I am sorry but i want to rant. I am 23 I have a 6 month old and my DH, DD and i live with my parents and Nana. I am a stay at home mom and i take care of my dying mother who has ALS. My DD had heart surgery in November and untill she turned 6 month i could not take here anyplace. Now because my mom is going down hill so fast someone has to be at home at all times with her who know CPR and my Nana does not and my DH and Dad has to work. I have not seen my friends in months or done anything with friends. I have not been to see a movie since i was pregnant and I watch my mother die more each day. To top it off my brother was visiting with his wife and all they did was yell at us and say we were not take good enought care of my mother and calles every day to ask my Nana if i am doing anything in the house or just sititng on my lazy butt doing nothing. I do all the cooking and most of the cleaning. I take care of a 6 month old and a dying women and do all my own laundry. I handle all the doctors visits and visiting nurses and everything. I am so burnt out and i jusy want to slap my brother. Rant over
Oh my gosh, I am so sorry you are going through all this and then having your brother second guess you care for your mom is heart breaking. Can you invite a friend over for lunch or just a cup of coffee, just to talk a bit?
You are a strong mama! I don't know if I could do all you do. Stay strong and follow your heart! Do the best you can, cause that's all you can do.
Our house has to be germ free so its hard for people to come over. If someone comes who happens to be sick even if they are not showings sings and mom gets sick she can die form a common cold.
Re: I just want to rant!
You are a strong mama! I don't know if I could do all you do. Stay strong and follow your heart! Do the best you can, cause that's all you can do.
I agree with PP about just doing your best. Hang in there!
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