This weekly check-in is for anyone using/considering or who has used a 3rd party method of reproduction, including: Donor egg, donor sperm, embryo adoption, gestation carrier, or surrogate - also Donors, GC's and surrogates are welcome as well! If you don't check-in for 3 weeks you'll be removed from the list but we'll happily add you back next time you check in!
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Check-In: How is it going? What are your next steps?
QOTW: Did you watch the Oscars? If so, what was your favorite Oscars moment?
Currently Cycling/Scheduled @refeek1 – DEg – I hope your FET went well on Friday!! Snuggle in LO’s. FX for an amazing beta tomorrow @Thespis7 – DS – IUI #5= BFN (((Hugs))) Moving forward with IUI #6 @ceemonkey – DEg/DS – transfer scheduled 3/6. Wishing you a lot of Luck!!! @2MamazInSeattle – DEg/DS – TTC # 2 Welcome back lady!!!
Waiting to Cycle @Lacyj67 – DEg – Has AF has shown her ugly face. What has your RE said about everything? I'm so happy to hear the adoption is going well. FX for everything!! @Km672 – DEg/DS – on a break while waiting to consult with Dr. KK. @mm29 – DEg/DS – Looking for a new donor. @chicagobride07 – DEg – FET #5 scheduled March 5th. Your transfer is just around the corner!! @Jzyla - GL at your RE appt Feb. 20 and GL on your research for cycling overseas. When you have time please share what you have learned. @Love4Labs326 – DEm/IP-GS – Welcome back!! Good luck with your new path! @smedina8 - IP-GS – Welcome!!!
Donors/GC’s/Surrogates @CinciSurro – GC – EDD 8/4/15! You haven't checked in for a while. Any updates?
Pregnant! @1220winterbride – DEg – EDD 5/25/15 - It’s a GIRL!!! @IRR - IP-GC -EDD 7/23/15. Feb 13th is just around the corner. I'm so excited to hear what you are having. You haven't checked in for a while. Any updates? @RunCC37 – DEg – EDD 8/4/15. One beautiful little fighter!! Congrats on graduating!! @CinciSurro – GC – BFP!! EDD 8/4/15. Twins. Congratulations x2!!
Parenting @BeckyP005 – DEg – Baby Girl was born 02/3/15! Congratulations!! @DoublePortion – DEm – Boy/Girl twins born on 6/30/14! @e74 – DEm – Twin boys born in 2013! @Lacyj67 – DEg – Parenting foster son! Baby G @2MamazinSeattle – DEg/DS – Baby Simone Louise born on 8/21/14!! @datingbettyboop – IP-GC – Baby Girl was born 02/10/15! Congratulations!!
::: Married June 2003::: TTC #1 since: Aug. 2008 Me: 34, DOR, MTHFR-A1298C (heterozygous), decreased blood flow to uterus, Mild Endo DH: 38, Balanced translocation 5&10, unexplained MFI, normal SA and SCSA Tx History: IUI 1&2= BFN IVF# 1 W/ICSI= BFN IVF# 2: cancelled d/t no response IVF# 3= 1 egg retrieved=immature/not viable IVF# 4= c/p ***CCRM ODWU*** Found DHs BT and Me-decreased blood flow to uterus Recommended DE IVF w/PGD, incorporate electro-acupuncture. Decided to cycle locally ***New RE*** DE IVF# 1(cycle #6) w/pgd, (freeze all): 30R, 23M, 15F, slow/poor embryo development, 4 biopsied, 1 Normal "Norm"; DE IVF w/PGD, incorporate electro-acupuncture. IVF# 6: (OE/DS) cancelled IVF# 7: (OE/DS) 1R, 1M, 1F, arrested day 5 Plan-DE IVF# 2 (cycle #8): DE/DS in May 2015
Today is my ticker change to Week #27!! Freaky. after so many years of trying this is...surreal. but, We are definitely ready to meet this little baby Girl.
I did my Glucose Test last week . No results yet so I am assuming that no news equals Good News!
I have another Ultrasound appt next week to check my cervical length.
I started shopping. 1st was a pair of Freshly Picked mocs.
Then I've bought a few pairs of shoes and sleep sacks I saw on super great sale prices. I NEED to pull the trigger on a crib, bedding, etc. Our nursery still looks like a guest room and that needs to change before i get too tired, etc. & a few people have gotten us stuff from the registry. (Diaper bag!!)
i watched just a few minutes of the show but I watched the Red carpet b/c I LOVE the gowns... My favorite was the red Rosamund Pike. & her Shoes. perfect perfect
2 Corinthians 12:9 But he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me.
Update: my donor goes in today so we should have an update later on with an exact transfer date, I hope. Still planning on 3/6 until then!
