This board is obviously very heated today- at least on one thread. I can totally understand why people who have been on the boards for a long time would be upset about losing other members who they found supportive. People who have not been on for a very long time may not fully get that. Understood- that makes sense. However, as I was reading several of these people's reactions, I felt as though so much of it was contradictory. How are you going to make an argument for a board being such a great place for support and state that blunt honesty is the best form of support and then call someone a "c-u-next-Tuesday" (sorry, I really hate that word so I refuse to type it out.) And then also tell people "fuck you" and "fuck off"? I think blunt honesty is great. It is truthful. But I think it's sad that so many have to react the way that they do. It seems a bit immature and tantrum-like to me to call people names in all caps with exclamations. Maybe take a break from the bump for a while if you are so upset because it clearly is not bringing out the best side of you. And that's just me being bluntly honest, sorry if it hurts feelings.
(Feel free to call me out on any miss-spellings or grammar too, it's ok. I type fast.)
Re: Okay...whoa...
Me-31, H-27
**Loss 1-Cycle 7(June 2013) at 5w6d-CP**Loss 2-Cycle 11(October 2013) at 5w4d-CP**
**Loss 3-Cycle 14 (January-February 2014)-M/C dx 2/10, EP dx 2/24, MTX 2/25**
Beta Hell--hCG finally down to 0 - 6/20/14
SA normal. Genetic testing normal. Hormonal testing normal.
HSG 6/30/14 - found blocked left tube and 2 'bubbles' on uterine wall.
Hysteroscopy/Lap--8/4/14 - Tubes unblocked. Polyps removed from uterine wall. Septum removed.
9/30/14--Off the bench! Unmedicated TI through December 2014
BFP 12/14/14!!! Beta #1, 12/16: 990 Beta #2, 12/18: Over 2000! Beta #3, 12/22: over 8000!
U/S #1, 12/23: gestational sac, possible heartbeat
U/S #2, 12/30: HEARTBEAT! 128bpm, measuring right on at 7w EDD: 8/19/2015
U/S #3, 1/9: BPM in the 180s, IT'S HAPPENING!!!
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We have been given a special task to be moms and not many get that blessing. How about we calm our language and thinking and leave as you have the freedom to do, without detrimental speaking to others. Its just downright mean, disrespectful and un-southern! *Blanche Devereaux voice* :-t
I'm not new. I just hate The Bump.