I have a couple of questions regarding moving with an IEP. This will be a military move from one state to waaaay across the US (not sure if state to state matters more then within state moves). Also, DS2's IEP is up for renewal next month and the meeting has just been scheduled for Feb. 4.
Is there any need to mention that we will be moving? The move is anticipated in August. Both school districts (here and the new state) start school around the same time and I am not exactly sure which school he will start kindergarten in (here or in the new state). My gut says he would start maybe the first 2 weeks of kindergarten here and then it will take a week to get to where we are going and then start the new school.
Has anyone moved to a new state with an IEP and how smooth was the transition? What do I expect and how does it work? FWIW, in case it matters, DS2 would not be at a DODEA school. He will attend a public school no matter what (at the new state's location the actual schools on base are public schools which I had never heard of happening before).
The new state, as I have been told by the EFMP office, has limited therapies (school and private therapies) locally but they have approved us which means that base feels they can support DS2's needs. I am a little nervous about that but figure I will do what research I can now and then deal with whatever I can get once we are there. Out of the options we had (involving DH's military career) this new base was our best option and I want to make the best of it.
Re: Moving with an IEP
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We are also a military family and will be moving later this year (though it will be for retirement, not the usual PCS). We have only been here about a year, but DS didn't have his IEP in place yet as he was only 2 at the time.
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1. ESY: If he regresses I think it is more of me taking a break at home and "just letting him be a kid" kind of thing. For example, he does not use his walker much at home because, quite frankly, the house we rent is not walker friendly (and it is a multi level house). However, with our move I will be looking into either base housing or renting a ranch level house. At this time, I am actually being much more proactive and assertive in him doing more skills at home (undressing/dressing a bit more, not carrying him as much/helping him walk HHA and go up the stairs with help vs crawling, etc.). A lot of that is not only is he simply getting too big but I am expecting a baby in early May and need him to be a bit more independent in the areas I can work on. He does have private therapies weekly if there is school or not.
2. Talking to Special Ed prior to arrival: Since we are moving, should I be expecting full evals? He will be turning 6 in October so I believe he is due anyway right? If this is the case, what do I do here? Ask for brand new evals?
3. The school and to start kindie there or not: Yes he is very comfortable in the school. This is his 2nd year at the special ed preschool although this is his first year of going full time and he had no transition issue. The first year he went he only went 2 days per week.
4. Potentially be shipped off base for school: At this point we are looking into base housing, meaning his home school should be the one on base; however, we are not necessarily set on living there. I have plans on looking at the largest town nearby (which is where I think he would get shipped to IF they could not take care of his school needs on base). And if he was going to end up being at a school not on base, I would more then likely look into living in the town of whatever school he would be in. I do the parent drop off/pick up thing and don't have him ride the bus.
5. Bathroom time: He has an adaptive seat and sits to pee. I know he pees at school but his poop schedule is not regular and he does not seem to typically poop during school hours although he has in the past. One of his big IEP goals this year was actually getting him to tell them he had to go to the bathroom and this goal has finally been met. I honestly do not know if he could eventually learn to stand to pee. That goal has never really entered my mind to be honest. I would think as long as he has something to hold on to (handicap bar as long as it is in reach or the bars that can go right next to the toilet) I think this may be possible. He is unable to independently stand at this point. We are lucky if he will static stand for 30sec. There is currently no way he would be able to stand without support, get his pants and underwear down, pee, get his pants and underwear back up, etc. We do not try at home because the toilet at the house is too tall (and way to short if he stands on a stool). I am absolutely up for trying this with safety rails once he is a bit taller. To be really honest, I had never even thought of the whole social stigma of sitting to pee, peeing standing up being some sort of bonding experience with boys, etc. I will also ask to take a look at how low their classroom toilet is (his adaptive seat is actually removeable and is only used when he goes to the bathroom). I do know that they have some sort of bar that he holds on to while pushing his pants down/pulling them up and they are not holding on to them (this was news to me as I thought they were holding him at the waist). I have already asked for a picture of the setup (I'm curious to see if it is something I can duplicate at home or maybe where we end up). I also had not thought of the whole him being alone with an adult in the bathroom thing which is odd because this is generally something I think about but more so for public bathrooms like a gas station, Target, etc. I will certainly be working more diligently on his bathroom skills. He is verbal though and typically tells me when anything happens at school. For example, last week they were on modified lockdown. He told me before he was even put in the car and before the aide (not personal but classroom) could even tell me.
6. To scribe or not to scribe: I had not thought of how time intensive it would be for an aide or the teacher to simply write down whatever assignment he would need written. I think finding out how much writing is involved is something I need to ask the school and kindergarten teacher and then the teacher out where we are headed. I also had not that about how a teacher could potentially leave a lot of the teaching/supports to an aide if he had one although I can see why it would happen. As for tone issues, yes, his posture is completely affected. He has to frequently be corrected to sit up straight. He can sit in a regular classroom chair as long as he has his feet touching the floor but quite honestly that doesn't really help his posture. He often slouches down (think teenage posture in a chair!) especially when he does cutting activities. Tone in the hands? I will need to double check with his private OT on if she thinks his tiring out will be less as he writes more. I wouldn't say his brother excelled at writing in preschool. He did not go to an actual preschool though. Both boys were in an in-home daycare where the provider did do school work. DS1 learned to read at 4 and was writing very simple and small things before he went to kindergarten. He is in first grade now and his writing is getting better but I think it would match up to the average first graders writing.
7. Question on learning disabilities: Since I do not know if DS2 has a learning disability (although it is common with kids with CP), how would I figure it out? The only thing I have really figured out at this point is that while he knows his letters and the sounds they make but he has a hard time sounding words out (not sure if this is just laziness or an actual problem). He'll tend to guess at the word. He does seem to pick up sight words easily. My husband did have dyslexia (I think and he isn't here at the moment to ask) when he was younger and he was a lefty who mirror wrote for awhile in case that matters.
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