So Confused *Roll Call*

iheartsippycups2

I don't pay attention to who the mods are or what drama is going on with the bump. I am here because I liked the support on 2if, and now here on paif. I have seen some threads of a lot of bumpies leaving to go to another sight, which I'm sure is just whatever topics since it is a mix of boards. I plan to stay here because I don't want to post about paif questions on the other site. I just want to know who is staying here...So post below if you are sticking around... Thanks!

pblge

There are forums over there just like here, including all the special ones, although SAIF and PAIF are combined. This last move by XO is pretty egregious, so there's a good chance these boards are going to get quite quiet for a while.

kmc84

I am there for several boards and it's a ton of the same people!

SAIF/PAIF are now separate boards because nearly all SAIF has transitioned over

1220winterbride

I will be here. I really hope most people stay or peek in. I'd hate to see the support dimished over the mod thing.

AMShark

I'm here for now, but may be fence straddling on both in the near future.

1220winterbride

AMShark said:

I'm here for now, but may be fence straddling on both in the near future.

Me, too! I just feel like I need this board now more than ever. and I also feel like we are just getting to know each other better, like it's getting great! 

bears1011

I'm on the fence too. I don't care what the website is, I just don't want to lose touch with half of this group, which right now is how I feel by picking one place. I'm lurking at the other place but will probably join soon.

weansworld09

I really don't want leave. I love the PAIF community and I was really looking forward to joining SAIF in a few short weeks.
I don't understand why they can't just leave us be! I just keep wondering "what next??"

Nutmeg8484

I have been straddling the fence on this but after everything that has gone on with the Loss/ 3t/IF boards I'm leaning towards saying GBCB. I'm so torn because I don't want to loose touch with anyone but the way TB has been handling things around here is horrific. If you lurk over on IF at all you will know what I'm talking about.
PS: I was going to link a thread that had me in tears reading the heartfelt response to one of the announcements but it seems to have been "lost".

gsancho

I'll probably be on both.  I'm just saying bye to the whole BMB idea and sticking with the 2 PAIF boards.  It will be quiet for a few weeks here...but it is what it is.  

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iheartsippycups2

Any 2if's going over?!

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iheartsippycups2

@hoppin747
@momarazzi007
@sassfrass
@jimbobcooter
@steph1673
@mammalawyer
@cwuredhot
@hoppin747
@cheesypeas
@sailorgal
@bookishmamma

Where are you guys?!

AmCheri

I'm not sure what to do. I'm in limbo. This is my second baby (26w tomorrow). Prior to the first, I was a regular member of IFV. I knew many of the people on PAIF at that time. I so enjoyed the support of this board during my first pregnancy and was hoping to give back more this time as a STM. This board has always been amazing and a safe place, free of the BS often prevalent on the non-IF boards and BMBs. If it stays as quiet as it's been in recent days, that will make it tough because you can't "belong" where no one is. I don't know. Torn.

turquoisequeen

I'll probably do both for awhile. I don't want to lose touch with the PAIF ladies here so unless everyone is moving then I'll look at both places.

alpCRNA

I'm going to do both sites for now.  That way I can keep in touch with everyone.  

sailorgal

I've been posting

CheesyPeas

I'm both places @iheartsippycups2.  The loss board is still here.  My BMB is over there.  So I straddle.

I've seen @jimbobcooter and @bookishmamma over there too.

Lady2010

I am likely staying here - so close to the LO arriving.  I am not sure what I am doing after - haven't decided if I will be here, there, both or none... I really only am on this board and PG>35

BeckyP005

I still need to venture over. I don't post as much but still like to check up on everyone here, TPR board, TTC after 35 and PG>35. I'm in a fb group too. Sometimes that's easier. My bmb is over there.