QOTW: I only watched the last couple minutes of the Oscars because I had a lot of family in town this weekend for my parents' 50th wedding anniversary party. We all went to dinner last night and by the time we got home it was mostly over. I like looking at the gowns too - the rest of it I can take it or leave it.
SAIF Always Welcome
TTC #1 since Fall 2008
High FSH, Sertoli Cell Only Syndrome
Unsuccessful with my OE, moving to DE + DS
DE + DS IVF #1: Dec 2012 - BFP, nothing at first u/s
DE + DS IVF #2: 3/14/13 - c/p
DE + DS IVF #3: 7/12/13 - BFP! Finally! No heartbeat at 7w1d.
DE + DS IVF #4: 5/16/14 - BFN
DE + DS IVF #5: 9/3/14 - BFP at 5.5dp5dt, Beta 1 @ 9dp5dt: 438; hb of 133 at 6w5d, no hb at 7w1d
DE + DS IVF #6: 3/3/15 - BFN on HPTs through 7dp5dt, Beta 1 @ 8dp5dt: 19, Beta 2 @ 10dp5dt: 76, nothing at u/s
You miss 100% of the shots you don't take - Wayne Gretzky
Hi. Got my betas. 1st one on 2/21 was 17.7 and today's was 8.51. Another failure for me. I have one more chance at an FET with this donor. We are looking at ways to fund another donor if this last FET doesn't work.
QOTW: I didn't watch the Oscars this year.
I hope you all have a nice week.
TTC #1 since May 2010
OE IVF #1 9/2/13Cancelled- poor response
DE IVF #1 3/12/14- BFP 3/17/14- ectopic, right tube removed 4/11/14 @ 7 weeks
DE FET #1 7/3/14-Transferred 2 5AA 6 day embryos Beta 7/13/14 BFN
DE FET #2 9/5/14-Transferred 2 4BB 5 day embryos Beta 9/15/14 BFN
DE FET #3 in December- Cancelled, didn't respond to meds
DE FET #3 (2nd try) 2/13/15- Transferred 1 4BB and 1 4BA 5 day embryos Beta 2/23/15 BFN again (CP)
DE FET #4 - last 2 frosties....5/22/15- Transferred 1 4BA embryo...only one frostie thawed properly. Beta scheduled for 6/1- BFN (beta 2, 2.81, 6, 23, 49.4) 6/15/15 Discovered ectopic in left tube. Methotrexate given. Moving on to a new donor. Hoping to transfer by the end of the year.
Cant find a donor that is healthy and available. Looking at being happy with just the two of us.
ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
Met with RE 4/11.
2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do
"shared" program.
Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months.
Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive. Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)
DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!
17 weeks tomorrow and feeling okay. Twins is a lot different than a singleton so far with me - I feel like I'm 7-8 months and everything is amplified. The parents are planning their trip here for sometime in June. I have to schedule monthly growth ultrasounds starting mid-March through the end so that's pretty exciting.
My dream job at my company is available and I've applied for it, but it's back in my hometown 3 hours away and requires relocation. No idea how to juggle that possibility, the babies and their parents, my kids in school, my husband is in nursing school... I need a vacation until like September!
Didn't watch the Oscars, may watch some of it tonight. Love NPH!
Mommy to 5, 1st time Gestational Carrier Transfers #1-4 2013/2014 all same DE, all CP Transfer #5 11/16/14, new DE, transferred two fresh 5-day blasts Beta 9dp5dt - 296 Beta 15dp5dt - 6,596! TWINS!! due 8/4/15 Admitted to hospital for preterm labor and 5cm dilated at 32 + 6 Delivered healthy baby girls vaginally at 36 + 4 Baby A 6lb10oz born at 11:58pm Baby B 6lb11oz born at 12:04am (different birthdays!)
@1220winterbride I think no news is good news!! BTW- the red Rosamund Pike was stunning
@ceemonkey I hope your donor is responding well and your transfer is right on tract!!
@CinciSurro I hope you are somehow able to make your dream job work!!
AFM: Still waiting for AF. I've been spotting a little so I think she'll be here soon and I can start BCPs. It will be nice not having to worry if she'll be here in time for my DE/DS cycle in May.
QOTW: Lady Gaga's tribute to Julie Andrew's Sound of Music was phenomenal!! I also enjoyed Patricia Arquette's speech!
