Everyone keeps saying "be careful of the word bullying" but what Lala is doing is 100% bullying. She has insulted my appearance (my profile pic and weather or not I think I'm showing ) WHY DO YOU CARE WHAT I HAVE AS MY PROFILE PIC??! I am excited about my first pregnancy and the thought of it growing! We are all new expectant mothers and very emotional and going through a crazy time and I have almost cried 3 times today due to your evil comments. I'm sure you're going to make fun of me for that because you have no boundaries but I have got to lay it all out there. What you have done all day is bully me and others on here. It is cruel and unnecessary
@Bliss+Berry I know it's not bloating. I use to have a flat stomach, believe me it's not bloating. But everyone is allowed to state their opinion:) I know my own body and know how I feel when I'm bloated, I took that picture when I just woke up this morning. No need to try to "burst my bubble" honey. Thanks for your opinion though:)
Sweetheart, this is not an opinion. It's a scientific fact that it is impossible for you to show anything except bloat. Mayba try reading a book on pregnancy to educate yourself a little more
"bully ˈbʊli/ verb use superior strength or influence to intimidate (someone)"
This is how you come across to me. Just because you have 'been there and done that', it does not give you the right to talk down to people in an intimidating and rude manner.
I regret joining this community. I came on here excited to share my news and speak to other excited mummy-to-bes. Now I am close to tears at an already emotional time.
Oh seriously ...now we have a GBCBer.
I don't care who you are, you are not going to be showing at 6 weeks pregnant, not even Octomom. It is bloat, plain and simple. Yes, the bloat is there because you're pregnant, but it most certainly is not baby. I'm not going to lie and write "OMG ... squeeeee... YES! You're definitely showing at 6 weeks!" just because that's what you want to hear and if that makes me a bully then whatever. If you think that you're showing anything but bloat this early then good for you, you can continue to think that, but don't go around spreading false information to other people because it's just not possible.
I don't get why you guys care so much that she thinks she's showing?!! She's excited! Let the girl be excited. How does it effect you one way or the other?
I clearly said I was wrong and misinformed since this is my first pregnancy, I'm 19 and have no one to turn to. Clearly it was a mistake turning into a site where people are just going make fun of me for being a new young mom and not knowing. So to those making fun of me, keep it going, I stopped commenting a long time ago but you guys decided to keep making fun of it. Some people just don't have a heart. I'm 8 weeks and 5 days, if I'm not showing then okay, I get it. Everything else was unnecessary, yeah I cried for everything some people said and I don't care to admit that. Like I said, it was a mistake turning to people who don't even know what I'm going through, won't happen again, I rather be on my own then be made fun of for a Simple mistake. Congrats to you all though for your babies. And thanks to those who tried defending me.
I feel the exact same way! I'm 5w 4d and after I eat I have a little belly. Right now I feel like my co workers and friends probably think I'm gaining weight lol no symptoms but absolutely exhausted all the time! My husband and I can't wait to tell everyone since this is our first
This is my first pregnancy too and I am about 8 weeks 4 days along. It's hard to tell if I am gaining weight or bloating or whatever it is. Its all so exciting anyway!
Re: First pregnancy... Showing?!
Sweetheart, this is not an opinion. It's a scientific fact that it is impossible for you to show anything except bloat.
Mayba try reading a book on pregnancy to educate yourself a little more