~+~+2nd Tri Check In 1/7~+~+

kmc84

Once again, I am sorry for posting so late in the day.  DH and I got new iPhones on Monday and it has been a very long, frustrating process getting everything backed up, updated, and whatever else!

So much love going to CarSaidYes.  Many thoughts and prayers for you, your husband, and your sweet angel Ryan.

Continued thoughts, prayers, good vibes, healing energy, positive mojo, or whatever else floats your boat to @AMShark and her two sweet babies! Congratulations on hitting V Day!

If anyone would like to take over the check in, please let me know.  I'll post my last check in on 1/14, and then I have to kick myself out

This is a weekly check-in for PAIF members in their second trimester. You can feel free to join at 14 weeks and we will bid you an excited farewell on your way to 3rd Tri after 27 weeks.

If there are any newcomers that would like to be added to the list, post below and include your EDD.

- How far along are you this week?

- Any appointments or other updates?

Also, please let me know if I have your “team” listed correctly or if it needs to be updated. 

QOTW: Since I am having an issue that I need help with, let’s see if we can help each other   Is there anything you are trying to do that you could use some input on?  Let’s share our problems and see if we can find someone with the answer!

April

@Alicia_R1 - 4/9/15 (Girl)

@kmc84 - 4/11/15 (Girl)

@pblge - 4/17/15 (Girl)

@Canuck13 - 4/26/15 (Girl)

@AMShark - 4/29/15 twins

May

@gsancho - 5/2/15 (Girl)

@jamielynn53 - 5/4/15 (Boy)

@rella22 - 5/5/15 (Girl)

@stephaniesee - 5/5/15 (Boy)

@sugar4bri - 5/7/15 Twins (Boy/Girl)

@Kinderteach78 - 5/15/15 (Girl)

@MrsLolaSky - 5/15/15 (Boy)

@sunshinedaisies000 - 5/16/15 (Boy)

@Aimothy - 5/17/15 (Boy)

@1220winterbride - 5/25/25 (Girl)

@Regan1976 - 5/25/15 (Boy)

@viola27 - 5/25/15 (Team Green)

@ky29 - 5/28/15 (Boy)

@MJ14323 - 5/30/15 (Boy)

@Pintobean39 - 5/30/15 (Team Green)

@IFinTN - 5/31/15 (Boy)

@sweetpotato123 - 5/31/15 Twins (Boy/Boy)

June

CarSaidYes - 6/3/15 Angel baby Ryan born 1/6/15

@turquoisequeen - 6/3/15

@daydreamernyc - 6/8/15 (Girl)

@starlightgator - 6/9/15 Twins (Girl/Girl)

@bears1011 - 6/10/15

@PurpleDaisy923 - 6/12/15 Twins (Boy/Girl)

@JimBobCooter - 6/14/15 (Boy)

@jessimi06 - 6/15/15 Twins (Boy/Girl)

@hbanana18 - 6/18/15

@Sunny B - 6/25/15 Twins (Team Green)

kmc84

I'm not sure she will see this, but CarSaidYes, my heart breaks for you and I don't have the words to say how sorry I am.

@AMShark Congratulations on hitting 24 weeks!

I am 26w4d today! Same old story for the most part including the never ending heartburn.....  I think I was having some BH this evening, so I sat on the couch with A and tried to drink some more water.  It seems to have helped. I have an OB visit on 1/14 with another growth scan.

QOTW:  Any Apple people in the crowd?  We upgraded from iPhone 4 (S I think?) to iPhone 6's.  I have most things on the new phones but I can't figure out why we don't have voicemails, texts, and pictures from our old phones......I did update my Mac to the OS X Yosemite (because iTunes said I had no choice???). I've been looking online but everything I read is not helpful at all.  My next step is going to the Apple store, but that's something I'd like to avoid!  Does anyone have any ideas how to get our missing things transferred over?

AMShark

@kmc84 - Thank you, for running this check in.  You've done a great job, and we'll miss you here.  As far as your phone, I'm assuming you used the same Apple ID and hooked to the same iTunes account as last time, right?  Can you do an old fashioned manual sync of your old phones to iTunes on a desktop or laptop, followed by a manual sync of your new phones?  I'm not an expert, I'm just running through the things I might try.  If you were backing your photos to iCloud on your old phone, you should be able to retrieve them on your new phones, just as you can retrieve them on a Macbook or iPad.

