DS will be 3 in may and DH is pressuring me to switch DCs because he feels DD, who will be going into kindergarten in the fall, isn't learning enough. Because DH feels DD's class has sort of gone down hill since last year, he wants to switch from the small, local daycare we've used for the past 2 years to a new Learning Experience that was just built and opened a few months ago. DS knows his months, days of the week, seasons, he can count in English to around 14 and Spanish to about 10. He is 110% potty trained, he has an awesome personality, he's friendly and makes friends everywhere he goes. He can not write at all and does not know any numbers or letters. DD just turned 5. Between 3 and 4 DD learned every number and letter and it's sound. She probably knew most of these things when she started our current daycare at 3 1/2. She can write every letter, her name, and her brother's name, but can not read at all. She's been learning some math, when I ask her almost any number up to 10 (8 +2, 4+5) she gets it right, but she does not know any subtraction.
Do either of my children seem behind? Based on this would you switch my son's daycare so he learns more in the next 2 years before kindergarten?