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New to the bump, going through a lot.

megcamire07megcamire07 member
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Hello fellow ladies. I'm new to the bump. Back in July my husband and I found out we were going to be parents. Everything was going so well until my 9 week appointment, when I had found out that at 7 weeks the baby had stopped growing. It was heartbreaking as this was my first pregnancy. The whole process with MC and dealing with the doctors was overwhelming and very depressing. Then in December I got pregnant again, but lost it a week after finding out(Christmas week). I'm taking this very hard and just need good people to talk to that are going through or have gone through this.
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  • rmpar29rmpar29 member
    I'm very sorry for your losses.  ((((HUGS))))  Welcome to the board.  We definitely get it here. 
    TTC #3 since 8/2012 image
    DX Endometriosis 2/2002 (lost left tube due to a cyst), PCOS     6/2010
     BFP - 10/18/2012, EDD - 6/26/2013, Baby Girl lost at 22 weeks (T21), D&E 2/15/2013
    BFP - 4/23/2014, EDD - 1/2/2015 Twin Boys lost at 12 weeks, M/C 6/25/2014
    My chart here  All ALers welcome!
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    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickersLilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
    June 3Missing Our January Snowflake
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  • megcamire07megcamire07 member
    Thank you all ladies. @furrypaws‌ thank you, I will also look into that :)
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  • rae80407rae80407 member
    Welcome to the board. I'm so sorry for your losses. This board is a comfort for me I hope it can be for you also.
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  • megcamire07megcamire07 member
    edited January 2015
    I'm really hoping that we can get pregnant again and have everything work. For now it feels great to have other people who really get it to talk to. This really is a great group of gals. I'm glad I finally decided to post. :smile:
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  • MrsG80inTNMrsG80inTN member
    I'm sorry for your losses.  You've come to the right place.

    Me 35 / DH 36
    TTC since 09/2009
    Hashimoto's diagnosis 11/2011 / Endometriosis removal surgery 04/2013
    Other diagnosis: 1 mutation - PAI-1 gene
    BFP#1 9/27/2013  /  EDD 6/4/14  /  MC 10/17/2013
    BFP#2 3/4/14  /  EDD 11/13/14  /  CP
    BFP#3 6/7/14  / EDD 2/16/15  /  CP
    BFP #4 11/7/2014 / EDD 7/17/15  /  CP
    Current  Plan: Waiting to change RE... Appt on 1/16
    RXs: Metformin, Levothyroxin, Baby Aspirin, CoQ10, Vitamin D, Folic Acid, Pre-natal. Progesterone post O.

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    ***Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

    All Welcome


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  • Nikolie93Nikolie93 member
    I am sorry for your losses but welcome here! As others have said before, it's the best place you never want to be. 

    *hugs*
    I am not sure how to say this without getting a "solicitation" warning so I guess I just say that I am not longer active on THIS site. 



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  • bumpuser10605721bumpuser10605721 member
    Welcome, I'm very sorry for your losses.
    Me: 29 DH: 30
    DS born 12/29/12 @ 41+1 
    TTC#2 07/2014
    BFP 10/14/14 MC 11/14/14 D&C for RT 11/18/2014 
    Given all clear 12/15/2014 - back to TTC



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  • meredithcarolemeredithcarole member
    I am so sorry for your losses.  Welcome

    TTCAL January Siggy Challenge: Animals in the Snow

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    About Me: 

    AMA 35 :  DH 33
    BFP#1 1/26/14 (EDD: 10/7/14).  MMC 3/10/14 D&C 3/14/14
    RE Consult 11/3/14 - AMH 2.25 "great" . FSH 7.10 . Low Vitamin D
    Myomectomy 12/17/14.  Benched until March.

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  • beckynsean11beckynsean11 member
    I'm so sorry for your losses. Welcome.

