April 2015 Moms

PgAL check-in 1/5/15

This is the weekly check in for Moms due in April that have previously experienced a loss.

Welcome to the check-in! I hope I have included everyone that expressed interest. If you missed the last thread feel free to jump right in and help us get to know you. I look forward to the support we can share over the next 9 months. This road is not easy, it helps to have each other to lean on! In case you need a mantra refresher you can find those HERE.


Let us know:



Pregnancy Loss Background (if this is your first time on the check-in):


EDD:


Gestation in weeks/fruit:


How are you feeling physically? Emotionally?


Upcoming Appointments or Milestones:



GTKY: What book are you reading and/or what shows are you streaming?

Re: PgAL check-in 1/5/15

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  • I forgot Call the Midwife. I watched a few episodes about a year ago, it was awesome.

    Sorry to hear about your belly flop, I'm glad you and baby Bigdeal are ok. I was actually looking for the bitchfest thread so I could read your story when I saw you commented here, so ((big creepy internet stranger hugs)) in advance.
  • Hello everyone! This is the first time posting on this board. 

    Pregnancy Loss Background (if this is your first time on the check-in):
    EDD: 04/04/2015
    Gestation in weeks/fruit: 26 Weeks and 6 days; baby is the size of a head of lettuce

    How are you feeling physically? Emotionally? Physically, I am feeling alright. I have been experiencing bout of really painful gas. Lol very embarrassing to say, but I know it's rather normal. Emotionally...I have my ups and downs, after experiencing prior losses I don't think I will ever rest easy until she is born. When I don't feel her kick, I get really sad and scared. Today I went into the doctor because I felt like I hadn't felt her kick in 3 days. They hooked me up to a monitor and apparently she was moving around like crazy but I was still only feeling it sometimes, doc was confident about baby's well-being though. 

    Upcoming Appointments or Milestones: Next Monday, 28 week appointment (few days sooner) but they will be doing my 1-hour glucose tolerance test. Fingers crossed all is well.

    I also found out today that I have gained 10 pounds since my last appointment 3 weeks ago. I really am down on myself about it, so far 25 pounds gained and since I began the pregnancy at 197 pounds I was only supposed to gain 15 pounds according to my doctor for the whole pregnancy. She is also measuring 2cm ahead of schedule, the doc said this is within normal range, but I am confused because she was measuring in the 16th percentile at my 20 week scan (smaller side of things).
  • OMG! Jenny, I am wishing you the best and sending positive vibes your way. I hope for your quick recovery.  I love that term you coined as well, haha "dildocam" I lol'd. Best of wishes, stay strong mama :D
  • Hello!

    EDD: 4/10

    Gestation in weeks/fruit: 26 wks 4 days - Lettuce

    How are you feeling physically? Emotionally?
    Feeling pretty good. Getting tired early, but that might be all the extra time off last week.

    Upcoming Appointments. 1/19 for our 28 week check. Then we got every two weeks

    GTKY: What book are you reading and/or what shows are you streaming?
    I've been reading so many pregnancy/baby books! Baby 411, mommy iq and the mayo clinic one. We've been streaming It's always Sunny in Philadelphia. It's so good!

    @fourthtimesacharm‌ & @snowbigdeal‌ sorry about the heartburn.
    @jennyjen1125‌ much love and prayers.
    @PeaceandSunshine‌ welcome! Try not to worry about the weight (easier said than done). Focus on eating healthy and growing the LO.
    Have a great week ladies!
  • @snowbigdeal‌ just caught up on the Monday Bitchfest.
    I'm so sorry about your family. That's sounds terrible and I completely understand. Loss is such a painful thing and most people will never understand/experience (thankfully). You handled it much better than I would have.
    Glad the fall wasn't serious. I'm a southern California girl living in New York and I'm terrified of falling on ice!
    Also, sorry for your Hs grandpa.

    Hopefully, you can do something nice for yourself soon!
  • Hello Ladies!!

    @jennyjen1125‌ thinking of you, hoping your LO stays put for as long as possible!

    EDD: April 10

    Gestation: 26+4...hello 3rd tri!

    How are you feeling physically? Emotionally?
    I'm feeling good physically, although picking up my DS is starting to get more challenging. DH got me a PG massage so I'm going to schedule it soon, hopefully it will loosen things up a little bit!
    Emotionally I'm pretty good most of the time. I have a friend at work who is newly PG after two losses and supporting her has been one of the more "rewarding" side effects of my losses. It's awesome to be able to be there and relate to someone who is struggling with something you've experienced yourself.

    Upcoming appts.: I have my glucose test on Saturday (yuck) and an appointment next Tuesday.

