2nd Trimester

Need help!

I am currently living at home ..and my mother has 3 dogs inside and a cockatoo...i am the only one who cleans cooks or anything..i feel like I can never get anything clean enough because no matter how much I do clean ..it's like they do anything and everything to mess it up again...my mom thinks is reasonable to have couches and chairs 3 inches thick in dog hair...it's can't stand it and know I won't be able to when the baby comes..on top of that there is tons of drama and bossiness...i am currently not workin which is unusual for me...and tht doesn't help matters either..i feel like im losing myself and my mind! Help!

Re: Need help!

  • Unfortunately, as long as you live in her home, it's her rules/way of living. We have four dogs, a cat, and a cockatoo. I'm constantly cleaning fur and dander. So, feel ya. You can talk to her about your concerns, but that's about it. Good Luck!!!
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  • I have two dogs and literally we sweep/vacuum everyday and you'd never know. Hair is an unfortunate part of animals, but I chose to have pets. Maybe look into moving out and preferably an animal free apartment, that way you don't have to worry about lingering hair/smell.
  • I say suck it up, or get a job and move. 
  • PPs are right, you have no leg to stand on to try to change the living conditions because it's not your house. You need to find a job and find somewhere to live. And to be honest if my adult child was living at my home on my dime, rent free, I would be "bossy" and expect him/her to clean and cook as well.  


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