It is hard to believe that it has been a week since our board went silent in support of the mods who were banned without warning and without committing a violation of the TOU. The responses from BumpAdmin and the other BGs show that they haven chosen to blame our members and to rewrite history to make it look like all bannings occurred because of flagrant TOU violations and to not acknowledge that a vast majority of the bannings occurred prior to the flagrant TOU violations that BumpCaitlin referred to in her closed comment pinned to the top of all boards.
Today's treatment of the remaining mods who tried to stay and work with the Bump is the final straw. To say that XOGroup does not care about the members of its community is an understatement. Today's statement shows that the Bump thinks very little of the members of its community.
When I come to terms with the fact that deleting my content is not deleting my son, I will be submitting a request to do that.
Oh bug, tears just sprang to my eyes. I love you and your Zachary's memory will always live on as far as I'm concerned. It's ok if you don't delete too.
Who cares about this shit bag place - you do whatever you need to.
Xo
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*I am no longer regularly posting on TB because of the fucked up debacle of Jan 2015 when administrators banned long-term members and mods with no notice and completely dismantled a community full of women who cared about each other. If you see me posting it's only to give support to a poster who needs it or to post something important enough that I need to say. I am no longer responding to anything other than issues that affect people who I care about*
37 years old, MH is 42
TTC since 2010; Dx Unexplained Infertility; possible male factor
August 2012 through June 2013: 6 IUIs with clomid and trigger shot, all BFNs
7/2013, Pregnant! Unmedicated--we were on a treatment break
8/20/13 no heart beat; 8/23/13 d&c
3/15/14 IVF #1: Lupron/Follistim/Menopur; ER 3/10 resulting in four transfer grade blastocysts, transferred one pretty blast and froze the remaining three. BFN.
Natural FET in May cancelled because the universe hates me my hormones were not cooperating.
6/24/14 FET #1: transferred two pretty embryos; BFN
8/28/14 FET #2: BFP, ended in Chemical pregnancy
Done with medical intervention and getting used to the idea of CFNBC.
Re: Goodbye
Who cares about this shit bag place - you do whatever you need to.
Xo