    GTKY: I just finished the book "Lizzie and Jane" over the weekend so I need something new to start. I'm a long time Office fan, so I stream that on Netflix whenever I have some TV time!

    BFP #1 4/10/12 D&C 6/5/12@ 12.5wks EDD 12/17/12
    BFP #2 9/10/12 CP 9/19/12@ 5.5wks EDD 5/21/13
    BFP# 3 12/3/12...Lukas James born 8/15/13
    BFP# 4 8/4/14 EDD 4/13/15

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  • EDD: 4/14


    Gestation in weeks/fruit: 26 weeks - lettuce.


    How are you feeling physically? Emotionally? Physically I'm okay.  Sleeping was uncomfortable, but I bought one of those Boppy pregnancy pillows and I'm in LOVE with it.  Def recommend to anyone else having trouble getting comfortable.  Emotionally I'm freaking out.  With the babies here that have been born already and the mamas in the hospital, and a girl I know IRL whos due a week before me, she just had her baby last night.  I'm freaking out that something will go wrong, especially while DH is out of the country next week.  We haven't lived in this state long and I don't have any friends or support here, so if something happens, I'll be alone and it's terrifying.

    Upcoming Appointments or Milestones: 1/12 glucose test and reg appt.



    GTKY: What book are you reading and/or what shows are you streaming? I'm reading Pride & Prejudice and currently re watching Gossip Girl for the millionth time. Call the Midwife was one of my favorite shows ever.  I was so sad when it ended!
  • EDD: 4/26

    Gestation in weeks/fruit: 24+2 / cantaloupe

    How are you feeling physically? Emotionally? Physically I am so sore. Baby girl likes to use my bladder as a punching bag so going to restroom is becoming even more of a pain. Especially since the bathroom is out in the hall and around the corner from my office. Emotionally, I'm feeling really good. I've passed v-day so I am ready to get ready for this LO. Staying optimistic!

    Upcoming Appointments or Milestones: I should be having my reg OB appt on Thurs but there is an "issue" with my health insurance so I've been harassing my HR dept for the last 48 hrs.

    GTKY: What book are you reading and/or what shows are you streaming? Reading Insurgent. Watching Friends on Netflix (although, I am taking it slow. I plan to have 2-3 seasons left for maternity leave)
    Me 31 / DH 30
    DS born 6/12/12

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    TTC #2 started Oct 2013
    BFP #1 10/30/13 - m/c 01/02/14 @ 9 wks
    TTC #2 resumed Mar 2014
    BFP #2 8/17/14 - EDD 04/26/15 - it's a girl!!

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  • Hello everyone! This is my first time posting on this board.

    Pregnancy Loss Background:
    My first pregnancy I had an emergency csection at 27 weeks and 1 day to deliver my daughter who's heartbeat was lost a few times on the monitor. (TMI alert) I originally went to the hospital because I was having clear watery discharge and thought I was leaking fluid but they dismissed it as normal. There was nothing wrong with her when she was delivered and they couldn't figure out why they lost her heartbeat on the monitor. She was just born way too early and because of that she didn't produce surfactant in her lungs. She lived for 2 weeks and 2 days in the NICU on the ventilator before passing away in my arms. Her lungs were worn out, even on the ventilator. She would've been 6 this coming April 30th.


    EDD: 4/10


    Gestation in weeks/fruit: 26+4 / Papaya


    How are you feeling physically? Emotionally?
    Physically, I'm feeling very much like a penguin honestly. I waddle everywhere and I can't sleep for more than 2 or 3 hours at a time because I can't stay comfortable. Round ligament pain has been pretty intense these past 2 weeks. Emotionally, I'm really nervous and scared because I'm almost at the 27 week mark when I delivered my last daughter. I couldn't handle another loss.


    Upcoming Appointments or Milestones:
    My next appointment is next Friday. I'll be 27 weeks this Friday and the third trimester is within my grasp. :)


    GTKY: What book are you reading and/or what shows are you streaming?
    I'm reading the Goddess Test series. It's about Greek Mythology and romance. The shows I'm watching are Storage Wars and Diners, Drive-ins, and Dives. Lol.
  • EDD: 4/1/15 (However my OB mentioned setting my 39 week induction/c-section(GD and high risk) which means I will be delivering the end of March instead!)


    Gestation in weeks/fruit: 27 weeks, 6 days. Rutabaga.


    How are you feeling physically? Emotionally? Okay. Starting to get back pains/stretching pains and tired very easily after being up and about for a while. This does not bode well for returning to work/teaching, where I am on my feet a lot. But I only work 3 days a week for 3 more months. I can handle it. ;)


    Upcoming Appointments or Milestones: I just met with my OB yesterday for my monthly appointment. I hit 3rd trimester tomorrow! This also means weekly BPP's start next week and bi weekly appointments with the OB start. 