On second thought, don't follow my lead, and maybe talk to the store tomorrow or wait for a more qualified person to respond.

AFM: I am 24w0d today - huzzah!  I received my first dose of steroids in the morning, and I'll get a second dose tomorrow.  My MFM will also perform a u/s to check fluid levels and growth tomorrow.  I'm hoping to see the boy's level back up [pauses to sip water - refreshing], and to see the girl is still doing whatever she's been doing that's kept her out of trouble thus far.

QOTW:  I had to cancel the child birth, prenatal care and breastfeeding classes we signed up for, because of PPROM.  Are there any on-line course, books or other resources that anyone really liked and would recommend?

AMShark

@CarSaidYes - If you are reading this check-in, I want you to know that my thoughts are with you.  I'm so sorry your time with Ryan ended so very soon.

kmc84

@AMShark‌ the thing with the pictures is that they changed something on the new phones...they have iCloud Drive and some photo thing that's still in beta.... Idk-I miss SIM cards! It was so simple!

I highly recommend stalking the the bump breastfeeding board. I got a lot of good info just reading posts. Kellymom.com is a fantastic breastfeeding resource! I think la leche league has videos on YouTube...I may be imagining things.. But watching videos of what a good latch looks like is helpful if you can't make it to a class. You can also see the difference in sucking patterns babies have from starting fast and then slowing down when your milk lets down.

I never read it, but I hear good things about the book 'the womanly art of breastfeeding'.

kmc84

@AMShark‌ is there any way you could attend classes in the hospital while staying in a wheelchair? Just a thought!

AMShark

kmc84 said:

@AMShark‌ is there any way you could attend classes in the hospital while staying in a wheelchair? Just a thought!

I was thinking about this - I need to look a little further into what is offered at this hospital.  (I was registered at a different hospital, offering slightly different classes).  It looks like these course may be more expensive, but maybe they are that much more involved.  I'll also have to clear it with my doctor first, but could be a good option.

ky29

@kmc84‌ - Thank you for running the check in!!

@CarSaidYes‌ - I'm so sorry. My heart breaks for you.

@AMShark‌ - hang in there!! You're doing great!

AFM - Friday's anatomy scan went great. OB appt yesterday was routine and everything was good. I'm excited to hit 20 weeks today!!

Qotw: I'm not very techy with my iPhone.. And I haven't gotten into any books yet on child preparation - so I'm no help! And I can't really think of a question right now either..

daydreamernyc

My heart goes out to CarSaidYes. I just cried when I read the post!

@AMShark‌ as I said in your post,so happy for you that you are making such great progress. And we want to see the completed blanket, matching hat, sweater, mini gloves, etc.

AFM:  thank you to everyone who posted in my earlier thread. I feel a lot better. Sometimes it just helps to say something more publicly to help put things into perspective. I have an appt with my MFM on Monday and then my anatomy scan the following Wednesday.  Very excited. 

daydreamernyc

sunshinedaisies000 said:

QOTW: Anyone have any advice about swelling (hands and feet). I've just noticed it in the past few days. Normal? Or too early? It's pretty bad - my feet are killing me and the bones in my ankles disappeared today.

I don't know from personal experience but I think those compression socks/stockings are supposed to help with ankle swelling. I also know that your OB can "prescribe" them that way it's covered by insurance (they are pricey). Other then that, just the standard stuff like watching your sodium intake ( beware of prepared soups, they are salt licks! And soup is so good right now in this cold weather) and elevating your feet at night 

pblge

Hi Ladies. What tough times we're having around here! I definitely cried for CarSaidYes yesterday. I hope she can find her way back here soon.

Continued well-wishes for @AMShark and your LOs! I read the Womanly Art of BF book, and didn't find it all that helpful at this stage. It seemed like a good thing to have around once there's an actual baby. LLL does seem to have a good website, and I've found good tidbits there, in addition to Kelly Mom. It's seems like one of those things for which you need good basic info, but may not be ready for the detail until you meet your baby. That was my sense, anyway. For baby books, the Dr. Sears one seemed like a really good resource, although there's some attachment parenting stuff that not everyone will like (they recommend bed sharing, for example). I've also got Happiest Baby on the Block on my shopping list. Not sure what you're looking for in birth books, but to everyone else The Birth Partner is one of the best books I've looked at for any of these topics.

