A Random Complaint / Bitching Thread

Schnurette

Because I need one today.

kimmarie1105

I feel like the short bus dropped off the new TOUs and a slew of people. I'm just here looking around all confused and shit.

MamaBish

My bitch for the day is that I am sick of covering another job because I was forced to fire someone last week even though I was against it. I hate how everyone needs something from me and they need it NOW. Umm well, sorry but I have 80 other things to do and I don't want to do any of it. 

Procrastination is strong today.

Schnurette

As some of you may know, I work for a lawyer. There are some lawyers who we deal with on files pretty regularly. One of them I would like to punch right in the throat.

EVERYTHING is such a pain in the ass with her. Like pulling teeth constantly.

The most recent - we sent a Direction for her client to execute which would allow our client to confirm that a life insurance policy remains in place and good standing. We don't know who his life insurance company is so the "To" section was left blank (with lines for completion). The place of signing and witness information was also left blank as how the hell are we supposed to know where he'll sign or who he will have witness.

ANYWAY, it was sent to her with a letter asking for it to be completed, executed and returned. We got back the form, the "To" section still blank, the place of signing still blank, and the witness information still blank, although it had been signed, dated and witnessed (by her - I know her signature).

We sent a second letter to her asking her to please complete the form including the "To" section and the place of signing and witness information and return to our offices.

She sends a letter today that says "Attached is the Direction as executed by my client that accompanied your letter." It is exactly the same as before except now it has no witness signature.

TELL YOUR F-ING CLIENT TO COMPLETE THE FORM !!! How hard is that?

And since this one isn't witnessed but has the same date I assume her client signed it, emailed it to her and she witnessed it even though she hadn't seen him sign.

AAAAAAAAAAAARGHTHTHG I hate this woman so much..

ETA - that ended up long, I apologize. I really needed to vent about this woman and who better to vent to than internet straaaangers. Cookies for EVERYONE!

GirPipley

Hospital food is pissing me off! There are no fresh veggies, other than broccoli, which will surely give me all.the.gas.

If you order a bagel, they put it in the little steamer thing with your eggs, so when it arrives, it's a half hard half soggy deflated crouton.

And the juice.... WTF. Why not just serve diabetes in a cup. It is 6% juice, the rest.... I don't want to know.

I don't plan on showering today, that's not a complaint, just wanted ya'll to know.

wegrowsheep

I bought new yarn yesterday to make matching viking hats for DS#1 and DS#2 (big brother wants little brother to match him). However, now I can't find the fucking pattern.
On the plus side, DS is all about the snuggles today. Hello, couch time.

staciecoffey

My husband has to be at work by 7 and I have to be a work by 8, we live in an old house so after one shower, no hot water for 30 minutes to an hour. The past week he has gotten up late which has resulted in luke warm showers at best...today it was ice cold...if it happens again, I may drown him.

kimmarie1105

@girpipley, PM me your hospital and room number and I will order you take out to be delivered...

staciecoffey

kimmarie1105 said:

@girpipley, PM me your hospital and room number and I will order you take out to be delivered...

That's such s great idea! We could all order her a meal during the week.

Schnurette

GirPipley said:

Hospital food is pissing me off! There are no fresh veggies, other than broccoli, which will surely give me all.the.gas. If you order a bagel, they put it in the little steamer thing with your eggs, so when it arrives, it's a half hard half soggy deflated crouton. And the juice.... WTF. Why not just serve diabetes in a cup. It is 6% juice, the rest.... I don't want to know. I don't plan on showering today, that's not a complaint, just wanted ya'll to know.

My DH's favorite story from when we were in the hospital to give birth to DD:

We got to the hospital by ambulance at about 4:30. They said we were a little late for dinner but they would scrounge me something up. The nurse asked if there was anything I didn't like to eat. I replied fish is the only thing, anything else would be fine. About 20 minutes later the nurse returns with a food tray.

I lift the lid.

Inside, a tiny deep fried disgusting looking soggy fish fillet.

girlymama79

The one billion new people whom I suspect are all one or two trolls.

Edit to add: if you are a legit new person this is not about you.

GirPipley

Schnurette said:

GirPipley said:

Hospital food is pissing me off! There are no fresh veggies, other than broccoli, which will surely give me all.the.gas.

If you order a bagel, they put it in the little steamer thing with your eggs, so when it arrives, it's a half hard half soggy deflated crouton.

And the juice.... WTF. Why not just serve diabetes in a cup. It is 6% juice, the rest.... I don't want to know.

I don't plan on showering today, that's not a complaint, just wanted ya'll to know.