::: Married June 2003::: TTC #1 since: Aug. 2008 Me: 34, DOR, MTHFR-A1298C (heterozygous), decreased blood flow to uterus, Mild Endo DH: 38, Balanced translocation 5&10, unexplained MFI, normal SA and SCSA Tx History: IUI 1&2= BFN IVF# 1 W/ICSI= BFN IVF# 2: cancelled d/t no response IVF# 3= 1 egg retrieved=immature/not viable IVF# 4= c/p ***CCRM ODWU*** Found DHs BT and Me-decreased blood flow to uterus Recommended DE IVF w/PGD, incorporate electro-acupuncture. Decided to cycle locally ***New RE*** DE IVF# 1(cycle #6) w/pgd, (freeze all): 30R, 23M, 15F, slow/poor embryo development, 4 biopsied, 1 Normal "Norm"; DE IVF w/PGD, incorporate electro-acupuncture. IVF# 6: (OE/DS) cancelled IVF# 7: (OE/DS) 1R, 1M, 1F, arrested day 5 Plan-DE IVF# 2 (cycle #8): DE/DS in May 2015
2 Corinthians 12:9 But he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me.
@refeek1 sorry this cycle didn't work. Sending ((HUGS))
Not much to report, next U/S where we should find out sex is scheduled for March 6. Spent Saturday with our Surro at her son's fourth birthday party. Amazing how much she has popped in 2 weeks. Informed my boss that me and my direct report are both expecting this summer. Need to start planning for backup soon. 149 days to go. Having a brunch for family for DH's 50th birthday and excited for them to meet our angel. I did not watch the Oscar's but saw plenty of FB posts from a friend that attended.
Failed Matches - December 2012, May 2013, December 2013
Moved on to gestational surrogacy with a family friend who is our angel and due 7/23/15
@refeek1, I'm so sorry. I hope your next FET works!
AFM, I had my suppression check last week and all went well. I started estrogen and have a blood draw Friday, then another next Friday plus lining check. Our thaw date is 3/10, the hopefully we'll have something to transfer. Day 3 is Friday the 13th (!!) or ideally Day 5 is Sunday the 15th. Time is flying.
Just watched a few minutes of the Oscars. Enjoyed Lady Gaga, and always love me some NPH!
Lil'mamaz was born on Aug 21, 2014! She's PERFECT!
It's been a long road to here... Me (43) and J (45) - same sex couple. And we don't feel 40+! June'12 - First RE Visit Sept. '12 - Tubes removed Dec. '12 - Donor Egg/Donor Sperm IVF Cycle - 4 good embies! Dec. '12 - Fresh transfer, BFP! EDD 8/29/13 Mar. '13 - Missed m/c at 16w1d, baby boy stopped growing at 15w4d Loss due to umbilical cord clot...baby was perfect. Jul '13 - FET#1 - c/p Sept. '13 - FET#2 - BFN Dec.' 2, 2013 - FET#3 with our last chance embie - BFP!!! Dec' 26, 2013 - hb!! EDD 8/20/14 with a baby girl! Little S was born on 8/21/14 - 8lb, 14 oz and 20 inches long. We live in Seattle and used SRM for our donor egg IVF cycle
My DH and I are blessed to be expecing our first child through traditional surrogacy. Our due date is 07/19/2015 which puts us at 19w+5d - We have our level 2 ultrasound next wednesday and are so SOO excited to find out the sex of our baby and take a little peek at how much our LO has grown since the last ultrasound at 8w!!! It feels like forever ago!!!
Exciting news! We picked out a name! It will be the same boy or girl: Skyler (Sky)
QOTW: Did you watch the Oscars? If so, what was your favorite Oscars moment?
- I didn't watch it (I always wait for the highlights on youtube lol) Lady Gaga's performance was pretty stunning!
Re: *third-party reproduction check-in* feb 22nd
Qotw: I did not watch the Oscars.
I did my Glucose Test last week . No results yet so I am assuming that no news equals Good News!
My heart is as open as the sky.
Read about it on the blog
2 Corinthians 12:9 But he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me.
SAIF Always Welcome
TTC #1 since Fall 2008
High FSH, Sertoli Cell Only Syndrome
Unsuccessful with my OE, moving to DE + DS
DE + DS IVF #1: Dec 2012 - BFP, nothing at first u/s
DE + DS IVF #3: 7/12/13 - BFP! Finally! No heartbeat at 7w1d.
QOTW: I didn't watch the Oscars this year.
I hope you all have a nice week.
