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Still holding my breath --> Update at bottom

sgb721sgb721 member
edited January 2015 in Adoption
Unfortunately we haven't heard back on the situation our case worker contacted us about. She said she hoped to give us an answer either way sometime this week.

It's really really hard when you feel like your a good fit and you just want things to work out so badly. I just wanted to thank everyone for the positive thoughts!
TTC since June 2010
5 Angels

Lilypie - (hlC0)
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Re: Still holding my breath --> Update at bottom

  • summergirl79summergirl79 member
    Thanks for the update, was thinking of you today and wondering if you had heard anything.   Hoping you hear good news soon! 
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  • leisemomtobeleisemomtobe member
    Good thoughts coming your way!!! <3
    January 2014--Picked Agency, had informational Meeting and turned in Application
    June      2014--Started our Home Study (all paperwork &fingerprinting that ensued)
    August  2014--Finished our Home Study and Officially Waiting


    Lilypie Waiting to Adopt tickers
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  • sgb721sgb721 member
    We heard back from the agency this afternoon. We weren't chosen. I'm not gonna like, I'm really disappointed as we really thought this was it. Tomorrow's another day though and it'll happen when the time is right.
    TTC since June 2010
    5 Angels

    Lilypie - (hlC0)
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  • summergirl79summergirl79 member
    edited January 2015
    Sorry to hear that....hope your match comes soon!  I think I remember you are now working with the national agency we are also working with for a second time. (?) Our first match was under 3 months but now waiting 13+ months this time....the waiting is hard for sure!
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  • lorifromwilorifromwi member

    I'm sorry things didn't work out.  I know the ups and downs are so tough. (hugs)

     

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  • leisemomtobeleisemomtobe member
    I'm sorry things didn't work out. I know exactly how you feel. But like you said, it's a new day! Sending lots of hugs your way!
    January 2014--Picked Agency, had informational Meeting and turned in Application
    June      2014--Started our Home Study (all paperwork &fingerprinting that ensued)
    August  2014--Finished our Home Study and Officially Waiting


    Lilypie Waiting to Adopt tickers
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  • CarolinaGirl2014CarolinaGirl2014 member
    So sorry that this wasn't your baby, SGB. I hope yours comes to you very, very soon.
    Birthmom to A, 1/8- the most beautiful thing I've ever seen.

    A Journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. -Lao-Tzu

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  • erinmc1erinmc1 member
    I'm so sorry.  The wait is so hard and the disappointment of not being selected is its very own brand of misery.  We had 8 rejections.  You are not alone.  
    CatO
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  • Wish Upon A StarWish Upon A Star member
    So sorry! This process can be such an emotional roller coaster.

    (((HUGS)))


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    "Even miracles take a little time"


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  • CaptainSeriousCaptainSerious member
    I'm sorry.  I know it stings.  Be kind to yourself.
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