My DH's favorite story from when we were in the hospital to give birth to DD:

We got to the hospital by ambulance at about 4:30. They said we were a little late for dinner but they would scrounge me something up. The nurse asked if there was anything I didn't like to eat. I replied fish is the only thing, anything else would be fine. About 20 minutes later the nurse returns with a food tray.

I lift the lid.

Inside, a tiny deep fried disgusting looking soggy fish fillet.


Wow. That totally sucks. I bet she just heard "fish" and was like, okay!

I haven't been able to eat fish for months... Fish... :::shudders:::

GirPipley

@kimmarie1105‌ that is soooo sweet of you! A few people have asked to send things. I'm trying to figure out if I would just give ya'll the room number and hospital, or if you would need my name and shiz. I'll ask the nurse next time she comes by and let you know.

Seriously though, you guys don't have to! The thought is super sweet

wegrowsheep

Schnurette said:

GirPipley said:

Hospital food is pissing me off! There are no fresh veggies, other than broccoli, which will surely give me all.the.gas.

If you order a bagel, they put it in the little steamer thing with your eggs, so when it arrives, it's a half hard half soggy deflated crouton.

And the juice.... WTF. Why not just serve diabetes in a cup. It is 6% juice, the rest.... I don't want to know.

I don't plan on showering today, that's not a complaint, just wanted ya'll to know.

My DH's favorite story from when we were in the hospital to give birth to DD:

We got to the hospital by ambulance at about 4:30. They said we were a little late for dinner but they would scrounge me something up. The nurse asked if there was anything I didn't like to eat. I replied fish is the only thing, anything else would be fine. About 20 minutes later the nurse returns with a food tray.

I lift the lid.

Inside, a tiny deep fried disgusting looking soggy fish fillet.


Quote box fail.

I would have cried. And puked. I hate fish.
We had a similar experience at 5am after DS was born, but after one nurse brought us crackers and juice, another nurse was appalled at that and made us sandwiches. He was awesome.

efeehan

I am really pissed at my colleagues who work for the school system with me. Every high school has one athletic trainer & one first responder- except for me, my first responder quit at the beginning of the school year and they have yet to find me a new one which means I have to cover every single home game & practice myself. DH has his first two oncology appointments coming up that I need to go to with him. I emailed them all the days I needed someone to come to my school to cover- 3 days total. only 2 out of 12 responded that they couldn't do it! What the fuck people? I'm not going on vacation! I would rather be working than doing what I have to be doing! Ughhhh.... Ok I feel better now.

Jessica16393

I think I will complain about mean people. I was always told when people are mean they are trying to steal your power and so to all the snowflakes Im sorry your questions get unanswered and people dance on your grave of a thread. I've been here for months and mine occasionally get that way too.

KimberlyandThor2014

@kimmarie1105‌ short bus, absolutely!
Lmfao!

My bitch is that the mojo here on TB is just GONE. The real, honest TB community has been caricaturized into overblown foolishness. Here's to hoping that normalcy and order will be restored around here.

girlymama79

Jessica16393 said:

I think I will complain about mean people. I was always told when people are mean they are trying to steal your power and so to all the snowflakes Im sorry your questions get unanswered and people dance on your grave of a thread. I've been here for months and mine occasionally get that way too.

Good thing I've never seen a mean person here.

KimberlyandThor2014

Jessica16393 said:

I think I will complain about mean people. I was always told when people are mean they are trying to steal your power and so to all the snowflakes Im sorry your questions get unanswered and people dance on your grave of a thread. I've been here for months and mine occasionally get that way too.

I'm just sorry that this world is so full of people who need hair-pets and constant coddling. The inability of some to empower themselves and show some backbone, to do a little legwork, and to have a little faith in themselves instead of needing a bunch of people to constantly patronize them. I'm a very nice person, but I'm honest and I don't blow glittery smoke up people's asses just to make them feel better. People feel their best when they are empowered with truth. When they aren't blinded by bullshit and phony agreement.

I'd prefer honesty to fake niceness every single day of the damn week!

ETA unruly autocorrect

Schnurette

@wegrowsheep and @GirPipley

It was even worse because I had promised myself that in exchange for peeing into a jug for three days and having to walk said jug of pee into the hospital (true story - and frankly more awkward by far than having a womans entire forearm up my whoo-ha trying to turn the baby so I could push it out) and then undergo multiple blood tests I would take myself to Subway for lunch.

Instead I was told my blood pressure was through the roof, my white blood cell count was down, my reflexes were incredibly screwed up and I was getting into an ambulance and because I might be induced right away they couldn't let me eat. The nurse had been going to get me a sandwich since she knew I didn't get lunch and had to give me a chocolate meal replacement shake thing instead.

