Never once has an abortion even been mentioned to me. I cannot figure out why they would even bring it up. But for your health and the health of your baby/babies you need to get it done soon.
They bring it up because unlike twins multiples in the 4s,5s + come with a lot of extra issues and health problems. Many people for their own health, the babies and even for monetary reasons abort additional fetuses. And like this poster said. . .
doctors need to present you with all possible benefits, risks, and outcomes of any medical situation. why wouldn't they tell you everything...dont take it personally...doctors respect their patient's decisions...but when something goes wrong everyone would be suing these same doctors if they didn't tell you all your options or warn you about potential complications. i don't really see why they can't just do their job without judgement.
DS #1 Born 01/23/09 Married 03/18/10 DS #2 Born 05/19/11 DS #3 Due 07/26/15
I was thinking, is there a catholic hospital near you? Catholic doctrine is pro life so the hospital won't recommend aborting any of the babies. To go to a catholic hospital there is no need to be catholic, they accept anybody, any religion.
Haven't read past this comment yet. I'm going to a catholic hospital for my 3 babies and with all 3 they have told me I needed to do the testing for Down syndrome before 17 weeks so we can abort if I chose too. I always wait till 18 weeks just cause I'm stubborn. But mostly because I don't ever want to have that convo with my doctor and have them try to talk my husband and I in to it.
Re: Ultrasound rant
Married 03/18/10
DS #2 Born 05/19/11
DS #3 Due 07/26/15
I'm going to a catholic hospital for my 3 babies and with all 3 they have told me I needed to do the testing for Down syndrome before 17 weeks so we can abort if I chose too. I always wait till 18 weeks just cause I'm stubborn. But mostly because I don't ever want to have that convo with my doctor and have them try to talk my husband and I in to it.