Pregnant after 35

Intro, Preg @40

Hi ladies!

12 wks and due 7/22/15.  I have a 4 yr old boy thru c-section. This is my 4th pregnancy though. Had two m/c one before and one after my son was born.  Though my first pregnancy was super normal with no problems, I am terrified thanks to docs always mentioning "Advanced Maternal Age". Enough to get all those screening done. Have to wait 2 wks to find out the results. As for symptoms I was super tired the whole first tri unlike last pregnancy. But I also work 3rd shift so that doesn't help. Looking forward to seeing all the babies that are due soon!




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  • Congrats and welcome! Don't let the AMA scare you, some docs don't even bat an eye. Us "elderly" ladies have been having babies for eons. ;)
    Me:41, DH:41 Positive for MTHFR mutations- one copy C677T, one copy A1298C. One daughter born on Thanksgiving in 2013. Six losses.
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  • Congratulations and welcome!
     I am also 40, due July 24. My DD is 2. (I also had Csection with her; and right now it's also my 4th pregnancy! :-)

    Me: 41; DH: 49
    Married in 2010. 
    Laparoscopy for endometriosis - July 2010.
    BFP#1: Jan 2011; MMC March 2011
    BFP#2: Nov 2011; Blighted Ovum December 2011
    Diagnosed with high FSH and DOR - January 2012
    BFP#3: (Gonal-F, Trigger + TI) - May 2012; DD born Jan 2013 (c-section because of partial placental abruption)

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    December 2013: FSH 27, AMH < 0.03
    A few medicated TI cycles in 2014.
    BFP#4: (Gonal-F, Trigger +TI) - Nov 2014; DS born July 2015

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  • Congrats and welcome! 
  • Congrats and welcome!
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  • Congratulations and welcome to the board :)
  • Congratulations and welcome!
     I am also 40, due July 24. My DD is 2. (I also had Csection with her; and right now it's also my 4th pregnancy! :-)

    Yay! This is awesome! Are you going to find out the gender? We were team green last time and only sent MIL the gender reveal paper from the Dr's office cuz she wanted to know. She is a big planner. We are going to stay team green again and I really don't want to know and nor do I want anyone else know before me and DH! Does that make me selfish? LOL! DH says that's the only magic left in the world. When people ask what we are having I am sure people give me a mental eye roll. I tell them if God wanted me to know and every one else to know my belly would have become see through for all to find out. :)




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  • Congratulations and welcome to the board! 
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  • @HouseOfSept.... we already know the sex! :-))  Found out at 11 weeks from our Harmony test. I love to know who it is that is living in my belly, and I'd love to be able to call the baby by ...his name (this time it's a boy) as soon as possible. With my daughter we knew after our anatomy scan. We named her quickly after.
    Me: 41; DH: 49
    Married in 2010. 
    Laparoscopy for endometriosis - July 2010.
    BFP#1: Jan 2011; MMC March 2011
    BFP#2: Nov 2011; Blighted Ovum December 2011
    Diagnosed with high FSH and DOR - January 2012
    BFP#3: (Gonal-F, Trigger + TI) - May 2012; DD born Jan 2013 (c-section because of partial placental abruption)

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    December 2013: FSH 27, AMH < 0.03
    A few medicated TI cycles in 2014.
    BFP#4: (Gonal-F, Trigger +TI) - Nov 2014; DS born July 2015

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  • Welcome and congrats!  You are in good company on this board! Lots of healthy AMA pregnancies so don't let that scare you. :)
    1/1997 - DS
    9/1998 - Ectopic :: 4/2001 - M/C :: 8/2006 - Ectopic :: 4/2007 - M/C :: 8/2008 - Ectopic
    4/2010 - DD
    4/2012 - M/C
    6/2014 - Surprise Pregnancy at 42 yrs old! EDD 2/16/2015
    6/9 +HPT :: 6/10 hCG 383 :: 6/12 hCG 1190 :: 6/17 hCG 8224, Prog 26.4
    6/24 U/S #1 showing 6w2d CRL .43cm w/HB! :: 7/7 U/S #2 CRL 1.73cm w/strong HB!!
    7/31 NT Scan U/S #3 CRL 49mm, HB160 | MaterniT21 - Negative!!
    TEAM PINK
    9/2 - AFP Panel - Negative | U/S #4 HB150
    10/1 Anatomy U/S #5 | HB 134 | CPCs found, Trisomy 18 ruled out w/Mat21 on 7/31 | all other development normal!

