TTC after 35

TWW Post for week 02/09

Welcome to this week's edition for the TWW!!!  This is for anyone who is entering the TWW this week or is in their TWW.

Where are you in the TWW?  When will you test?  Any phantom symptoms?  

QFTTWW:  Any Valentines day plans?
****Siggy Warning***
~Formerly ABabyMabe4us



Me(35) Him(35) Untied for life 4/1/2015.
TTC Our 1st since 8/2014
MC @ 7 weeks 5/2014
Me: DD#1 3/2000, DD#2 6/2001, DS 5/2003
BFP: 2/19/2015 EDD: 11/1/2015 IT'S A BOY!!!!

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Re: TWW Post for week 02/09

  • I'm 10DPO and my period is due tomorrow or Wednesday. If nothing by Wednesday am, I'll test with a FRER.

    For Valentine's Day, we avoid the hoopla and cook a nice dinner at home. We usually make fun cocktails or have champagne, but since I'm starting IUI (if this cycle doesn't take), I'm limited to one drink a day. I told DH to learn some fun mocktail recipes.
    Me: 38 DH: 40 TTC#1 (and likely only) since 9/13. Saw RE 5/14, SA good, AMH 2.36, FSH 7.2, estradiol 69.6 indicating good egg reserve. Using OPKs. First Letrozole cycle 6/14, a burst cyst and a BFN. Second Letrozole cycle 7/14, BFN. 

    Update 11/14 - had laparoscopy 10/28, good news is that my uterus and left tube look good, and they were able to drain the cyst on my left ovary. Bad news is that right tube and ovary have endo and scar tissue, so they're pretty useless.. Best news is that we finally have some answers and a path forward. Taking 7.5 mg letrozole CD 2-6 to put that good left ovary through its paces. 

    UPDATE 2/2015 - We switched to another fertility clinic, but fortunately we don't have to start all over. We're doing two cycles of Clomid plus IUI, if neither of those take, we'll do IVF in April, potentially with ICSI. (DH's SA has gone downhill, likely due to excessive exercise.) IUI#1 2/25/15....
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  • 10DPIUI, I think 9 DPO but not sure exactly. I tested on Saturday and today and the trigger is out of my system. My tests are stark white, which I guess is normal, but part of me is discouraged.  My official test day is Wednesday morning, so we will see. So feeling not too optimistic. If this fails we are moving to IUI 2.

    Valentine's- We do nothing.  I have never really liked it and we don't buy cards or anything.  I might do something goofy and buy DH a 'treat' at the grocery store but that's it. 

    @austrogermokee I haven't 'seen' you in awhile.  Good luck on your POAS day, I'm with ya.

  • emsmama15emsmama15 member
    edited February 2015
    @kindershlitz - that stark white HPT is so discouraging.  It's WAY early though!!  Everything is crossed for you IUI buddy! :)

    Edit: STARK not start.  Spelling is so hard!! :)
    *** Child & current pregnancy mentioned ***
    Me - 41 (PCOS), Hubby - 43 (healthy)
    7/2013 - Sweet baby girl born (Clomid + TI)
    3/2014 - TTC #2, return to RE 7/2014
    12/2015: IVF #1 transferred two great looking embryos - BFP!
    First ultrasound: TWO beautiful little heartbeats!!
    Harmony: negative; level 2: babies look great and are boy/girl! :) 
  • It's good to be here! I sometimes take breaks because I feel like IF takes over my life too much. I've been trying to be more relaxed and optimistic.
    Me: 38 DH: 40 TTC#1 (and likely only) since 9/13. Saw RE 5/14, SA good, AMH 2.36, FSH 7.2, estradiol 69.6 indicating good egg reserve. Using OPKs. First Letrozole cycle 6/14, a burst cyst and a BFN. Second Letrozole cycle 7/14, BFN. 

    Update 11/14 - had laparoscopy 10/28, good news is that my uterus and left tube look good, and they were able to drain the cyst on my left ovary. Bad news is that right tube and ovary have endo and scar tissue, so they're pretty useless.. Best news is that we finally have some answers and a path forward. Taking 7.5 mg letrozole CD 2-6 to put that good left ovary through its paces. 