TTC #1 since May 2010
OE IVF #1 9/2/13 Cancelled- poor response
DE IVF #1 3/12/14- BFP 3/17/14- ectopic, right tube removed 4/11/14 @ 7 weeks
DE FET #1 7/3/14-Transferred 2 5AA 6 day embryos Beta 7/13/14 BFN
DE FET #2 9/5/14-Transferred 2 4BB 5 day embryos Beta 9/15/14 BFN
DE FET #3 in December- Cancelled, didn't respond to meds
DE FET #3 (2nd try) 2/13/15- Transferred 1 4BB and 1 4BA 5 day embryos Beta 2/23/15 BFN again (CP)
DE FET #4 - last 2 frosties....5/22/15- Transferred 1 4BA embryo...only one frostie thawed properly. Beta scheduled for 6/1- BFN (beta 2, 2.81, 6, 23, 49.4) 6/15/15 Discovered ectopic in left tube. Methotrexate given. Moving on to a new donor. Hoping to transfer by the end of the year.
Cant find a donor that is healthy and available. Looking at being happy with just the two of us.
ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive. Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)
DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!
Mommy to 5, 1st time Gestational Carrier
Transfers #1-4 2013/2014 all same DE, all CP
Transfer #5 11/16/14, new DE, transferred two fresh 5-day blasts
Beta 9dp5dt - 296 Beta 15dp5dt - 6,596! TWINS!! due 8/4/15
Admitted to hospital for preterm labor and 5cm dilated at 32 + 6
Delivered healthy baby girls vaginally at 36 + 4
Baby A 6lb10oz born at 11:58pm
Baby B 6lb11oz born at 12:04am
(different birthdays!)
::: Married June 2003:::
TTC #1 since: Aug. 2008
Me: 34, DOR, MTHFR-A1298C (heterozygous), decreased blood flow to uterus, Mild Endo
DH: 38, Balanced translocation 5&10, unexplained MFI, normal SA and SCSA
Tx History: IUI 1&2= BFN
IVF# 1 W/ICSI= BFN
IVF# 2: cancelled d/t no response
IVF# 3= 1 egg retrieved=immature/not viable
IVF# 4= c/p
***CCRM ODWU***
Found DHs BT and Me-decreased blood flow to uterus
Recommended DE IVF w/PGD, incorporate electro-acupuncture. Decided to cycle locally
***New RE***
DE IVF# 1(cycle #6) w/pgd, (freeze all): 30R, 23M, 15F, slow/poor embryo development, 4 biopsied, 1 Normal "Norm"; DE IVF w/PGD, incorporate electro-acupuncture.
IVF# 6: (OE/DS) cancelled
IVF# 7: (OE/DS) 1R, 1M, 1F, arrested day 5
Plan-DE IVF# 2 (cycle #8): DE/DS in May 2015
http://icanhazbabyz.blogspot.com/
My heart is as open as the sky.
Read about it on the blog
2 Corinthians 12:9 But he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me.
AFM, I had my suppression check last week and all went well. I started estrogen and have a blood draw Friday, then another next Friday plus lining check. Our thaw date is 3/10, the hopefully we'll have something to transfer. Day 3 is Friday the 13th (!!) or ideally Day 5 is Sunday the 15th. Time is flying.
Just watched a few minutes of the Oscars. Enjoyed Lady Gaga, and always love me some NPH!
Me (43) and J (45) - same sex couple. And we don't feel 40+!
June'12 - First RE Visit
Sept. '12 - Tubes removed
Dec. '12 - Donor Egg/Donor Sperm IVF Cycle - 4 good embies!
Dec. '12 - Fresh transfer, BFP! EDD 8/29/13
Mar. '13 - Missed m/c at 16w1d, baby boy stopped growing at 15w4d
Loss due to umbilical cord clot...baby was perfect.
Jul '13 - FET#1 - c/p
Sept. '13 - FET#2 - BFN
Dec.' 2, 2013 - FET#3 with our last chance embie - BFP!!!
Dec' 26, 2013 - hb!!
EDD 8/20/14 with a baby girl!
Little S was born on 8/21/14 - 8lb, 14 oz and 20 inches long.
We live in Seattle and used SRM for our donor egg IVF cycle
Waving Hello to everyone!
My DH and I are blessed to be expecing our first child through traditional surrogacy. Our due date is 07/19/2015 which puts us at 19w+5d - We have our level 2 ultrasound next wednesday and are so SOO excited to find out the sex of our baby and take a little peek at how much our LO has grown since the last ultrasound at 8w!!! It feels like forever ago!!!
Exciting news! We picked out a name! It will be the same boy or girl: Skyler (Sky)