    11/24 - Glucose was normal at 94
    12/23 - BPP U/S #6 HB 138 :: 12/30 - BPP U/S #7 HB 159 :: 1/5 - BPP U/S #8 HB 154
    1/12 BPP/Growth U/S #9 HB 129, weighs 5lb 12oz already w/ 4 weeks to go!!
    1/20 BPP/Growth U/S#10 HB 155, weight 6lb 9oz :: 1/26 BPP U/S#11 HB153 :: 2/2 BPP U/S #12 HB 137 :: 2/9 BPP U/S #13 HB 150
    :::::::::: 2/12 - INDUCTION DAY!! ::::::::::
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  • You ladies are amazing with your supports! Thank you! I blew off all the testing and got nothing done at 35 but 5 yrs later.. my perspective is a whole different story. LOL!




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  • So the title AMA doesn't seem too bad to me but the way they code it at my dr's office is "elderly pregnancy"!!! I swear I am 85 or what????  My friend said at her office they coded her as "geriatric pregnancy" ha ha.  I would take advanced maternal age over those!!!  I know drs like to be so doom and gloom about it.  My dr this time showed me this chart and my odds of chromosonal disorders at my age and showed me the difference between that and a 20 yr olds to impress upon me how terrible my odds were (I am 42).  I pointed out to her that odds were still in my favor!  and she said "well I guess that's one way to look at it" and proceeded to highly recommend the genetic testing.  I have never done any before but caved this time.  I sort of wish I hadn't as I swear it has made me so anxious.  Much more anxious than not finding out.  I had my blood drawn and am waiting for results.  I have nightmares every night about it.  honestly.  Its all I think about during the day.  My husband is not supportive on it and not compassionate about it.  No one else really knew I was pregnant so I had no other person to talk to.  After I got my blood drawn I ended up telling my friend I was pregnant because I was so anxious I needed someone to just say it to!  We live a ways apart and are both busy moms so I don't see her very often at all.  I guess it helped just to tell someone about it though. Thats why I sought out this board as well


  • Welcome! :) I turn 40 in November so I just missed the 40 and up club! 

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  • Congrats and welcome!!!

    cneiding.  Talk about making someone nervous.  Elderly pregnancy, lol?   Wow.  I have been seeing the NP at my doctor's office for now.  (I used her for annual exams when I wasn't pregnant and really like her.)  She only classified me as "mature" and did so with a smile.  She also explained that, even though the risks were higher, that they weren't really high.  (Kinda like you said that the odds are still in your favor!)  She explained all the available test and didn't pressure me to have any.  We did decide on the blood test (I think they called it MaterNITI) for the chromosonal issues.  (We we relieved to have none.)  We're not doing any other testing.  I am on a high deductible plan for my insurance.  Plus, this is our first and probably only kiddo, so we're taking whatever God gives us. 


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  • @cneidling, that is not cool! I can't believe they would tell you that. It's bad enough that they code it that way but to worse to tell/call you geriatric/elderly! It's offensive actually IMO.

    And ITA about the testings! With my first one I was 35 and even though they called me AMA and wanted me to do all those tests I passed. I am much more nervous too for having the tests done and dreading the phone call.




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  • Congratulations and welcome!

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    Me 43 DH 48 Not actively ttc, surprise BFP on 1/6/11! 4/1/11 m/c our sunshine at 16wks after complications from CVS test.  *5th cycle after loss 12/6/11 BFP! Missed m/c at 9 weeks 1/21/12, trisomy 14. Two Chemical PG 3/12&7/12
    ** BFP 8/16/12 beta #1 148! beta#2 407 beta #3 4000 u/s 9.10 1 lovely hb 126, Baby Boy born 5/6/2013!

    TTC #2, bpf 1/15/15 Baby Girl due Oct 1! She's here, 9/26/2015! 

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  • Congratulations!  I will be 40 by my EDD 9/1/15.  I am currently 13 weeks today.  I recently joined as well.  I am going in for genetic counseling tomorrow and will have the Maternit21.
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