    UPDATE 2/2015 - We switched to another fertility clinic, but fortunately we don't have to start all over. We're doing two cycles of Clomid plus IUI, if neither of those take, we'll do IVF in April, potentially with ICSI. (DH's SA has gone downhill, likely due to excessive exercise.) IUI#1 2/25/15....
  • Thanks @emsmama15 I know I am being crazy but it doesn't stop me from being crazy :)

    Any better news from the beta? FX

  • Beta was negative.  :(  I was ready for it and told my favorite NP that I wasn't surprised.  She replied that SHE was surprised and she was starting to get frustrated FOR me.  That's when I started bawling.  So discouraged...

    Bright side, Walgreens called.  We're doing all injects next cycle and they called in Bravelle (not covered by my insurance at all - upward of $600 for all doses), Follistim ($180 for all doses through my insurance), and Gonal-F (FREE!! Because I've met my max out of pocket for formulary drugs this year - Yikes - but still).  Guess I'm going with the Gonal-F.
    *** Child & current pregnancy mentioned ***
    Me - 41 (PCOS), Hubby - 43 (healthy)
    7/2013 - Sweet baby girl born (Clomid + TI)
    3/2014 - TTC #2, return to RE 7/2014
    12/2015: IVF #1 transferred two great looking embryos - BFP!
    First ultrasound: TWO beautiful little heartbeats!!
    Harmony: negative; level 2: babies look great and are boy/girl! :) 
  • I'm CD17 of a 22ish day cycle. Period should be here by Sunday the latest. Not very optimistic this month because we only had sex once this month. DH is having a lot is stress/anxiety lately and unfortunately he has no desire for sex during these times.

      Me:39, DH:40

    DD born 8/96, DS born 8/04

    TTC#3

    NTNP since 2006, active trying 1/13

    Natural M/C 3/13 at 7 weeks

    CP 2/14

    Daisypath Anniversary tickers

             imageimage

    All welcome

  • @emsmama15 :( but hopefully the new injectables will help!!
  • I am 7 dpo today. No symptoms....af should be due by Sunday....so knowing my luck I will get a unhappy Valentine's day gift of a drop in temp.....but here's hoping for a more positive outcome! Literally!!
  • @emsmama15 sorry I was holding out hope for you! I'm disappointed for you. 
    @kinderschlitz I asked about your testing on a different post then got here and saw your answer. Fingers crossed for you IUI buddy. 
    @hooligans4 it's such a bummer when you have those kind of months. I've had a few of those where we just didn't get to it at the right time. :(
    @austrogermokee Good luck! Hope AF stays away and your frer is +
    @smd1225 Hopefully you will have a Valentine surprise!

    I'm 10dpIUI. I tested Friday night = a shadow +. Barely there but I'm chalking that up to the trigger not completely gone. BC I tested this morning with a BFN. Beta is on Friday morning.
    I'm having very sensitive boobs which has been much more common since I started taking clomid.

    We're going to do a nice dinner on Sunday to skip all the craziness of Valentine's night. Could be a great weekend or kind of a bummer.
    Fingers crossed for all of you ladies> XOXO
     
    ****Loss Mentioned***
    Me: 41 Him: 41
    TTC since December 2013
    HSG 9/18/14 = Tubes open but T shaped uterus
    IUI #1... 1/6/2015 + 50mg Clomid = BFN
    IUI #2... 1/29 & 30/2015 + 50mg Clomid +Tigger +Progesterone = BFN
    3/14 BFFP! Natural w/acupuncture & herbs only
    EDD = 11/22/15;  No heartbeat = 7/21/15
    Cooper Midnight Johnson born sleeping 7/25/2015



    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
  • I'm actually feeling a wee bit optimistic, my temps are still above coverline (they've usually started dropping by now), except for a dip on 8DPO. But I'm probably just in denial that we're going to have to do IUI and maybe IVF (this is our last Femara and TI cycle).
    Me: 38 DH: 40 TTC#1 (and likely only) since 9/13. Saw RE 5/14, SA good, AMH 2.36, FSH 7.2, estradiol 69.6 indicating good egg reserve. Using OPKs. First Letrozole cycle 6/14, a burst cyst and a BFN. Second Letrozole cycle 7/14, BFN. 

    Update 11/14 - had laparoscopy 10/28, good news is that my uterus and left tube look good, and they were able to drain the cyst on my left ovary. Bad news is that right tube and ovary have endo and scar tissue, so they're pretty useless.. Best news is that we finally have some answers and a path forward. Taking 7.5 mg letrozole CD 2-6 to put that good left ovary through its paces. 

