Hi everyone! I don't know how many of us stepparents are left on here, but I'm keeping up with this check-in anyway.
This is a check in for those women dealing with their own IF but are not a part of a childless family (read: stepparent). Many of us struggle with the dichotomy of joy and pain of being a stepmother while going through IF. This can be difficult no matter if your spouse has full custody, joint custody, regular visitation, or little contact. The 3T and IF boards are typically child-free safe havens so the issues we face as stepmothers sometimes go unaddressed. The goal of this check in is to support each other through this role and share the good times and the bad.
If this is your first time checking in with us, introduce yourself and let us know how many stepchildren you have. For everyone, let us know how you’re doing balancing and handling everything.
Me: 28 MH:35
Married September 2012. TTC since September 2013
June 2014 - Dx w/ significant PCOS and referred to RE.
July/August 2014 - Testing complete: Testosterone & AMH very high, FSH slightly high, Vitamin D low, tubes and lining all lovely. DH SA: A+
Cycle 1 (Nov 2014): 2.5 mg Letrozole/Ovidrel/TI = BFN
Cycle 2 (Dec 2014): 5 mg Letrozole/Ovidrel/TI - BFN
Cycle 3 (Jan 2015): 5mg Letrozole/Ovidrel/TI - BFN
WTF consult scheduled for 1/29