@kmc84 - I'm no help with the phone. I switched from Macs to PCs when I started grad school and nothing was compatible. I've seen grown to hate all things Apple for the problems their products cause my students (and the price tags!). You probably weren't looking for that opinion, were you? ;-) And congrats on (almost) hitting third tri! Are you using 27 or 27+6 as the cut-off? I can't figure this out.

@sunshinedaisies000 - Congrats on a great A/S! No advice on the swelling, aside from regular exercise to keep blood flowing. My yoga teacher recommended lots of ankle rolls.

@ky29 - Congrats on a great a/s!!

@daydreamernyc - Still sending ((hugs)). Pregnancy after IF is stressful enough without your complications. Sorry you're dealing with this!

AFM, I had a little scare this week with a tiny amount of spotting that caused major freaking out. It didn't look like regular bleeding, just a few drops of blood, but then I was hyper aware of what I think was just the usual amounts of pressure and sensation in the pelvic area. Nurse said it was likely just a burst blood vessel, which would make sense as I've also been getting tons of minor nose bleeds. I see the midwife team to which we're thinking of switching for the first time today, so I'll ask about it. I haven't gotten any exercise in days, partly because of the fear, so I need to fix that ASAP. We also started our natural childbirth classes this week and have an appt with our doula tonight, so it's been busy! Just taking advantage of this month off from classes.

Here's a question for you ladies: How much protein are you aiming for? The childbirth education told us to shoot for 100 g, and my jaw hit the floor. I'm vegetarian, and that just seems impossible. Other places say 70, which seems much more acheivable, but still hard. Is anyone here counting this out? I only do protein powders (high quality soy and dairy free) in smoothies, and it's too freaking cold for that right now. Maybe I need to suck it up!

Alicia_R1

@CarSaidYes I am so very sorry for the loss of your Ryan and my heart just breaks for you.  You and your family are in my prayers. 

I am 27W1D, my last check in...We had our OB appt yesterday, have a breast feeding class tonight, and a growth scan with our perinatologist tomorrow. 

I have an andriod phone, and for the life of me I can't figure out DH's iPhone...so I'm not much help. 

AMShark

@pblge - 70 g protein sounds low to me - I had a daily target of 60 before I got pregnant.  (Which, actually takes a lot of effort - even for meat eaters).  But, then again, do the guidelines that you are referring to take you size into account?  DH's protein target was higher than mine (mine's high now, but, you know, twins & all), largely because he's bigger than me.

I was going to suggest whey protein for the easiest boost, but you beat me there.  You can add little bits of protein with almonds or other nuts or nut butters.  Do you eat dairy?  Greek yogurt has more protein than the non-strained varieties.  Or a plain hard boiled egg can be a good source.

Snack on edamame... Or substitute your morning oatmeal for quinoa.

kmc84

@sunshinedaisies000 With A and this baby I started swelling around 20 weeks.  With A I was not proactive about it.  Drinking lots of water, elevating when possible, moving around during the day, and not having excessive salt intake (no need to limit a normal intake) will all help.  I so wish someone had told me to get maternity compression stockings.  I had very severe swelling from my belly button to my toes by the time she was born.  (I lost 42 pounds in 5 days after she was born....not pretty)

This time I got maternity compression stockings and they are AMAZING.  I initially got them because I am getting varicose veins that are painful.  They are keeping my legs pain free and swelling free!!!  They are pricey, about $90 a pair.  I was able to find the same pair that I ordered on Amazon for $45, so I grabbed that one too.  Insurance should cover them if you get a script from your doc.  The brand I have is Jobst.  If you go to their website you can find stores that are qualified to measure you to make sure you get the right size.  Definitely get measured! I am using a compression of 15-20mmhg and it seems perfect.

I had everything back up to iCloud...I used to be so good with all of it.  Apparently I'm just so out of loop with this crap now!

@pblge I honestly don't keep track of protein intake.  I think it's much more of a concern with multiples.  If you are getting daily protein from dairy, eggs, nuts, or beans, I would think you are getting a sufficient amount.  You could always try and do protein packed snacks with fruit, cheese, and/or pb.  I love trail mix as a snack!

I'm going with 27+6 as a cut off.

Lol- I was a PC person, but had so many issues with viruses even when using appropriate anti viral..... Grr!

I do love my iPhone.....just not at the moment!

gsancho

Thanks for doing the check-in @kmc84 !  And I agree and hope CarSaidYes finds her way back here soon.  Just seemed so sudden and out of nowhere - I had a few little crying fits yesterday, thinking of how quickly things can change.  