    UPDATE 2/2015 - We switched to another fertility clinic, but fortunately we don't have to start all over. We're doing two cycles of Clomid plus IUI, if neither of those take, we'll do IVF in April, potentially with ICSI. (DH's SA has gone downhill, likely due to excessive exercise.) IUI#1 2/25/15....
  • I'm CD20 4dpo - according to opk's and temps.  Yes! I'm finally temping on FF!  I'm feeling hopeful, but we had to work around avoiding BD for HSG and SA, so we only got 2 attempts in this time around.  I was just told by RE, our chances of conceiving naturally are slim because of my PCOS so I'm not going to psych myself out this time around.   I did, however, up my Metformin ER dose to 1000mg. 
    I want to test on Vday just to do it and will wait for AF after that. 

    We are staying in for Valentines Dinner and making our own awesome dinner! 
    **child mentioned**
    Me(38)PCOS/Hypothyroid   DH(43)Low T/ED
    MMC at 10 weeks 03/2011 DD born 01/2012   TTC #2 since 04/2014
    BFP 8/26/2016


  • I am 7 dpiui and just praying for patience. Has anyone done a FRER as early as 8 dpiui? I have been lightheaded and dizzy the last few days, but no other symptoms.
  • ...and I'm out. On to Iui!
    Me: 38 DH: 40 TTC#1 (and likely only) since 9/13. Saw RE 5/14, SA good, AMH 2.36, FSH 7.2, estradiol 69.6 indicating good egg reserve. Using OPKs. First Letrozole cycle 6/14, a burst cyst and a BFN. Second Letrozole cycle 7/14, BFN. 

    Update 11/14 - had laparoscopy 10/28, good news is that my uterus and left tube look good, and they were able to drain the cyst on my left ovary. Bad news is that right tube and ovary have endo and scar tissue, so they're pretty useless.. Best news is that we finally have some answers and a path forward. Taking 7.5 mg letrozole CD 2-6 to put that good left ovary through its paces. 

    UPDATE 2/2015 - We switched to another fertility clinic, but fortunately we don't have to start all over. We're doing two cycles of Clomid plus IUI, if neither of those take, we'll do IVF in April, potentially with ICSI. (DH's SA has gone downhill, likely due to excessive exercise.) IUI#1 2/25/15....
  • BOO!! I am sorry @austrogermokee and @kindershlitz
    ****Siggy Warning***
    ~Formerly ABabyMabe4us



    Me(35) Him(35) Untied for life 4/1/2015.
    TTC Our 1st since 8/2014
    MC @ 7 weeks 5/2014
    Me: DD#1 3/2000, DD#2 6/2001, DS 5/2003
    BFP: 2/19/2015 EDD: 11/1/2015 IT'S A BOY!!!!

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  • I'm sorry @kindershlitz (I was still hopeful this would be it).  Also sorry @austrogermokee.  Bright side - you can join our little IUI club - membership is limited and no one really wants to be here.  :) 
    *** Child & current pregnancy mentioned ***
    Me - 41 (PCOS), Hubby - 43 (healthy)
    7/2013 - Sweet baby girl born (Clomid + TI)
    3/2014 - TTC #2, return to RE 7/2014
    12/2015: IVF #1 transferred two great looking embryos - BFP!
    First ultrasound: TWO beautiful little heartbeats!!
    Harmony: negative; level 2: babies look great and are boy/girl! :) 
  • Boo that so many are out.
    We need some bfp

      Me:39, DH:40

    DD born 8/96, DS born 8/04

    TTC#3

    NTNP since 2006, active trying 1/13

    Natural M/C 3/13 at 7 weeks

    CP 2/14

    Daisypath Anniversary tickers

             imageimage

    All welcome

  • omg, i've been so out of the loop these last few weeks because work has been crazy!!! Just wanted to pop in and say hi and good luck to all of you in your 2ww. I think we're at 10dpo today. I hope to hear good news from somebody this time around!
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  • @kinderschlitz I'm so sorry I was so hoping for you!!! @austrogermokee I'm so sorry! That makes me sad.  :((
    ****Loss Mentioned***
    Me: 41 Him: 41
    TTC since December 2013
    HSG 9/18/14 = Tubes open but T shaped uterus
    IUI #1... 1/6/2015 + 50mg Clomid = BFN
    IUI #2... 1/29 & 30/2015 + 50mg Clomid +Tigger +Progesterone = BFN
    3/14 BFFP! Natural w/acupuncture & herbs only
    EDD = 11/22/15;  No heartbeat = 7/21/15
    Cooper Midnight Johnson born sleeping 7/25/2015