    GTKY: What book are you reading and/or what shows are you streaming? I am not currently reading anything. I usually read before going to bed, but I am just too tired lately. There is one I am waiting to be released this month-Burned by Karen Marie Moning. I also plan to finish out some of my series I am in the middle of.

    As for tv-The husband and I just started The Wire and Dexter on Netflix. Also some of my shows started back up Sunday- Revenge and Downtown Abbey! I am eagerly waiting for some other shows to start up- The Blacklist, The Following, The Walking Dead, Outlander, and Game of Thrones.   

    Baby #1: EDD:  5/31/08   DD born sleeping due to severe preeclampsia at 22 weeks 1/26/08
    Baby #2: EDD:  4/28/09   DS#1
    Baby #3: EDD:  5/26/11   DS#2
    Baby #4  EDD:  4/1/2015 
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  • EDD: 4/12

    Gestation in weeks/fruit: 26 weeks, head of lettuce

    How are you feeling physically? Emotionally?
    Physically, back pain has become almost unbearable at times. I got a massage yesterday, which helped, but any amount of sitting causes the right side of my mid-back to spasm up.
    Emotionally, I'm doing ok. I too struggle with nerves when I don't think I'm feeling enough movement.

    Upcoming Appointments or Milestones:
    I have the glucose tolerance test next week.

    GTKY: What book are you reading and/or what shows are you streaming?
    I've been meaning to start happiest baby on the block, but keep getting too tired to read at night. Hopefully soon. I've been streaming friends. I could watch that show all the time.
    Married 10/10/2009
    MC 4/23/2014
    BFP 8/1/2014, expecting our rainbow on 4/12/2015

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  • @jennyjen1125 I'll be thinking about you! How scary!
    Married 10/10/2009
    MC 4/23/2014
    BFP 8/1/2014, expecting our rainbow on 4/12/2015

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  • @PeaceandSunshine‌ and @chlsyswll‌ so sorry about your previous losses and welcome to the board!
  • Somehow I missed the check in this week. Hugs to those who need them and welcome to the new people.
    EDD: 4/20 
    Gestation in weeks/fruit: 25 weeks 3 days cauliflower
    How are you feeling physically? I'm doing ok. Heartburn is starting to get bad in the evenings and my hips are starting to hurt pretty badly by the end of the day.
    Emotionally? I'm not doing so good this week. Tuesday was 11 months without Nathaniel and it was freezing outside so I didn't know if I was going to be able to do the fun thing that I had planned. I ended up doing it and had a good day. DH and I were able to go on a date in the evening too. We picked out some books to donate for Nathaniel's birthday and discussed baby names and birthday plans.
    I have started to feel a lot more kicks so that is good. It's still not real that there might be a baby in April though. I do remember feeling the same way with DD, but I feel bad knowing that this might be the only time that this baby is with us. I'm trying really hard to be present in this pregnancy, but it's really hard.
    Upcoming Appointments or Milestones: glucose test next week. Not looking forward to that at all. It always makes me feel sick.
    GTKY: What book are you reading and/or what shows are you streaming? I've been reading Sufficient Grace. It's a baby loss book. DH and I started watching The Librarians recently.

    Abigail Grace 9/7/10
    Nathaniel Willis born sleeping 2/6/14
    Felicity Hope 4/6/15

  • KayDeeKay81KayDeeKay81 member
    edited January 2015
    Hello ladies, it's already Saturday but better late than never right? Positive vibes for all the mammas here going through tough and scary times. 

     EDD: April 24, 2015 

     Gestation/Fruit: 25w1d. Cauliflower Feeling physically: ugh. This past week I have been off work as recommended by the doctor due to the sciatic pain that was so bad. Went to physio three times, rested, stretched and rested some more. Then, just as I was feeling some relief, I developed a major toothache! After much running around yesterday, I was referred to a "root canal specialist" who did the root canal which hurt like h*** when the freezing wore off last night but this morning I feel so much better. 

    Feeling emotionally: I have been a wreck. Being in constant pain with no way to relieve it, really messed with me. For about two weeks, I had been crying, exhausted, nauseous and generally just in a bad place. I was really scared about going to the dentist but checked in with the midwife who helped reassure me it's safe. Scariest of all, I was so bad last night I broke down and took Tylenol. Which I know is safe but PGAL brain had me extremely worried that it would cause problems. I feel relieved that I felt a bit of movement this morning. 

     Upcoming appointment: Did my glucose test this week - that was gross! Waiting to hear back about the results. No appointments next week. 

    GTKY: Book -I'm reading The Happiest Baby 
    Shows: oh man, all of them I love TV :)
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