       Me: IR-PCOS, elevated DHEAs, low progesterone, weak ovulation  DH: low volume, low T
    SHG 5/10/13: both tubes blocked; HSG 6/28 = Left tube cleared! Right blocked.
    BFP#1 7/20/13 EDD 3/30/14, m/c 8/19/13, D&E 8/21/13, Chromosomal results = normal, female
    Lap & hysteroscopy scheduled for 10/31, right tube cleared, no endo found! ...Happy Halloween!
    Cycle 14: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP! EDD 9/16/14~ Rowan Elizabeth born sleeping at 17w4d on 4/12/14 due to IC.
    ~There is no foot too small that it cannot leave an imprint on this world~
    New RE June 2014. RPL b/w - negative. SIS looking for uterine/cervical abnormalities & Asherman's 6/10/14 - ALL CLEAR!  
    Cycle 16: Natural IUI = CP, Cycle 17: Femara (2.5) + IUI = BFN, Cycle 18 Femara (5) + IUI = BFFN, Cycle 19: Break
    Cycle 20: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP EDD 6/20, transvaginal cerclage 12/19, Carson Quinn born sleeping at 16w3d on 1/6/15 due to IC
    Phone consult with Dr. Haney (Univ of Chicago) for transabdominal cercalge scheduled for 2/9/15.
    "We are the music makers, and we are the dreamers of dreams."
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  • dandb925dandb925 member
    Welcome to the board. I'm so sorry for your losses.

    Is your doctor going to run any tests to see why you've have these losses (bloodwork, etc.)? I know most people are recommended to see an RE after three losses (a lot of insurances won't pay after only two losses), but it might be worth discussing with your doctor.

    Married: 9/25/10
    TTC # 1 since 5/2013
    BFP # 1: 2/7/14, mmc 3/12/14, D&C 3/19/14
    Boy, Trisomy 13, Karyotyping and Genetic Testing all normal
    Hysteroscopy and D&C 6/2/14, retained tissue
    Off the bench 7/14
    BFP # 2: 10/3/14, Blighted ovum, D&C 11/12/14
    Girl, no chromosomal abnormalities detected
    RPL Testing: Pre-diabetic, ANA+
    "I carry your heart with me (I carry it in my heart) I am never without it." - e.e. cummings

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  • catvaughn5002catvaughn5002 member
    Welcome to the board! I'm very sorry for your losses.  ((hugs)) I hope you find support here.
    Me: 26 DH:28
    TTC - Sept 2014
    # 1 BFP - October 5, 2014 EDD June 5, 2015 CP - October 14, 2014


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    TTCAL January Siggy Challenge: Animal Interactions in the Snow
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  • MellyMel15MellyMel15 member
    I'm so sorry for your losses. I hope you will find comfort and support here. The women on this board are wonderful and have really helped me cope with my loss. Welcome and sending you hugs.
    * Me: 31, DH: 33 * Married 10.16.10 * Parents of our furbaby Sophie *
    BFP: 8.28.14 | EDD 5.6.15 | MMC Discovered 9.25.14 (8 weeks)| D&C 9.30.14

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    "Everybody here has got a story to tell. Everybody's been through their own hell. There's nothing too special about getting hurt, but getting over it that takes the work. Because one way or another, we all need each other. Nothing's going to turn out the way you thought it would. Friends and lovers, don't you duck and cover because everything comes out the way it should in the end." -Glen Phillips, "Duck and Cover" 


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  • Cheetara2Cheetara2 member
    Sorry for your losses ((Hugs))

    IUI#3 brought us our dragon baby Z

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

    TTCAL January 2015 Siggy Challenge: Animal Snow Interactions 


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  • Km380Km380 member
    Welcome, I'm so sorry for your losses (((hugs))) You've definitely come to the right place, to steal from someone else this is the best place no one wants to be

    PgAL welcome


    Married 6/11/2011

    Me & Hubby: 34

    TTC journey started 12/2012

    BFP #1 6/5/2013, MC confirmed 6/26/2013 @ 7 wks

    BFP#2 8/25/2013 MC confirmed 10/16/2013 @ 12 wks (D&C 10/18)

    Diagnosis: unexplained RPL, unexplained IF.

    Also have hypothyroidism

    Started TTC again 12/2013

     

    IUI#1:Clomid CD 3-7, Trigger'ed CD 12. IUI CD 14. BFN

    IUI #2:Letrozole CD 3 - 7, Follistim CD 9, Trigger CD 10, IUI CD12. BFN

    Current plan: IVF with PGD. Antagonist - Vivelle Protocal. Stim start 12/1. ER 12/14.

    http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/502498

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  • scrang74scrang74 member
    Sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board, I've learned tons here already.
    Me:40  DH:42
    Married 8/2/14
    TTC since 12/2013
    BFP #1: 3/22/2014 EDD 11/27/14; MMC/D&C 4/28/14
    BFP #2 : 11/27/2014 EDD 8/7/2015, MMC diagnosis 1/5/15, NMC 1/7/15...loss due to Trisomy 3 
    Benched pending RE test results
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  • renegadewhitrenegadewhit member
    I'm sorry for your losses. Welcome to this board.
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    I'll be at a new place providing support. 


