I was with some of my parent friends and they were talking about "that bond" they have with their child... the one where they can tell when the baby is crying for attention, when they need something, how they can tell what their baby needs when they cry... on and on. They were talking about how they believe it is a genetic bond... I don't think they were intentionally trying to say something hurtful, but as a soon to be adoptive father it got me wondering... Will I have that bond with my baby? Can I develop it or is it genetic? Was hoping to hear from some adoptive parents on your feelings.