MrsFriede

I want to complain too. I'm not sure about what specifically, maybe that I haven't had a full night sleep in weeks because of my bladder and backaches, but we are all dealing with that.. Or how about my MIL who moved in with us a couple weeks ago (because she can't afford to live anywhere else) and is now planning the nursery and telling me my ideas are dumb or wrong. Or maybe I could bitch about my idiot SIL, who I don't get along with normally, trying to plan her vacation time around my due date so she can come and "help out"... She can't even cook for herself and refuses to clean (my poor BIL does it all for her), and now that I put my foot down all she does is whine to everyone else! GAH, some people. But it could be much worse so I'm going to try and stay positive, wish I wasn't so damn uncomfortable. All. The. Time.

tjanca22

I'll jump on the MIL bitching train! My MIL recently told me that since she wasn't at our wedding (she volunteered to deploy and knew that she would miss the day - her choice, not forced at all), she said that to make up for that, she would now like to be with us in the delivery room! That will not be happening. We are also team green, but she said that she wants copies of our US pictures so that she can determine the sex of the baby on her own. Again, not happening. What is with some MILs?

MamaBish

tjanca22 said:

I'll jump on the MIL bitching train! My MIL recently told me that since she wasn't at our wedding (she volunteered to deploy and knew that she would miss the day - her choice, not forced at all), she said that to make up for that, she would now like to be with us in the delivery room! That will not be happening. We are also team green, but she said that she wants copies of our US pictures so that she can determine the sex of the baby on her own. Again, not happening. What is with some MILs?

Ugh I could go all day on a MIL bitching train! Mine is currently having a public facebook meltdown about how her kids are terrible to her because we all refuse to let her move in with us. This woman is 50 years old, fully capable of working, but refuses to. She acts like she is 98 years old and needs someone else to take care of her. We would have to pay for everything, clothes, food, health insurance, etc. which she sees nothing wrong with. This is just the tip of the iceberg with her. 

angielayne926

WTF is up with all the crazies in the NT scan thread?  I just can't respond because nothing I say will be nice.  I just wish the board would go back to the way it was last week before all of the TOU bs.  

tjanca22

MamaBish said:

tjanca22 said:

I'll jump on the MIL bitching train! My MIL recently told me that since she wasn't at our wedding (she volunteered to deploy and knew that she would miss the day - her choice, not forced at all), she said that to make up for that, she would now like to be with us in the delivery room! That will not be happening. We are also team green, but she said that she wants copies of our US pictures so that she can determine the sex of the baby on her own. Again, not happening. What is with some MILs?

Ugh I could go all day on a MIL bitching train! Mine is currently having a public facebook meltdown about how her kids are terrible to her because we all refuse to let her move in with us. This woman is 50 years old, fully capable of working, but refuses to. She acts like she is 98 years old and needs someone else to take care of her. We would have to pay for everything, clothes, food, health insurance, etc. which she sees nothing wrong with. This is just the tip of the iceberg with her. 

OMG! If my MIL actually had to move in with me?? S**t would get real, that's all I can say. I'd probably go around the house breaking crap and farting all the time and then just blame it on her until DH got so annoyed and made her leave.

Schnurette

I'M BACK

I'm currently on the phone with our municipality because our property taxes didn't come out of my account this month (I usually don't check but this month it almost doubled because it is our first full year in the house so I have been keeping an eye on my account). Turns out it has never come out of my account. It's being paid but I don't know by who.

The woman at the municipality is freaking out because she is worried that it never got changed over from the previous owner. I am crossing my fingers that they got DH's account # from the mortgage company or real estate solicitor and just never switched it over to my account. If it is some random stranger or the previous owner then I owe them not only this months huge payment but also all of last years smaller payments.

And logically I know this is money I would have had to pay them anyway but the way DH and I operate our finances basically works out that I spend everything I have every month on bills, gas, groceries, etc. and he pays the mortgage and deals with savings etc. This works and means sometimes we get more / better groceries or something we need for the house if I have extra money in my account...so basically I don't have this money because I have been unknowingly spending it each month thinking I was in the clear to spend it on something else.

Sammadden27

I would like to complain about the asshole at work that constantly tells me I should quit and go on WIC. Also how he tells me my husband must not love me very much since he is "making" me work while pregnant.
I'm a baker and working on my feet for 9plus hours a day while waking up at 1:30am is staring to kill me. My coworker is also constantly telling me that he works a job under the table, brings in 80k a year total and gets 4k a month from the government in WIC and Medicaid. It pisses me off that he's playing the system and ruining it for people that probably really need it. I took a huge pay cut to work where I am so I wasn't working 80 plus hours a week, to be closer to family and mostly to get better health benefits. Sometimes I wanna push this dude in the trash compactor. Is that ok?