J&D2007

I really don't pay attention to any politics at all. I've been here for 8 years and I've never once read the rules or had any reason to interact with a mod. I never even really knew the mods existed til recently! While I do feel bad that they were 'fired' for no reason, I just don't want to be involved in any of it. I also do not plan on being active anywhere but here and checking in on IFV. The BMB are way too out of control with the nastiness for me.

lawmom747

I'm here and staying. If you lurk over at 2IF they are staying too. Jodee commented to one of the Tom Riddle posts and said they were just fine and to leave them alone - it is just the Internet. I agree with her. With all this crazy drama it's making me miss the serenity of 2IF. So I hope all the other grads will stay too. I will keep posting the checkin.

And I am enjoying getting to know some of the IF grads and am sad to see them go.

shelbeans82

Hi Ladies.  I am checking in here, though I will probably check in elsewhere as well. 

iheartsippycups2

hoppin747 said:

I'm here and staying. If you lurk over at 2IF they are staying too. Jodee commented to one of the Tom Riddle posts and said they were just fine and to leave them alone - it is just the Internet. I agree with her. With all this crazy drama it's making me miss the serenity of 2IF. So I hope all the other grads will stay too. I will keep posting the checkin.

And I am enjoying getting to know some of the IF grads and am sad to see them go.

Keep posting!!

shelbeans82

Hi Ladies.  I am checking in here, though I will probably check in elsewhere as well. 

iheartsippycups2

Glad to see some of us are staying!

AmCheri

I'm really glad that some of us are sticking around. Here's my background. I've been a regular poster on IF and then IFV for over three years. Once upon a time, I had my lengthy history in my siggy. Dx at 34 years old: DOR, low AMH, high FSH. Four rounds of IVF showed that I'm an awful responder even on max stims. We've had two losses, one from the only IVF cycle where I got pregnant. We were so lucky to have success after our first DE cycle. Our daughter was born in the summer of 2013. Having been told I'd never be able to get pregnant, we were shocked to find out on our 12th wedding anniversary that I'm pregnant again. Baby is doing well and I'm 25w tomorrow. I hope we can reenergize this wonderful board, especially as new women come aboard and need the support.

sorrellam30

I'm still here, I haven't checked out the other site yet but I want to stay and support everyone still here too

JBDamonM

I am also still here!

I have lurked on the other board but am yet to make an account. I really don't know if I want to. I do think that TB handled things really poorly - but at the same time the people "recruiting" left such a bad taste in my  mouth that I don't know if I want to be bothered to make the move.

It's really a shame - I typically post on SAIF - we had a great group and almost everyone jumped

katers79

I'm here still. The other site is hard to navigate! I'll lurk there. I'm definitely not thrilled with that happened to our mods.

MJ14323

I'll be around from time to time. I'm not super super active, but I'm here

sweetpotato123

I'm still here. I agree the other site is hard to navigate through, but I will do both to try and keep up with everyone.

jessimi06

I'm still here periodically and at the other place as well.

cwuredhot

@iheartsuppycups2 I am at both for now. But just MIA from computer and app, trying to come back. Hope all is well!!

Momarazzi007

Sorry lady, I hid out while the smoke cleared. Had a a rough and busy time too w family and h's working overtime. I'm staying here and am glad to see some familiar faces!!!

Julie21613

I'm still here!  I do post (although not for a few days) on the other site.  I guess I'm just more comfortable here.  I go over so I can wave "hi" to my SAIF ladies....(happy you are still here @JBDamonM) and others as well!

My info is in my siggy.  I remember @Amcheri from IFV and PAIF when I was pregnant with DD.  Hope we can wake up this board and SAIF too!

tweetyknicks

I'll check in here every now and then, but I'll probably frequent the other place a little more regularly.

CML11

I don't like the format on the other site, plus it keeps changing my password, then not allowing me to change it so I have to keep registering a new version of my name.
So I'm here!

AmCheri

@Julie21613‌, I'm here and try to check in once a day at least. Really wish it was more active. This board was great when I was pregnant with our first baby. Really helped me keep my sanity as a FTM.