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  • MrsPhD83MrsPhD83 member
    I'm so sorry for your losses. I hope you find the comfort and support that you need here. Welcome.
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    Me: 31, DH: 30, Married July 2013
    TTC since March 2014
    BFP#1  5.17.14, EDD 1.26.15, MMC (measuring 6w3d at 8w3d), D&C 6.26.14
    BFP#2  9.19.14, EDD 5.29.15, AF on 9.23.14 CP
    BFP#3  12.17.14, EDD 8.25.15, AF on 12.21.14 CP#2

    Current plan: TTC while waiting for RPL results to come back
    Stalk my ute
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  • flyoffeveflyoffeve member
    I am so sorry for your losses. Welcome.

    Me: 31 DH: 36
    Dated Since ‘02, Married in ‘06
    BFP#1 05/16/06, EDD01/16/07, MC 06/12/06 at 8 weeks
    BFP #2 08/14/14, EDD 04/22/15, MC 09/17/14 at 9 weeks

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  • megcamire07megcamire07 member
    edited January 2015
    @dandb925‌ I have discussed things with my Dr, I have a bad experience with the first MC, and hospital. There was never a follow up appointment, I couldn't get my midwife on the phone, and the list goes on. My first MC took a little over a month for it to pass through my body. And then after that the midwife I had just never bothered to call back. My second MC was much better, as far as not having to go through it so long, and my OB Dr now is amazing. She's confident when we are ready to try again, that all will be well. If not then she will start testing.
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  • Littleowl913Littleowl913 member
    I'm sorry for your losses. Welcome.
    TTC since August 2013 BFP #1 1/15/14...MMC 2/24/14...D&C 3/3/14 BFP #2 5/11/14 ... severe pre-e placental abruption our angel born sleeping at 22 weeks Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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  • megcamire07megcamire07 member
    Thank you very much.
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  • LittleDuckyLittleDucky member
    I'm so sorry for your losses.  I hope this community can be a source of support for you.
    Married to DH since 6/30/2007
    Me: 32  DH: 32
    BFP #1: 4/1/2010 DS born: 12/3/10
    TTC #2 since 5/2014
    BFP # 2 : 6/16/14 EDD: 2/25/15  Missed Miscarriage discovered 7/10/14 D&C 7/17/14 Pathology results normal
    BFP #3    : 10/21/14 EDD: 7/6/15  11/24/14:  Saw heartbeat! 
    Missed Miscarriage discovered 12/22/14 at 12w0d D&C 12/23/14 Pathology: Partial Molar Pregnancy/Triploidy
    ~~Currently benched following PMP~~ 
    **all AL welcome**



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    TTCAL January 2015 Siggy Challenge:  Animals in the snow
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  • this+gamer+chickthis+gamer+chick member
    I am sorry for your losses. Unfortunately, as many of us have learned, miscarriage is very common. It doesn't necessarily mean anything will go wrong next time just because you had 2 in a row. It's so hard not to worry, though. Hope you are taking care of yourself.
    MC 13w2d D&C 01/03/2014.  Miss you, my little butterfly.
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  • mrswheelomrswheelo member
    So sorry for your losses. We are all here for you.
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  • megcamire07megcamire07 member
    edited January 2015
    @this+gamer+chick‌ you are very right, it is not easy. The thought is always in the back of my mind. I'm trying to stay positive. After 2 miscarriages in just a few months I started to feel depressed. Being able to talk to people on here is really helping me to feel a little better, and I'm sure it will continue day by day. You are all wonderful ladies!
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  • megcamire07megcamire07 member
    Thank you @PetraStonegirl‌.
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  • Elliecat17Elliecat17 member
    Welcome ((hugs)) I'm so sorry for your losses!
    Me: 24 
    DH: 25
    BFP: 1/12/14       EDD: 9/18/14     MC: 1/15/14
    BFP: 5/6/14         EDD: 1/5/15       MC: 5/10/14
    BFP: 12/29/14      EDD: 9/12/15      MC: 1/5/15
    Dx: PCOS - 8/20/14, Hashimoto's - 10/10/14, Gluten Allergy 10/10/14


    My Chart

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    TTCAL January Challenge
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  • megcamire07megcamire07 member
    @Elliecat17‌ thank you. You and all the ladies here are making me feel so welcomed! Hugs to you all as well.
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