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poohbear033

I have no clue what actually happened or why. I'm not sure I want to know. This loss community has been amazing to me and I appreciate all of the support I was given. It's sad to see everyone go. I took a long bump break last year and sort of lost touch with the board only checking in here and there. I might be around, I might not. At this point I don't know. If you want to stay in touch, send a PM, I'm on Facebook or I'd be happy to share my e-mail.

MoreThanSparrows08

@PoohBear033 It's a bit of a long story, but from what I understand, in short, a ton of long-standing members and mods were banned for no reason, a bunch of content was deleted without warning, and basically XO Group is acting like a bunch of idiots who care nothing for the people that make their website and forums successful.  From what I can tell, the majority of members on the boards are requesting their content to be deleted, and are moving to "the dark side" (the link is easy enough to find). XO Group is also now going to employ moderators rather than allowing the forums to be moderated by members of the forums who understand the subjects and struggles of each board.

PMs here are apparently disabled, so if you're looking to get in touch with someone, you can search the dark side and PM them there.

If I have any of this wrong, please feel free to correct me.

poohbear033

@MoreThanSparrows08 Crazy! It's strange, I haven't had any trouble PM. Do they not go through?

MoreThanSparrows08

I haven't tried it myself, but from what I understand from other users, they only go to you - not the other party you intended to send it to.  It's possible they've fixed it since I heard about these issues, though.