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clumsysteff

I appologize for misunderstanding where to post my question and I am sorry for any offense I have caused. It was truly not my intention and I think your rudeness was unnecessary. 

O2girl

Thoughts? I think this is the most insensitive post in the history of the bump. Why would you bring your BFP and fucking pee stick to a forum full of grieving women? You're coming across as a horribly insensitive person. There is a million reasons I don't post here anymore.... And shit like this is number 1!!! I'm glad you got KU... Go show your pee stick to the doctor and ask them, because nobody here has any idea what is going on in your UTE!

clumsysteff

@O2girl I am so sorry. I truly did not mean to be insensitive. Did you even read my post? I had a miscarriage 6 weeks ago and I too am grieving that loss. This is the ttc after loss board and that's is exactly what I am doing. I'm a confused about why it's not appropriate to post about my confusion about ttc after a loss on the ttc after loss board. But maybe I'm just being ignorant? I am new to the board and maybe misunderstood it's purpose. I was honestly just wondering if anyone else ttc after a loss had experienced what I am going through right now as I am very confused.

kreardon11

GO TO PREGNANT AFTER A LOSS. PGAL. NO ONE IS PREGNANT HERE. 

kreardon11

OR CALL YOUR DOCTOR

rmpar29

As soon as you get a BFFP you aren't TRYING anymore, therefore it is completely inappropiate to post about it here.  Go rub your pee stick in the faces on PGAL who are actually pregnant.

O2girl

I read your post.... I realize you had a mc.... Reality.... You should know better IMO considering. Would you walk into a support group waving your pee stick? We are all hoping to get KTFU, but because we understand how horrible grief is.... We carefully weigh what we announce and to whom. I hurt every.fucking.day. I may never have the rainbow I want. But even if I do manage to get KU I wouldn't come into a group of grieving women and announce my success.... Especially as callously as you did. Social graces and common sense should have told you that doing that was not COOL.

O2girl

clumsysteff said:

I appologize for misunderstanding where to post my question and I am sorry for any offense I have caused. It was truly not my intention and I think your rudeness was unnecessary. 

Ummmm honesty is never rude... Posting pee sticks to a forum for grieving women is.... But hey think what you want.

rslh10

clumsysteff said:

I appologize for misunderstanding where to post my question and I am sorry for any offense I have caused. It was truly not my intention and I think your rudeness was unnecessary. 

I think your original post was unnessacary. Just FY-fucking-I.

O2girl

clumsysteff said:

@O2girl I am so sorry. I truly did not mean to be insensitive. Did you even read my post? I had a miscarriage 6 weeks ago and I too am grieving that loss. This is the ttc after loss board and that's is exactly what I am doing. I'm a confused about why it's not appropriate to post about my confusion about ttc after a loss on the ttc after loss board. But maybe I'm just being ignorant? I am new to the board and maybe misunderstood it's purpose. I was honestly just wondering if anyone else ttc after a loss had experienced what I am going through right now as I am very confused.

Also.... Because I now have more time to digest this bs...
6 weeks ago? So you are telling me that you had sex and got KU 2 weeks after your mc? I call bs. And shame on you for not waiting because you should have been waiting at least a cycle of not more.
Plusalso.... In your DD'd post (super frowned upon and I have a good memory) you said that you took a test the DAY AFTER your AF ended? WTAF? Who tests the day after their AF? I'm really confused by this. Plusalso... Did you have your beta tracked to zero? If not, you could have caused this shit storm for even less of a reason because you might still either a. Have a baby still in there(???) or b. Still have HC motherfucking G in your system!!!! Damn. I fully cannot believe what this place has turned into!!!

1stbambino

@clumsysteff seriously do some research. This was beyond an inappropriate post for this board. Loss is unbearable with IRL triggers without this bullshit. also just because you don't like the responses doesn't make them "unnecessary". Maybe try to look at it from their perspective. also go to the fucking doctor instead of asking Internet strangers for medical advice.

kreardon11

1stbambino said:

@clumsysteff seriously do some research. This was beyond an inappropriate post for this board. Loss is unbearable with IRL triggers without this bullshit. also just because you don't like the responses doesn't make them "unnecessary". Maybe try to look at it from their perspective. also go to the fucking doctor instead of asking Internet strangers for medical advice.

:::waves arms:::

Preach!

crimpgirl

clumsysteff said:

@O2girl I am so sorry. I truly did not mean to be insensitive. Did you even read my post? I had a miscarriage 6 weeks ago and I too am grieving that loss. This is the ttc after loss board and that's is exactly what I am doing. I'm a confused about why it's not appropriate to post about my confusion about ttc after a loss on the ttc after loss board. But maybe I'm just being ignorant? I am new to the board and maybe misunderstood it's purpose. I was honestly just wondering if anyone else ttc after a loss had experienced what I am going through right now as I am very confused.

It's not appropriate to come here and brag about your good luck of getting pregnant again because we aren't pregnant yet.

I lost my baby almost 6 months ago. Do you have any clue what that's like? How horrible it is to see people graduate off this board who've been here less time? I'm happy for them, but it is a huge blow to take.

You were insanely insensitive in your actions. I may never get a rainbow and you come here and shove yours in my face and then call others rude?

rslh10

Thank sweet baby Jesus for PB.