LGBT Parenting

AH: Day 3

CageyMackCageyMack member
edited January 2015 in LGBT Parenting
Hi!

I just can't not share this little picture of our new bunny rabbit.  DW thinks this doesn't look like her, perfectly.  And I said it looks like the way she looks sometimes. :)  

She has been just about the most perfect baby ever.  Last night she ate about every hour, but this morning she has been sleeping for long stretches of 2+ hours.  William thinks she is great and especially likes her feet and that she poops.  He has shared his "nigh-nigh" (blankie) with her. He only put it over her face a few times.  This might seem mean, but that is how he likes to wear it, so it makes sense.  He also likes taking her diapers to the rubbish.  

Big Sis likes her very much, too.  

Funny thing: last night was her first night home.  Big Sis was supposed to be at a sleepover camp way out in the mountains, about 45 minutes away.  As I go to pick up William from daycare (about 4:30pm), the camp calls saying she was vomiting.  I try to figure out if she is just nervous or really sick, and the counselor thinks more nervous.  So I talk DD off a ledge and try to get her to stay.  I get DS home, and he is ALL wound up, kind of out-of-sorts due to the two nights sleeping elsewhere, so he is very, very clingy to me.  I'm trying to cook, he is crying, DW needs help getting situated with breastfeeding, my dogs are bouncing off the walls because they have been seriously shortchanged on walks over the last 3 days . . . And I get a call again that DD is throwing up again.  I end up getting DS to bed (crying and with a forbidden sippy-cup), and I snarf my dinner, kiss my wife and baby and drive 45 minutes into the black night. And then home with a kid and a puke bag.  

Before I left, while we were eating our dinner, we shared a look and chuckled that these sorts of circumstances are why people don't have kids. :) Well, that and the crying. 

And, yes, when the baby cried at 4am, the 22 month old woke up crying and said, "Baby crying!"  It's like dominoes of drama. :) And completely worth it.

Thanks for letting me share.

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CageyMack
37, married to my favorite person in the world, DW! One darling surfer-girl (12) and one darling, sweet boy born 3/16/13.

5/2013 Started TTC #3, DW's turn: 5/2013: Diagnostics (shg) and surgery (polyp rem.) for best chances. July-Oct: IUI # 1-4, medicated, monitored, triggered.  All BFN. IVF in Jan May. Sheesh. Whoop! IVF#1 cycle started 4/2/14. 5/1: 19 eggs retrieved, 8 matured, ICSI'd.  4 fertilized.   Only 2 to transfer/freeze stage. 5/6: Two embryos transferred. 5/15: Beta #1 9dp5dt is 134! BFP! 5/19: Beta #2 13dp5dt is 672! B'erFP! 5/21: Beta #3 15dp5dt is 1853.  Yay!


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"Things separate from their stories have no meaning. They are only shapes. Of a certain size and color. A certain weight. When their meaning has become lost to us they no longer have even a name. The story on the other hand can never be lost from its place in the world for it is that place.” ― Cormac McCarthy, The Crossing

Re: AH: Day 3

  • She is soooo precious!

    Glad to hear that William is adjusting fairly well so far :)

    You totally have your hands full, but in the best possible way! Enjoy every minute, and keep sharing when you have time. Good luck to all of you on this awesome journey!

    Me - 30, My wife - 31 , Together for 10 yrs - Married August 2012

    5 medicated IUIs w/ RE (March - July 2013) = BFN

    Fresh IVF Cycle in September 2013 resulted in 18 mature eggs, 16 fertilized, 12 made it to day 5. Transfer of 2 Grade A blastocysts on 9/15/13, and 10 embryos in the freezer!      *****BFP on 9/25/13 - betas: @10dp5dt = 232; @12dp5dt = 465; @15dp5dt = 1,581   *********William George born June 4, 2014*********
  • Ah, she's so adorable I can't take it! I love the sibling dynamic they've already settled into (aside from the camp vomiting incident, of course). Also, I'd rather have a loud and crazy house than a quiet and boring house ;) That's what makes life worth it, right?
    *BFP #1-10/20/2012 EDD 7/4/2013*
    *DS 6/28/2013*
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  • Such an adorable little sweetheart!

    Life with kids!! You have your hands full! It's crazy but there is so much love to go around- it's a wonderful kind of crazy!

    A & K, married 7/1/13.

    After 10 months of ttc via medicated IUIs and two early losses, we finally got our boys- Perfect premie twins born 5/27/14.

     

     

  • I want to squeeze her. Congrats again lady, I'm so psyched for your awesome family!
    Lil'mamaz was born on Aug 21, 2014! She's PERFECT!

    It's been a long road to here...
    Me (43) and J (45) - same sex couple. And we don't feel 40+!
    June'12 - First RE Visit
    Sept. '12 - Tubes removed
    Dec. '12 - Donor Egg/Donor Sperm IVF Cycle - 4 good embies!
    Dec. '12 - Fresh transfer, BFP! EDD 8/29/13
    Mar. '13 - Missed m/c at 16w1d, baby boy stopped growing at 15w4d
    Loss due to umbilical cord clot...baby was perfect. :(
    Jul '13 - FET#1 - c/p
    Sept. '13 - FET#2 - BFN
    Dec.' 2, 2013 - FET#3 with our last chance embie - BFP!!!
    Dec' 26, 2013 - hb!!
    EDD 8/20/14 with a baby girl!
    Little S was born on 8/21/14 - 8lb, 14 oz and 20 inches long.
    We live in Seattle and used SRM for our donor egg IVF cycle


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  • Oh, how cute in that outfit (!!!) And love that you guys are enjoying chaos - it shows what a wonderful, nurturing, supportive environment you've created for your little family. Thank you for sharing this :)
  • Thank you for sharing a peak into your life.  The baby is just absolutely adorable!  I hope your DD1 feels better soon.
  • AHHH what a cutie she is! 

     Kid #1 is puking, kid #2 is smothering kid #3; sounds like all is just as it should be! 

    Glad you're able to laugh at the craziness.   

  • She is adorable! Thanks for sharing all of that. It made me smile, except for the puking of course. Hope she's feeling better!

    Me: 30  DW (aka C): 29

    Together since 2/15/11 ~ Legally married in NY on 9/29/12

    ***CP mentioned***

    We've been working on baby #1 since July 2013 using Open ID donor sperm.  8 IUI attempts with 5 actual IUIs and one chemical pregnancy.  We have one fresh IVF cycle under our belts as well as a FET.  I have endometriosis and a uterine septum that was corrected via surgery in November 2013. 

    11/14/14 -  Second HSG shows that tubes are still clear and ute is looking good. 

    12/6/14 - Started BCPs in prep for IVF #2

    12/22/14 - Saline u/s and endometrial scratch (All was clear and OUCH!)

    1/2/15 - Began stimming for IVF #2

     ****All Welcome!****

    We are Mommas to four fur babies - 3 dogs and 1 cat.

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