    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
  • And I'm out.
    ****Loss Mentioned***
    Me: 41 Him: 41
    TTC since December 2013
    HSG 9/18/14 = Tubes open but T shaped uterus
    IUI #1... 1/6/2015 + 50mg Clomid = BFN
    IUI #2... 1/29 & 30/2015 + 50mg Clomid +Tigger +Progesterone = BFN
    3/14 BFFP! Natural w/acupuncture & herbs only
    EDD = 11/22/15;  No heartbeat = 7/21/15
    Cooper Midnight Johnson born sleeping 7/25/2015



    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
  • I'm sorry @Teenie16‌!
    *** Child & current pregnancy mentioned ***
    Me - 41 (PCOS), Hubby - 43 (healthy)
    7/2013 - Sweet baby girl born (Clomid + TI)
    3/2014 - TTC #2, return to RE 7/2014
    12/2015: IVF #1 transferred two great looking embryos - BFP!
    First ultrasound: TWO beautiful little heartbeats!!
    Harmony: negative; level 2: babies look great and are boy/girl! :) 
  • hooligans4hooligans4 member
    edited February 2015
    :(

      Me:39, DH:40

    DD born 8/96, DS born 8/04

    TTC#3

    NTNP since 2006, active trying 1/13

    Natural M/C 3/13 at 7 weeks

    CP 2/14

    Daisypath Anniversary tickers

             imageimage

    All welcome

  • @flyliceandcoffee‌ Congratulations! So excited for you!
    ****Loss Mentioned***
    Me: 41 Him: 41
    TTC since December 2013
    HSG 9/18/14 = Tubes open but T shaped uterus
    IUI #1... 1/6/2015 + 50mg Clomid = BFN
    IUI #2... 1/29 & 30/2015 + 50mg Clomid +Tigger +Progesterone = BFN
    3/14 BFFP! Natural w/acupuncture & herbs only
    EDD = 11/22/15;  No heartbeat = 7/21/15
    Cooper Midnight Johnson born sleeping 7/25/2015



    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
  • Congratulations @flyliceandcoffee‌!
    *** Child & current pregnancy mentioned ***
    Me - 41 (PCOS), Hubby - 43 (healthy)
    7/2013 - Sweet baby girl born (Clomid + TI)
    3/2014 - TTC #2, return to RE 7/2014
    12/2015: IVF #1 transferred two great looking embryos - BFP!
    First ultrasound: TWO beautiful little heartbeats!!
    Harmony: negative; level 2: babies look great and are boy/girl! :) 
  • Yay @flyliceandcoffee‌!!!!
    We needed a BFP.
    Stick baby flylice, stick.

      Me:39, DH:40

    DD born 8/96, DS born 8/04

    TTC#3

    NTNP since 2006, active trying 1/13

    Natural M/C 3/13 at 7 weeks

    CP 2/14

    Daisypath Anniversary tickers

             imageimage

    All welcome

  • @Teenie16 I am sorry. :(

    @flyliceandcoffee OH MY!!!!  Stick baby stick!  How exciting!!!!
    ****Siggy Warning***
    ~Formerly ABabyMabe4us



    Me(35) Him(35) Untied for life 4/1/2015.
    TTC Our 1st since 8/2014
    MC @ 7 weeks 5/2014
    Me: DD#1 3/2000, DD#2 6/2001, DS 5/2003
    BFP: 2/19/2015 EDD: 11/1/2015 IT'S A BOY!!!!

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  • I am 5 DPO and already going crazy! Trying to stay busy but I cannot wait to test!

    Me: 38 DH: 42.
    Married: 9/2008.
    4/2010 - BFP (Natural)
    12/2010 - DS born.
    8/2014-TTC#2 
    10/2014 BFP
    10/2014 Confirmed MC at 5 weeks
    5/2015 BFP
    8/2015 MMC & D&C at 13 weeks  :'(
    11/2015 BFP then CP at 6 weeks.
    3/2016 Started IVF+PGS
    4/2016 ER, only 5 eggs but 3 Frozen embryos made it to freeze. Only 1 PGS normal embryo.
    DOR
    Hypothyroidism
    MTHFR
    DH Sperm with Chromosomal Issues (high % FISH)
    AMH .65
    8/2016 FET #1 BFN
    9/2016 IVF-ER #2  1 normal embryo.
    11/2016 IVF-ER #3  0 Embryos
    2/2017 FET #2 BFP CP at 6 weeks.
    5/2017  BFP Natural. 3 Betas were ok. First US 5-31-2017. Hope it sticks and is healthy!!


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