MamaBish

Sammadden27 said:

I would like to complain about the asshole at work that constantly tells me I should quit and go on WIC. Also how he tells me my husband must not love me very much since he is "making" me work while pregnant. I'm a baker and working on my feet for 9plus hours a day while waking up at 1:30am is staring to kill me. My coworker is also constantly telling me that he works a job under the table, brings in 80k a year total and gets 4k a month from the government in WIC and Medicaid. It pisses me off that he's playing the system and ruining it for people that probably really need it. I took a huge pay cut to work where I am so I wasn't working 80 plus hours a week, to be closer to family and mostly to get better health benefits. Sometimes I wanna push this dude in the trash compactor. Is that ok?

I won't tell

moret07

Bitch if the day. The last 3 days I have woken up at 5 am wiiiiiide the eff awake. No reason. Totally should still be sleeping but nope. My brain runs and runs and decides time to wake up woman. Then the longer I lay there awake my body also decides hey, you're awake. Time to eat!!! So then I'm starving and have no choice but to just get my ass up!! All a girl wants to do is sleep dangit!!!

Stormy61

beersandweirs

hbanana18 said:

I'm sad at the direction TB has taken. These new guidlines brought all the SS out in force. It's so frustrating to see a community I enjoyed being turned into this shit show. Edit - mobile fail

Amen!

Also, I want cake.

MamaBish

caseycruz02 said:

My bitch is ....... I can't even the list with this board is to long. @tashany99 .... your an idiot for not GBCB when you said you were. @Jessica16393‌ ..... your an idiot for WK all the time. @scoffey0615‌ ...... your an idiot because your clueless and that waffle thread. @preggopooters‌ ..... your an idiot simply for the name preggo pooter and your tongue. @mammabish ...... I never liked you and I still don't. If this was the old bump I would suggest you all go fuck off and maybe go eat a bag of dicks as well. But since it's not I'm just go to say IDIOTS. To all the newbies asking stupid questions read a book or goggle.

You don't need to like me

P.S. I'll be sure to look into goggle.

elrumbee

i wanna bitch today!

why the f bomb cant people brush their teeth before coming to the dentist??  its bad enough cleaning the dirties on a good day, when im NOT pregnant. But now, man, sometimes i just want to tell them to get the fuck out! when i can smell/see what you've had for dinner last night, we have a problem.  ive almost lost my lunch a few times now, but today was awful!

dancegurl1118

Just went to go eat my favorite cereal I bought. DH (using that term with a huge eye roll right now) ate all of it and left crumbs..this was after I made him dinner last night and then went to work.

Ok fine, whatever I'll live...pour another kind of cereal, he's left 2 drops of milk. Applause all around.

Tl;dr DON'T FUCKING MESS WITH A PREGNANT LADY'S FOOD

Katerina&Baby

My bitch is so much less entertaining that some others on here but I'm going to throw it out there anyway. I had a VERY close friend (who has a 7month old) tell me this weekend that she felt badly for my two dogs because obviously I would ignore them once I brought the baby home. Don't worry - she quickly clarified that of course I wouldn't NEGLECT them but you know, I just wouldn't love them as much and want to spend as much time with them. She proceeded to be all "well you know, I really love DH's parents' dog and used to want to snuggle with him every time I visited but now that we have the baby I completely ignore him". What the actual fuck. First - these aren't dogs that I see once every couple months, these are MY dogs, who are part of MY family. You better believe I am going to do everything in my power to maintain the same schedule and routine that we've had over the past three years because that's what they deserve. //end rage rant

leenziepops

@caseycruz02‌ take down

finchfeeder80

This crap right here that just popped up:

https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12526425/we-are-making-community-a-better-experience-for-everyone#latest

leenziepops

finchfeeder80 said:

This crap right here that just popped up:

https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12526425/we-are-making-community-a-better-experience-for-everyone#latest

Just read that too. FFS

finchfeeder80

pickles26 said:

Lol @ professional mods. I'm guessing my time on here will be limited. Here's to hoping I go out in a blaze of fucking glory. I love some of you bitches. You know who you are.

I have not been watching my mouth or attitude at all. I'm fully expecting the hammer at some point. This is even less incentive to behave myself. I wonder just HOW badly one must behave......

dancegurl1118

Because nothing says "we get you" better than a bunch of professional (using that term loosely) mods who are straight out of college, working their first job and have no pregnancy experience whatsoever. =D>

KimberlyandThor2014

leenziepops said:

This crap right here that just popped up:

https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12526425/we-are-making-community-a-better-experience-for-everyone#latest

Just read that too. FFS

Oh great! Here come the new mods. FUCK THIS SHIT!!!