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laxdixdarlaxdixdar member
edited January 2015 in TTC After a Loss
Hi ladies. I figured I would intro here and start participating instead of lurking.

A week ago I started spotting and having cramping/back pain. Fast fwd to Tues I ended up in the ER because the pain and spotting was getting worse and an ultrasound confirmed everything was okay, healthy baby but I had a subchorionic hemorrhage. I took it easy the next 2 days as the pain got worse.. and on that Thursday I started passing clots. Originally I was happy, I assumed i was expelling part of the sch and the pain eased after I did. Of course the next morning it was back and by noon when I stood I felt pressure and started severely bleeding and passing everything. Back to the ER and miscarriage was confirmed. My ob came in and did my d&c that night.

So it's been 2 days. I'm emotionally traumatized as this was my first bfp in 5 years since I was diagnosed with has Hashimotos hypothyroidism. I was also diagnosed in November with PCOS, 7 days before my miracle bfp. We were set to start clomid when I ended up pregnant and now I feel completely lost. I'm horrified it will take years, I'm horrified at all the aspects. I do look forward to gaining knowledge here with you guys and getting guidance when I come off the bench.

Sorry for the novel, this is the first time I've actually typed this out since Friday. Today my emotions have been so raw, so I'm probably rambling. Good news is I don't have to face anyone for at least one more day.
Married the love of my life: 11/12/2009
1st BFP ever : 11/19/2014
1/9/2015 our miracle baby was welcomed in heaven.
BFP #2 : 4/21/2015
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  • rubysirubysi member
    Welcome. I am sorry for your loss.

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  • beckynsean11beckynsean11 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome

       Me: IR-PCOS, elevated DHEAs, low progesterone, weak ovulation  DH: low volume, low T
    SHG 5/10/13: both tubes blocked; HSG 6/28 = Left tube cleared! Right blocked.
    BFP#1 7/20/13 EDD 3/30/14, m/c 8/19/13, D&E 8/21/13, Chromosomal results = normal, female
    Lap & hysteroscopy scheduled for 10/31, right tube cleared, no endo found! ...Happy Halloween!
    Cycle 14: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP! EDD 9/16/14~ Rowan Elizabeth born sleeping at 17w4d on 4/12/14 due to IC.
    ~There is no foot too small that it cannot leave an imprint on this world~
    New RE June 2014. RPL b/w - negative. SIS looking for uterine/cervical abnormalities & Asherman's 6/10/14 - ALL CLEAR!  
    Cycle 16: Natural IUI = CP, Cycle 17: Femara (2.5) + IUI = BFN, Cycle 18 Femara (5) + IUI = BFFN, Cycle 19: Break
    Cycle 20: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP EDD 6/20, transvaginal cerclage 12/19, Carson Quinn born sleeping at 16w3d on 1/6/15 due to IC
    Phone consult with Dr. Haney (Univ of Chicago) for transabdominal cercalge scheduled for 2/9/15.
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  • rslh10rslh10 member
    Welcome. I'm so sorry for your loss.
    ((Hugs))

    On a side note, could you remove
    the loss mentioned warning in your title? We are a loss board and full expect to read about losses. I only ask because if others looking to intro see it, they might assume it's necessary and it's not. Thanks :)
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    BFP #1 DS 2/7/11 (Born @ 34 wks via ECS due to Pre-e) TTC #2 since Aug '13
    DX Low AMH (.58) March '14 • FSH-7.5 • E2-35.5 (Nov '14)
    SA- Great numbers • SIS- Clear (Nov '14)
     Cycle 1- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-BFP • EDD 1/12/15 
    Ectopic @ 5w6d • Methotrexate Shot 5/18/14
    Cycle 2,3,4- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-- BFN
    Cycle 5- Letrozole CD3-7 & Trigger BFFN
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  • RachaeleighRachaeleigh member
    Sorry for your loss. Welcome

    4 Losses (2003, 2008, Apr 2012, & Oct 2012)
    All RPL and IF testing with multiple REs = normal

    5 IUIs = BFN

    All AL are welcome
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  • laxdixdarlaxdixdar member
    rslh10 said:

    Welcome. I'm so sorry for your loss.
    ((Hugs))

    On a side note, could you remove
    the loss mentioned warning in your title? We are a loss board and full expect to read about losses. I only ask because if others looking to intro see it, they might assume it's necessary and it's not. Thanks :)

    That makes sense, done. Ty
    Married the love of my life: 11/12/2009
    1st BFP ever : 11/19/2014
    1/9/2015 our miracle baby was welcomed in heaven.
    BFP #2 : 4/21/2015
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] member
    Welcome.  I'm sorry for your loss.
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  • Nikolie93Nikolie93 member
    I'm sorry for your loss. Feeling scared and lost is a normal feeling and we understand here. I hope you find comfort, knowledge, and support here, as I have *hug*
    I am not sure how to say this without getting a "solicitation" warning so I guess I just say that I am not longer active on THIS site. 



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  • renegadewhitrenegadewhit member
    I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome to this board.
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  • CC1017CC1017 member
    So sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.
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    BFP #1 DS born 10/16/12 at 39w6d
    BFP #2 DD lost 11/17/14 at 17w2d
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  • MrsOscarFelixMrsOscarFelix member
    I am so sorry for your loss. Welcome.

    Married 9/13/14

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    Me: 24 / DH: 24

    BFP#1 10/15/14 - EDD 6/19/2014 - MC 10/23/14

    BFP #2: 12/18/14 - EDD: 8/31/15 - MC 1/4/14 5w6d

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  • bumpuser10605721bumpuser10605721 member
    I'm very sorry for your loss. Welcome
    Me: 29 DH: 30
    DS born 12/29/12 @ 41+1 
    TTC#2 07/2014
    BFP 10/14/14 MC 11/14/14 D&C for RT 11/18/2014 
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  • flyoffeveflyoffeve member
    I am so sorry for your loss. Welcome.

    Me: 31 DH: 36
    Dated Since ‘02, Married in ‘06
    BFP#1 05/16/06, EDD01/16/07, MC 06/12/06 at 8 weeks
    BFP #2 08/14/14, EDD 04/22/15, MC 09/17/14 at 9 weeks

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  • MrsPhD83MrsPhD83 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board. Take care of yourself as you heal.
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    Me: 31, DH: 30, Married July 2013
    TTC since March 2014
    BFP#1  5.17.14, EDD 1.26.15, MMC (measuring 6w3d at 8w3d), D&C 6.26.14
    BFP#2  9.19.14, EDD 5.29.15, AF on 9.23.14 CP
    BFP#3  12.17.14, EDD 8.25.15, AF on 12.21.14 CP#2

    Current plan: TTC while waiting for RPL results to come back
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  • catvaughn5002catvaughn5002 member
    I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board! ((hugs))
    Me: 26 DH:28
    TTC - Sept 2014
    # 1 BFP - October 5, 2014 EDD June 5, 2015 CP - October 14, 2014


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  • eliidaeliida member
    Welcome, I'm sorry for your loss.
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  • Littleowl913Littleowl913 member
    I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome.
    TTC since August 2013 BFP #1 1/15/14...MMC 2/24/14...D&C 3/3/14 BFP #2 5/11/14 ... severe pre-e placental abruption our angel born sleeping at 22 weeks Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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  • laxdixdarlaxdixdar member
    PetraStonegirl said:

    I am so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board. With your history, are you with an RE? If not, I strongly suggest you have a consult before starting down the 'Clomid with an OB' road. Regardless, do not accept Clomid without it being properly monitored with blood work and U/S throughout the cycle.

    I am not. November was the first time I had set out for answers. Before then I had been finishing nursing school and "letting what happened happen". Of course it didn't take long to realize I wasn't ovulating and I blamed my thyroid for many of the years until I found my ob. I honestly do not know where we are going from here, I'll know more when I follow up.
    Married the love of my life: 11/12/2009
    1st BFP ever : 11/19/2014
    1/9/2015 our miracle baby was welcomed in heaven.
    BFP #2 : 4/21/2015
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