I was so grateful to have my OB appointment yesterday.  I got a bonus u/s to check on everything since I'd been having a lot of cramping.  Cervix and baby looked great.  Placenta is still very low, but as long as it's not placenta previa, I'm fine with it.  At least it means I get a scan at all my OB appointments now so I can peek at our girl.  

OB said she looks more like me, although I still think it's too hard to tell with an u/s and all newborn kinda looks the same to me...but she has big eyes and a tiny nose and mouth, which is opposite of DH.  Time will tell, but for now I'm bragging to DH that my genes beat his, haha.  I hope she gets his red hair, though...I have an odd obsession with red heads.

jessimi06

@kmc84‌ - Thanks for the check in! Do you know whether you backed up on the icloud drive or on itunes before you switched phones? You just have to sync and restore the backup from where ever you saved it.

@CarSaidYes‌ - Lots of hugs, thoughts, and prayers to you and your DH.

@AMShark‌ - You're doing so awesome! I'll be looking for an update!

@ky29 and @sunshinedaisies000 - Woot for great a/s!

@daydreamernyc - I'm glad you're feeling better, being PAIF is hard enough without other complications to worry about.

AFM- A/s is on Wednesday! I'm so excited to see the babies again! I got a quick peek yesterday just to check heart rates since they couldn't find both with the doppler. Long story short, I went in for observation because I haven't been feeling well (I've had episodes where my hearts pounds,I feel like I can't breathe and get dizzy) and it turns out I have PIH as my blood pressure was 160/100 and my usual is around 128/70. I started meds last night and will hopefully feel better soon.

stephaniesee

23w2d no appointments this week (have one next wednesday)

Yayyyy again @AMShark‌!!!!!

WAHOOO @sunshinedaisies000‌ @ky29‌ and @gsancho‌

AFM: no question really, I think I'm just starting to get overwhelmed and anxiety is starting to kick in again. It's a combination between too much time to think now that I'm done with school and interning and now working with a bunch of women I know pretty well who are asking me all sorts of questions about the pregnancy. I think a part of me is being weary and I shouldn't be, I need to enjoy it.

@kmc84 ugh it's probably your appleID which is a nightmare. I was in the Apple Store for 4 hours trying to transfer all that stuff to my current phone. Did you used to have mobile me? When they did away with it and converted to appleID you were prob asked for a new username and instead of using your old one you made a new one (which is what I did) so all of your stuff might be under your old username. Try scheduling a call they might be able to help you before having to go in to transfer it all manually...

bears1011

@sunshinedaisies000‌ and @gsancho‌ Looks like we all have low lying placentas....hopefully they move up on their own soon! AFM... 18 weeks today. Had an unexpected peek yesterday at the baby bc I went in for UTI symptoms. Should find out tomorrow if I have an infection. Two doctors have now guessed girl...we have our A/S scan on the 19th so I'm just counting down the days! Also have a regular OB appt next Fri. I absolutely love my practice and the doctors at it, I feel really lucky that they are so great. cannot wait to confirm gender and really start planning for this little one. Getting to the A/S was kind of my mental goal before I give in to all the fun stuff and planning so it's surreal that it's almost here.

sweetpotato123

@pblge‌ - I try really hard to get to 100g of protein a day. This is low for twins, but I haven't really ever been hungry this whole pregnancy.

@JimBobCooter‌ - I struggle with the reality of being pregnant and wrapping my head around something happening we tried for so damn long to work.

@AMShark‌ - so happy for you and your babies!

@CarSaidYes‌ - sending you so much love.

AFM- waiting for the a/s on the 14th. My mind is fucking with me the last few days and I'm trying to let the anxiety go. 19w4d here. We bought our cribs over the weekend (great deal at kohls) but I refuse to do anything with them until after Wednesday. I think I would be better if I could feel these babies, but no such luck yet.

kmc84

@sunshinedaisies000‌ just to be clear, don't get socks. Get full, over the belly maternity stockings. Knee high compression during pregnancy is going to set you up for uneven vein compression no good for you, your veins, or the swelling.

turquoisequeen

@kmc84‌ thanks for the check in

The news from Car yesterday hit me pretty hard I think in part because we have the same due date. My heart still is breaking for her and I wish there was a way to make it better.

@AMShark‌ my OB recommended The Mothers Guide to Breastfeeding which I cannot find. Assuming maybe she meant The New Mothers Guide to Breastfeeding?

