I feel like a crazy person as it is, but I genuinely have FTM questions that I can't find obvious answers for on the Internet. My OB's office gave me a print out of what to expect at each month's appointment but they aren't detailed in terms of how they check on the baby in the short weeks before delivery. Aside from the growth of your stomach and listening to heartbeat with doppler, do "typical" pregnancies usually involve any ultrasounds for monitoring the baby? Also, as stupid as this sounds, how do they know if everything is going well with amniotic fluid? (Aside from obvious leaking, of course)
Unfortunately I am an only child of an only child and my SIL lives in Florida so it's hard to ask many IRL people these questions. Any info is helpful.
Re: Maybe you can save me from asking my OB these questions this week
I'm sure there are practices that differ, however, and I know they do different things for higher risk pregnancies. I'll be curious to hear what others say.
***Losses mentioned.*** TTC #1 since May 2012. Me: 37, OH: 41. Ectopic August 2012 => tubal damage.
I do better if I write out my questions before my appointment. I have a little notebook for my pregnancy, and before an appointment, I'll talk with DH about what questions we have, & then I'll jot them down in my notebook so I can make sure I ask them.
*** eta - fixing rogue punctuation ***
2013 summary: Diagnosed with Hypothyroid; Cervical polyp removed (benign);
2 rounds ovidrel with timed intercourse (no result): 3 rounds IUI with clomid + ovidrel (no result)
2014 summary (to date):
IVF cycle 1 - ER: 4/17 (28 follicles, 3 fertilized, 2 survived to day 3);
ET: 4/20 (3rd day, 2 embryos - 1 @ 6 cells & 1 @ 4 cells); Beta 5/1 - BFP!;
1st scan 5/13 - development behind, no heartbeat detected; D&C 6/2; WTF 6/13
IVF cycle 2 - BCP begun 7/12; stims w/ HGH begun 7/26;
ER: 8/6, 12 follicles, 7 fertilized w/ ICSI; ET: 8/11, 3 blastocysts left, 2 transferred, 3rd arrested 8/12 - none to freeze
1st beta 8/19 - BFP! 294; 2nd beta 8/26 - 4976; 1st u/s 9/2; 2nd u/s 9/9 - two little heartbeats at 140 each!!!
EDD: 29-April-2015
Other Meds: Synthroid 100 mcg/daily
We started cervix checks at 36 weeks. Honestly, I will probably skip them next time. They aren't so comfortable and don't really mean anything (someone with no progress can go into labor later that day, and someone like me who has been dilating and effacing early can just hang out at 2-3 cm dilated and 75% effaced for weeks without anything starting).
Off birth control March 2012 - Actively trying Sept 2012-April 2014
BFP on May 5th after Follistim & IUI #3
*May Siggy Challenge - Parenting Fails*
Baby boy Henry born 2015.
Expecting our capstone baby (boy) early March 2018.
Lots of BFN's & failed IUI's w/clomid and/or femara
Finally BFP with femara & t.i.- son born 6/17/2010
Started TTC again around when DS was 3ish
Lots of BFN's with femara & t.i & ovidrel
Tubes clear, S.A came back low motility but high count
About to switch to injectables w/femara, did one last cycle with just femara & an IUI with ovidrel- stupid motility was fantastic in the sample, but count was 700,000 AFTER wash! Had to sign a paper to even still do IUI- BFFP (big fat freaking positive) Go figure!
1st Beta 13dpiui 54, 2nd beta 48 hours later 115, 3rd beta 48 hours later 310, 4th beta 72 hours later 1748.
ETA: The only reason we knew about the AF level was because I had had a growth scan that Friday and a repeat the following Monday. I was being watched closely due to growth restriction detected at 35w.
Baby boy Henry born 2015.
Expecting our capstone baby (boy) early March 2018.
Baby boy Henry born 2015.
Expecting our capstone baby (boy) early March 2018.
@AmCheri , @ladyteach0505 -- fluid gets low when the placenta isn't working, not just from leakage or rupturing membranes. If they were monitoring for growth restriction, that goes along with the placenta pooping out early, so it would make sense that if they were monitoring for growth, the fluid levels could drop so drastically with no "leak". Again, the fundal height measurements would have been off, so a scan would have been indicated.
Hope that helps!
3 Clomid IUIs -- BFNs
IVF #1 never made it to transfer
On "egg health" cocktail DHEA/CoQ10/FRC/Pregnitude/Melatonin
Starting IVF #2 for Feb 2013
Follistim/Menopur/Ganirelix
Cancelled mid-cycle due to high P4 levels early on.
OCPs again for IVF 2.5 mid-March. IVF 2.5 transferred two "gorgeous" 5-day blasts and BFFN. Even REI is baffled
On indefinite hold until a huge stroke of serendipity led me to IVF 3 May 2014
Testing found positive cardiolipins/APS, now on lovenox and intralipid infusions
Transfer of 2 5-day blasts and (FINALLY) BFFP!! 1st ultrasound shows two sacs and two HB, but one is sluggish, almost expecting vanishing twin Subsequent ultrasound confirmed vanishing twin, but my other Little critter looks fantastic!
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-- Margaret Thatcher