My husband and I have talked about babies, but I have voiced I want to lose weight before we have kids. I am 5'5" and 190 lbs. I know some bigger woman can have kids and they are completely healthy, and I don't think losing weight is an absolute requirement (though something I would like just in general). I would like to be around the 130-140 mark. I'm not asking 'Oh what should I do?' but I guess what is your take on this? Should I go ahead and lose the weight, or just not worry about it too much?