@pblge‌ I don't track it per say but I make sure I eat a Greek yogurt every day which has 12g in it and almonds, string cheese, almond milk, etc to get enough in. I do eat meat just not a huge meat eater and I don't eat eggs. They make pasta that has extra protein in it so maybe that will help.

AFM 19w1d. We had our anat scan on Monday and baby is doing great. Was in downward dog position for the whole scan so they couldn't get a look at the face/palate so we do another scan in 6 weeks for that. We will find out gender this weekend. I cannot wait!

QOTW: not exactly a question but I put DH in charge or researching baby monitors since he is techy. He came across this: https://www.sproutling.com/
Anyone heard of it? It's brand new and I'm not gonna lie even though it's pricey it looks awesome! And I think it could really be the only thing you need (no separate sound or video needed) since it tells you ample info about baby (like if they are awake, stirring, etc)

1220winterbride

feeling the love on this board today. Completely heartbroken for you @carsaidyes. ((Group hug, everyone.))

My baby was perfect as per the AS . (although, she did not give us a profile picture and her face looked like a creepy alien skeleton with a grudge.not suitable for sharing with the grandmothers) and my cervix is being a brat but I will do everything to keep Gigi in place for the next 20 weeks if possible. 

@pblge‌ -  I eat meat so I haven't been counting the protein grams, maybe I should? My midwife friend def said to add protein b/c of my "incompetent loser cervix" the collagen, etc. science...so i added sausage w/ breakfast! (I'm so chubby!!)

@JimBobCooter‌ - every. damn . day 

@AMShark‌ - so happy to hear this! You rockstar,  warrior, goddess

1220winterbride

@gsancho I've given myself a  headache from crying over the fragility of  life and our general lack of control over so many things. THIS IS SO HARD SOMETIMES!

1220winterbride

turquoisequeen said:

@kmc84‌ thanks for the check in The news from Car yesterday hit me pretty hard I think in part because we have the same due date. My heart still is breaking for her and I wish there was a way to make it better. @AMShark‌ my OB recommended The Mothers Guide to Breastfeeding which I cannot find. Assuming maybe she meant The New Mothers Guide to Breastfeeding? @pblge‌ I don't track it per say but I make sure I eat a Greek yogurt every day which has 12g in it and almonds, string cheese, almond milk, etc to get enough in. I do eat meat just not a huge meat eater and I don't eat eggs. They make pasta that has extra protein in it so maybe that will help. AFM 19w1d. We had our anat scan on Monday and baby is doing great. Was in downward dog position for the whole scan so they couldn't get a look at the face/palate so we do another scan in 6 weeks for that. We will find out gender this weekend. I cannot wait! QOTW: not exactly a question but I put DH in charge or researching baby monitors since he is techy. He came across this: https://www.sproutling.com/ Anyone heard of it? It's brand new and I'm not gonna lie even though it's pricey it looks awesome! And I think it could really be the only thing you need (no separate sound or video needed) since it tells you ample info about baby (like if they are awake, stirring, etc)

I love the reviews on Cricket's Circle, I plan to double check everything there before i register!

Kam10

@kmc84 I would love to be added.

CarSaidYes, I'm so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts.

I am currently 17w4d with an estimated due date of 6/14 with one little peanut. I can't wait for our A/S which is scheduled for 1/26. It seems so far away, so I'm hoping time will fly! People have been starting to guess whether they think it's a boy or girl, and the overwhelming consensus is girl. DH and I are both leaning boy.

kmc84

katemonster1 said:

My question being new to 2nd tri - what's up with the sleeping? Is it really that bad to sleep on your back at this point? Also, what about tummy sleeping while it's still comfortable? I try to sleep on my side, but I toss and turn, so tend to wake up on my back.

So ideally you should stay off your back while sleeping. The concern with back sleeping is that the weight of your uterus will compress major vessels, decreasing the amount of oxygenated blood for baby. Laying on the right side is less than ideal since it can increase pressure in your veins. My OB said to try and sleep on the left, but if you wake up on your back or right side, don't stress. I use a giant snoogle pillow and it works well for me. Others just use a small wedge pillow behind them to keep them from rolling over.

gsancho

@katemonster1  ^^^What she said^^^   Although to be honest, I've had to sleep on my back a little more than I'd like in order to deal with my cold.  I just propped myself up on a lot of pillows.  And I don't think I felt uncomfortable sleeping in any particular position until I was closer to 18 weeks, so you may still be ok to do whatever.  Now I get uncofrtobale in any position so it's a fun game of switching sides every hour, on the hour.

