who has had this exact same situation should come here now and write their experience down again!!!!!!! That would be much easier for her.
I already knew I was gonna get comments like this. There's been times were people have a severe situation and all people do is comments on how there's another "thread" for it somewhere else. I just don't understand why it had to be that way, like I said all I wanted was for people to tell me about there experience that's it.
I already knew I was gonna get comments like this. There's been times were people have a severe situation and all people do is comments on how there's another "thread" for it somewhere else. I just don't understand why it had to be that way, like I said all I wanted was for people to tell me about there experience that's it.
So the best course of action would have been to post your thread asking that question and not say anything about how rude you think everyone here is. Maybe things would have gone a little better, don't you think?
I already knew I was gonna get comments like this. There's been times were people have a severe situation and all people do is comments on how there's another "thread" for it somewhere else. I just don't understand why it had to be that way, like I said all I wanted was for people to tell me about there experience that's it.
Often, people refer posters to another thread because we feel that there is other helpful information on there that's relevant to what you're asking.
Once again, the comments you have received here have been in response to the attitude that you have given us. You likely would have received totally different reactions if you'd been a little more polite towards us. You get what you give.
I already knew I was gonna get comments like this. There's been times were people have a severe situation and all people do is comments on how there's another "thread" for it somewhere else. I just don't understand why it had to be that way, like I said all I wanted was for people to tell me about there experience that's it.
Why did you expect your situation to be any different then? And I certainly hope people aren't relying on The bump for a "severe situation"!
She was basically saying she spotted all the time and that her Dr didn't seem worried about it but mentioned something about a low lying placenta and that she shouldn't have sex. Then she told us not to refer her to another thread or where she could search about it or to be rude to her.
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OK. Statistically, someone else out there is having the same problem.
(Just for funsies - here is my reply had you NOT come out basically telling everyone what to do. 'I'm sorry that's happening to you. I haven't any experience with this myself, but if your doctor isn't concerned then I would trust their judgement, assuming they know about the current bleeding / spotting and you aren't just going off advice from about 10 weeks ago. You may find some situations similar to yours if you use the search field, I know I have found a lot of helpful info when I use it, if not in June then in other month boards. Good luck!')
You're welcome.
There are also many other online forums you can go to. I would respond more fully, but idk why I'd bother. You sound like a super sweet part of the Millennium Generation though (minus the tech skills, which is curious), so good luck with that and all else.
I gotta get in the habit of QFP too