Crazy paranoid jealous

sakiraharrison

over the past week I have been overly sensitive and jealous and suspicious that my boyfriend is cheating, which is actually stupid seeing that we live with mil who adores me and there's only 3 afternoons a week that I don't see him because of work schedule. I have the fact that I keep questioning his whereabouts and calling him and repeatedly asking if he loves me. He's let me go through his phone and all social media, and before and up until a week ago I trusted him totally. I hate blaming hormones and I hate riding him like a physco. I adore him and I know that he's being understanding, but it's driving ME crazy, so I know under the "Baby, I understand" is some teeth gritting. Advice to help put me at ease would be great!!

Cupcakequeen1000

Best advice i can give is that it is probably hormones, no reason to distrust him if he hasn't done it before. He is letting you go through his phone & social media that's a great sign. This is how i view it since i have been cheated on by my EX. ( i am a one chance kinda girl and divorced him right away) With my now husband i still dont worry about it he knows he only gets one chance with me and not to screw it up. If it happens it happens whats the worst ? Your heartbroken and leave his butt. I know that sounds horrible but thats how i view it because i choose not to live everyday worrying about this stuff. Try to cherish the relationship you have with him everyday.
What you fear you create so be careful with to much dwelling on it, he is understanding now but may not always be if you dwell on it. Hope this helps some!! >:D<

bpv101283

I know it's tough, but it is hormones. And you just need to cut him some slack. Remember he is going through a lot emotionally too. Maybe give yourself some pep talks and honestly lay off checking his phone and social media, it just comes off as you are treating him like a criminal.

nikkidavis421

I agree with the previous posters. It's more than likely hormones and if he's letting you go through his phone and social media, then he has nothing to hide. If my husband asked to go through my phone and social media sites to make sure I wasn't hiding anything, I would be furious to think that he doesn't trust me and it would probably ruin our marriage. With that being said, be careful that you're not being too "nosey" to the point where you'll end up pushing him away! It sounds like the two of you have a great relationship and it would suck for something like that to ruin it. Good luck!