Pintobean39

I'm so bad about the check ins lately because I get behind and I have a hard time scrolling down and reading stuff without getting dizzy. So far everything is fine I guess. I'm just having Ménière's spells daily which are pissing me off but I can't complain because it could always be worse.

My heart has been breaking for carsaysyes and others here lately so hugs to all those that need them.

1220winterbride

@pintobean39 , you are excused.

Sunny B

pblge said:

AFM, I had a little scare this week with a tiny amount of spotting that caused major freaking out. It didn't look like regular bleeding, just a few drops of blood, but then I was hyper aware of what I think was just the usual amounts of pressure and sensation in the pelvic area. Nurse said it was likely just a burst blood vessel, which would make sense as I've also been getting tons of minor nose bleeds. I see the midwife team to which we're thinking of switching for the first time today, so I'll ask about it. I haven't gotten any exercise in days, partly because of the fear, so I need to fix that ASAP. We also started our natural childbirth classes this week and have an appt with our doula tonight, so it's been busy! Just taking advantage of this month off from classes.

Here's a question for you ladies: How much protein are you aiming for? The childbirth education told us to shoot for 100 g, and my jaw hit the floor. I'm vegetarian, and that just seems impossible. Other places say 70, which seems much more acheivable, but still hard. Is anyone here counting this out? I only do protein powders (high quality soy and dairy free) in smoothies, and it's too freaking cold for that right now. Maybe I need to suck it up!

I'm sorry for your scare, but glad all is ok. 

I've been trying to get around 80mg of protein. I'm also a vegetarian (I guess not fully anymore, I started to eat fish!). I know I need a lot more, but I'm trying to find ways to add it slowly. I heard that I need to get like 115mg which seems like SO much.

Praying for CARsaidYES

@kmc84 Congratulations on moving on up! Thanks for running the check in!

@AMshark Vday WooHOO!

@IFinTN your MS sounds horrible. I'm sorry you're still dealing with it. I've been dealing with a great deal of anxiety as well.

I've been having a lot of tightening in my belly. I called the nurse, and she said that it's normal growing pains. 16 weeks today. We have our A/S on January 22. I can't wait. G-dwilling all looks good.

pblge

@JimBobCooter - I haven't had any depression this pregnancy, but I just read the preparatory work for a doctoral student whose dissertation is on perinatal depression (includes both during and post pregnancy). It's much more common than I ever knew--10-15% or so of all pregnant women. I don't know if it's more or less common among women who went through infertility, but SOME of us have to struggle with it based on those odds. I'm glad you're getting good help. From the research she reviewed it sounds like the best treatment plan is antidepressants in addition to some form of therapy, such as a support group if you can find a good one. In the meantime, sending you lots of ((hugs)). You're definitely not alone!!!

@jessimi06 - Sorry to hear about the PIH! Hope the meds help and that your a/s goes great!

@katemonster1 - I STILL don't understand the sleeping on the back prohibition, and I wake up on my back sometimes. I try to tilt my hips one way or the other the relieve any pressure (that I don't feel consciously), but I'm hoping someone else will weigh in on this question. :-/

@turquoisequeen - This is just my opinion, take it or leave it, but I wouldn't rely on brand new technology for a baby monitor. I would want something very well tested. It does look cool! I put DH in charge of the baby monitors a couple of months ago. Still nothing happening.

@IFinTN - So sorry you're still dealing with the MS.

@Sunny_B - OMG, 115 would be impossible!!! What the hell are you supposed to do, just chew ob jerky all day long?

@Kam10 - Welcome to the group!

daydreamernyc

@pblge‌ I'm a vegetarian too. Like others have said, Greek yogurt is really great. Also quinoa, oats, peanuts/peanut butter, eggs, some imitation meats (although I'm quite selective), beans, cheese, cereals like kashi, and sometimes soy (tofu, soy milk, etc. but I try to limit this ). I'm not counting daily but just try to get as much as possible.

For example, this week I made lentil soup and I think I might make vegetarian chili with beans and quinoa next. Perfect for these cold days!

pblge

daydreamernyc said:

@pblge‌ I'm a vegetarian too. Like others have said, Greek yogurt is really great. Also quinoa, oats, peanuts/peanut butter, eggs, some imitation meats (although I'm quite selective), beans, cheese, cereals like kashi, and sometimes soy (tofu, soy milk, etc. but I try to limit this ). I'm not counting daily but just try to get as much as possible.

