On the verge of a breakdown, any advice?

Danielle0311

I hate to sound crazy right now but I think I hit my breaking point tonight. This pregnancy has been filled with problems. I am so grateful to be pregnant but so worried and so emotionally and physically drained.

I was monitored closely in the beginning bc of my loss history, then at 22 weeks discovered I had an incompetent cervix and had a rescue cerclage and was put on bedrest, then found out I have a clotting disorder and was put on lovenox injections, and now I'm being told I have preeclampsia.

I was in L&D last week with what they said was the flu but now after a 24 hour urine and Bloodwork it looks like that was wrong. My Bp is only borderline high but I am totally freaking out over all the horror stories I've read. I'm so close to the finish line but keep geting hit with complications. Does anyone have experience with any of this? Any words of advice? I just really needed to vent , all I want is my precious baby here safe and sound but it's so hard with all these problems worrying me

MrsSnyder124

I don't have any experience but I wanted to offer hugs. Thoughts and prayers that the road gets easier for you . I'm sorry you're going through all of this .

jeslillyn

I'm so sorry to hear thing. Thinking of you and sending you lots of hugs!!

jap618

No advice but so many (((hugs)))

natalie115

((hugs)) I'm sorry this has been such a rough pregnancy. I don't have any personal experience, but I know several people who have dealt with preeclampsia at varying stages. The good news is the survival rate for a baby born at 35 weeks is 99%, that's great! Now that your doctor(s) know about the issue they can monitor you closely. Good luck mama!

taberbtb

I don't have any advice but wanted to offer (((hugs))). I am sorry you have had to deal with so many scary things. I know we have had a few recent grads diagnosed with pre-e, and their little rainbows though early, are thriving. I am hopin they can chime in and give you some reassurance.

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BackstreetPixie

I do not have an experience but want to offer you some major ::hugs:: that is such a scary roller coaster of events! I hope all settles down soon and you get to take home a healthy baby!

BluEyedGirl26

I'm so sorry you're dealing with all of this. Hang in there, you're almost done!!

shandorfml2

I'm so sorry hun. I have no experience, but you are getting there! Luckily your docs have caught it before it became a danger to you or baby. Now, they can treat it. Each week that goes by gives your baby a greater chance of survival. You are almost at viability! Are you still on bedrest? I would just take it really easy. 

pblge

((hugs)) I have no knowledge about this stage of pregnancy, but I think it's great that you're being so closely monitored. Trust your doctors and try to stay calm and distracted. Lots of Netflix to be watched!

Sending t&p to you and your rainbow!

kate6214

Sorry you are feeling so much anxiety. You are almost at the end! Take it easy as best you can.

dragonfly1809

No experience but lots of hugs. There's nothing easy about pregnancy, but to be hit with so much more is a lot to take. Focus on the finish line and being able to say you conquered it all. Wishing you the best...

sandj918

I don't have any experience but wanted to say I'm so sorry it's been a tough road. You're almost done. T & P for you and your little one.

Bree2109

No experience but I hope everything works out for you and your little one.

Mel&John2013

I don't have experience to share, but wanted to send my thoughts and prayers your way. You've been given a tough road to walk, but you're a strong mom and you can do it. 

peggels24

I'm sorry that this pregnancy has been so stress-filled.

It's good that they caught the pre-e (I'm sure it doesn't feel that way right now but really it is).  It would be way worse if they weren't aware of the situation - now they can monitor you and make sure that both you and the baby are safe.  

tlc35

No experience here but wanted to send hugs and support.  I'm sorry the hits keep coming.

Danielle0311

Thank you everyone , I just feel so drained I don't know what to do anymore. Ughh

kreardon11

My mom had preeclampsia with my sister. Silver lining: They know, and you'll be monitored very closely now. 

bunnybun4

no experience...but I am so sorry you have had it so rough.  big ((hugs))

mrsjg2013

Just wanted to offer BIG ((HUGS)).  

heathersf11

I'm sorry you are dealing with this. ((((Hugs))) You are so close to the end. Hopefully your little one can grow for a few more weeks. 

sgio7485

No advice, just ((hugs))