Hellooo !! DH and I are having a great deal of difficulty trying to pick out a middle name for a girl we have her first name which will be Aliza (a-lie-za) anyone have any suggestions ? Thanks !
I'm spelling it as Aliza please don't tell me how to correctly spell my daughters name At first that is how I spelled it with an E but I decided an A would be better. No disrespect as to how you would pronounce and spell it but other than that I do appreciate your reply and the suggestions that you have offered there pretty helpful. So thank you for that. Thanks to all that replied to my post with helpful suggestions !!
I'm spelling it as Aliza please don't tell me how to correctly spell my daughters name At first that is how I spelled it with an E but I decided an A would be better. No disrespect as to how you would pronounce and spell it but other than that I do appreciate your reply and the suggestions that you have offered there pretty helpful. So thank you for that. Thanks to all that replied to my post with helpful suggestions !!
Aliza does not = "a-lie-za" just because you want it to. It's a different name with a different pronunciation.
Exactly this.
She will ALWAYS have to explain the spelling of her name. I have to and it is a serious PITA.
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Eliza is such a great choice! I really agree that you should reconsider your spelling, the A makes it a different name altogether and it will be annoying for her to constantly have to correct people and explain. .
Eliza June Eliza Brynn Eliza Claire Eliza Grey Eliza Wren
I will be using this name too! Mostly because some people say Ee-lie-za for Eliza and that sounds too much like Elijah to me. And I love the symmetry of Aliza. Don't listen to the other naysayers. I've known or know of 4 Aliza's (two are babies) and all are pronounced Uh-lie-za. Only one of them is jewish, and she still didn't have the traditional Hebrew pronunciation (uh-lee-za). The two adults with this name love their name like this and have said it's worth "the random jewish receptionist pronouncing it the other way." And everyone I've polled in my life on how to pronounce it when I spell it out, (without me saying it first of course) says it the way I want it said. So if someone wants the "uh-lee-za" pronunciation, there will be some correcting there as well. I predict more so. My cousin hates when people call her Ee-lizabeth instead of Uh-lizabeth, so it's going to happen with a lot of names. As for middle names, I like one syllable names with it like Joy, Rae, Mae, and June. Good luck!
I will be using this name too! Mostly because some people say Ee-lie-za for Eliza and that sounds too much like Elijah to me. And I love the symmetry of Aliza. Don't listen to the other naysayers. I've known or know of 4 Aliza's (two are babies) and all are pronounced Uh-lie-za. Only one of them is jewish, and she still didn't have the traditional Hebrew pronunciation (uh-lee-za). The two adults with this name love their name like this and have said it's worth "the random jewish receptionist pronouncing it the other way." And everyone I've polled in my life on how to pronounce it when I spell it out, (without me saying it first of course) says it the way I want it said. So if someone wants the "uh-lee-za" pronunciation, there will be some correcting there as well. I predict more so. My cousin hates when people call her Ee-lizabeth instead of Uh-lizabeth, so it's going to happen with a lot of names. As for middle names, I like one syllable names with it like Joy, Rae, Mae, and June. Good luck!
Ok... I'm curious... At what point does enough people doing it wrong = making it right? Seriously, does it take just one person mispronouncing a name to make the mispronunciation the new legitimate one? Two? Five? Ten? This seems like a really important threshold for us to be aware of.
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I agree with the others on this one. Eliza and Aliza are different names all together. Sure, you can spell Eliza as Aliza, but please be aware that this is only going to make people think that you can't spell. Your daughter is going to have to constantly correct people about her spelling/pronunciation, but it is you who will be giving yourself the appearance of being uneducated.
I would not pronounce Aliza the way you want it pronounced. You would have to correct me when I read her name. Just imagine it being mispronounced at assemblies, graduations, or by teachers etc. Sorry if that hurts your feelings but it's the truth. People aren't trying to be rude or hurtful. This board has some smart ladies who are really good at helping to provide educated answers and information. Sometimes it isn't what we want to hear but it's truthful and factual.
I agree with the others on this one. Eliza and Aliza are different names all together. Sure, you can spell Eliza as Aliza, but please be aware that this is only going to make people think that you can't spell. Your daughter is going to have to constantly correct people about her spelling/pronunciation, but it is you who will be giving yourself the appearance of being uneducated.
I will be using this name too! Mostly because some people say Ee-lie-za for Eliza and that sounds too much like Elijah to me. And I love the symmetry of Aliza. Don't listen to the other naysayers. I've known or know of 4 Aliza's (two are babies) and all are pronounced Uh-lie-za. Only one of them is jewish, and she still didn't have the traditional Hebrew pronunciation (uh-lee-za). The two adults with this name love their name like this and have said it's worth "the random jewish receptionist pronouncing it the other way." And everyone I've polled in my life on how to pronounce it when I spell it out, (without me saying it first of course) says it the way I want it said. So if someone wants the "uh-lee-za" pronunciation, there will be some correcting there as well. I predict more so. My cousin hates when people call her Ee-lizabeth instead of Uh-lizabeth, so it's going to happen with a lot of names. As for middle names, I like one syllable names with it like Joy, Rae, Mae, and June. Good luck!
Re: Baby Aliza (:
Eliza Ruby
Eliza Mae
Eliza Jane
Eliza Claire
Eliza Kate
Eliza Brooke
Eliza Violet
She will ALWAYS have to explain the spelling of her name. I have to and it is a serious PITA.
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FWIW I really love Aliza but pronounced the correct way, and Eliza is a beautiful name
Eliza June
Eliza Brynn
Eliza Claire
Eliza Grey
Eliza Wren
Aliza Jillian
Aliza Charlotte
Aliza Michele
Aliza Rosalie
Aliza Frances
Aliza Noelle
Aliza Annalise
Aliza Faye
Aliza Celeste
Aliza Josephine
Aliza Dawn
Aliza Eden
Aliza Emmeline
Aliza Lillian
Aliza Juliet
Aliza Violet
Aliza Cosette
Aliza Elisabeth
Aliza Isabelle
Aliza Helene
Aliza Jane
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Me: 36, DH:37
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Dx: Officially Unexplained (I have Polycystic Ovaries diagnosed via ultrasound, but few classic PCOS symptoms, he has mild MF issues. So... not issue free, but nothing so severe as to explain IF)
I also deal with post-surgical Hypothyroidism following Thyroid Cancer in 2009, but under control with Levothyroxine
4 months Clomid (thinned lining) and 10 months Letrozole (every indication that I responded perfectly)
6 failed IUIs in 2013, 3 with trigger
IVF #1 in March 2014
ER 3/21/14, 31R/21F, 12 frosties!
ET 3/26/14, 1 perfect blast transferred: BFN
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Beta #1 (6/11/14) 798; Beta #2 (6/18/14) 7,966.
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Another plea to please spell it Eliza. IMO, Aliza looks ugly.