For example, this week I made lentil soup and I think I might make vegetarian chili with beans and quinoa next. Perfect for these cold days!

Thanks! You might try adding it up sometime, as this sounds almost exactly like my diet. On my best days I'll get up around 70, but it's really hard to do it every day without some kind of protein supplement. It always amazes me how little protein things actually have in them. A serving of oatmeal with about 1/8 c of almonds on top, for example, isn't even 10 g. Quinoa is a little bitter, but it's not much. I looked up an 8 oz steak by comparison, which is large for a home serving, but small for a restaurant, and that has 50 g!!! It's a big difference!

Regan1976

Sad news this week, sending healing thoughts to CarSaidYes. 

@AMShark - stay strong but lean on someone when you need to

@JimBobCooter - I know I've been more anxious about things. Trying to plan but not really knowing what to plan. Thinking about all the small things that could happen to avoid thinking about the big things that could happen. I've had a few nightmares. (Apparently kicked the s&*t out of SO last week.) It's all just a big hormonal mix and I bet if you were already having some issues can make it even more out of whack. That you sought help is awesome! Go you! Doing what you need to get both of you through life.

@plbge - 100g! geez, I haven't even been trying to track anything.

@katemonster1 - I flip like a pancake all night long due to excessive congestion. Doctor said as long as you keep moving back to a side, preferably left, it's okay. And if you want to sleep propped up that seems fine, I occasionally doze that way but I've never been able to sleep sitting up. 

Anatomy scan was yesterday, JP is doing great in there at 20w5d. He's almost a pound and still measuring 2-3 days ahead depending on the measurement. This makes me think we got lucky a few days before the IUI! He's got my little upturn on his nose. Oddly this makes me a little sad that he won't look like my dad. My congestion hit a ceiling this week. Much, much lost sleep and horrendous snoring ensued. Went to see my urgent care at the doctor's office and they gave me back my Flonase. Nose is already really clear and all the gunk is draining out of my head from the past 4 months. It's icky but I know I'll feel way better next week. Cleared meds with the OB at the appointment AS day. 

QOTW: The only thing I'm really having problems with is getting a registry together. Knowing what we want to put on there. I guess WE need to sit down to make some decisions to get this moving. 

kmc84

@Regan1976‌ If you have not seen it already, Lucie's List is a great registry guide. It's not perfect, but it's the most practical one I've ever seen! It's a good place to start making your own list!

Kinderteach78

I must have missed this thread too! 22 weeks today and had our 2nd scan on Wed. Everything looked great but if we need another look at the spine, they will send me to a perinatalogist (I think it was). I get the stay off your back things because at my 1st A/S, I got very light headed and almost passed out. It was so strange because I was laying down and not expecting to feel light headed. I thought it was just my anxiety! I flip back and forth throughout the night also. I can't even keep count how often! Still not feeling any movements but I have an anterior placenta. When they did the heartbeat at the OB in Wed, it was hard to hear because of the placenta. It def bums me out that I can't really feel her moving around!

CarSaidYes

Ladies, I finally got the courage to come on here and change a few things and check my notifications. The love and out pour of concern and thoughts and prayers is absolutely breath taking. I'm so lucky to have your support and I greatly appreciate it. Words can't describe the pain and devastation we are experiencing but we are holding on to faith and we hope to be here again with you guys in time. I don't for see me waiting a long time to try again. Not that I'm thinking about it now. But we do ultimately want a family. It makes it easier to know that it was most likely an infection and out of my control. We are still waiting on labs. Anyways. Just know that I appreciate you guys and I will miss you all dearly. Thanks again for all the love and support.

PurpleDaisy923

I am 18 weeks today. I started to feel the babies moving earlier this week and it has been very interesting. The little girl's movements feel like someone is thumping me from the inside and the little boy's movements feel more like he's tickling me. Their personalities are showing already! My A/S is on January 13th. I can't wait to see my little ones again. 

daydreamernyc

@CarSaidYes‌ Oh my, an infection? My boss lost a baby at 20 weeks due to an infection as well. That's actually good news because it was an external factor. They went on to have 3 kids! All healthy pregnancies! Again, can't say enough how my heart breaks for your situation. Please do keep us posted as much as you'd like and I hope the labs provide you with some helpful information!