Questioning my little Isabella

effthisnoise

amooraxo said:

Not this again... didn't she already post this same thing? Ridiculous. This post really pisses me off. 

Can you read? This is the same thread as before, someone just dug it up.

amooraxo

effthisnoise said:

Not this again... didn't she already post this same thing? Ridiculous. This post really pisses me off. 

Can you read? This is the same thread as before, someone just dug it up.

Yes, thank you, I am capable of reading. However, I didn't find it necessary to read through 2 pages of responses to the same original post. Thanks for your unnecessary opinion though!  

Cateash77

My close friend was in a similar situation to you. Her mother convinced her to continue the pregnancy and she now has a truly amazing little 13 yr old man. You are young but with support you can do this, once you have the baby I would be very surprised if you still want to adopt her, but please look into it if you feel you can't have this baby. You will never regret having a child. Give yourself time to truly think this over and talk to your parents. You have a living, hearing, moving little person inside you that needs you to be brave, and start putting yourself and her first.

chey671

Hey I know what you are going through. I have the same problem with my daughter's biological father. Which I am going through the same situation that you are going through. To be honest I thought about the same thing. But I thought about what I went through. I will be giving birth to a very happy little girl. Abrotion is not best thing or giving up your baby for adoption to. What you decide is your decision. I am exactly doing good and getting ready to raise her without her biological father. So my advice to you is do what you think is best for you and your baby but just remember all the outcome it has with it. I wish you very best.

Lynn&Andrew+1

Adoption! My mother was adopted. Years later, like over 30 years later, her birth mother found her and reached out to her. She almost had an abortion. She was on the abortion table and she got up and left. If she hadn't then I wouldn't be here to tell you about it. And my mom had an amazing life. I know you must love your baby. You can give her an amazing life with adoption and there are so many wonderful families waiting to love a child.

chiudo

Really??? Did I hear you say abortion?? ... Listen there are thousands of women out there that will give their life to have that child.

U better grow up!!!!

HoosOnFirst

@chiudo‌ and others need to chill with the judgement here, seriously. The OP never came back, so I'm not even sure why people are continuing to comment here. But the argument that a woman should not ever consider abortion because some other person who is not her might want the baby is such a paternalistic argument, it drives me crazy. Yes, there are many women who can't conceive and would like to adopt. There are many adoptable children out there too. It's fair to mention that to the OP as a consideration, but the Pearl-clutching by folks over the mere-thought of abortion by a woman who is not sure what she wants is annoying to me.

happyangi09

Honestly, I would not trust what you are feeling right now. I have a two year old and a little girl on the way. Both times during pregnancy I have gotten down on the way I feel about having a kid but I know those are my hormones talking. I love my son so much and I had some serious doubts while pregnant with him. This pregnancy too; I am all over the place. Sometimes I feel like it would be better if I hadn't gotten pregnant and other times I can't wait to hold her in my arms and love her. But there is a moment right after you give birth and see your child for the first time that is pure joy. It's very hard to describe the bliss that washes over you. If I had to explain it, I would guess its as close to pure, innocent love and happiness you can feel on this earth. From then on, all those feelings vanish. My experience only. The real question is if it's in the baby's best interest for you to keep her. Even with all the love on the world you could give her, is it enough? Morally, I would think it's too late for abortion but only you know what you can live with and what's best. Kids are hard, but they're worth it

finchfeeder80

People. This thread is almost a month old and the OP never once came back to clarify or answer questions. Please. Let. It. Die. Stop dredging up old threads!!

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