No WTF Wednesday?

thompnia

I'm going to start.

When the subject of birth control came up in the hospital, my husband piped right up and said he wants a vasectomy! I was pretty sure our family was complete with two, but hasn't out too much thought into it (we are 26 and 27.)

I was floored. Now I feel like I am arguing for a third child. I don't even think I want a third child, but the idea that he is just going to take the choice away from me scares me to death. I'm trying to get him to agree to the copper iud while I try to prepare myself, but he doesn't see the point when he will get it done (eventually) anyway.

I'm so scared I'm going to end up resenting him for taking something that I may never even want. He said he would think about it, but he's been thinking no more kids for a while now. I just wish he would have told me sooner so I would have had time to come to peace with the decision.

Edvent

WTF boss?!? He just sent out an email to all of the PCPs at the satellite clinic (where I am working today) to let them know I'll be the only counselor at the main site on Friday "unless she goes into labor". Um, really dude? I haven't mentioned that I'm concerned about this, I'm not even term yet and no labor signs, but thanks for having all of them thinking I'm going to drop a baby at any minute. He's such a drama queen!

stephchris0321

WTF - Why do I have to work today until 3:00 pm? I've maybe received 3 emails and I'm bored out of my mind! 30% of my coworkers took the day off. If I didn't have to save my vacation days for maternity leave, I wouldn't be here! And I can't drink tonight for New Year's Eve! So lame!!

jmcmoe

WTF DS go to sleep! You are tired and wanted to go to your crib and now that you have thrown out all your blankets and teddies which I have since put back in its calling your name!! But you are still upstairs banging away on something! Now when we go out for dinner tonight you will probably be THAT crusty toddler being a PITA! Please don't ruin my night... It may very well be my last time I go out for a while! Thanks

Julie1211

WTF Ikea return line... 40 people ahead of me and only one person working the desk. This is my punishment for shopping here in the first place

tkr7c9

WTF body: ....really need to hurry up and get over this cold before my c-section on Monday. I also don't want to spend my whole birthday (tomorrow) sick.

kellimark

@tkr7c9‌ I could have written this exact same post. So over this cold.
Except the birthday part. Happy birthday tomorrow.

marvan5

WTF cold maybe sinus infection? It won't make up its mind if it will stay or go, I am having a total relapse. Sore throat and just feeling like crap! I have things I need to get done! So I guess just a load of laundry and change the bedding today and take it easy. SO BORING!!! I want to measure the nursery, help change electrical outlets, get Xmas gifts put away, and clean up our disaster of a living space! And my DH keeps bugging me to get things done... it's like, honey, you know if I push myself I will never ever heal? I've done this to myself before where colds just linger because I don't take it easy. And it's like 1000 times worse being pregnant. UGH.

Oh and another WTF sleeping schedule!! I can't seem to get enough sleep!! I go to bed around midnight and sleep in till at least 11:30 every day!! Granted with all the potty breaks and trying to get comfortable it isn't a solid 11 hours of sleep, but seriously. I want to take advantage of having no one at home for the first few hours of the day!!! And I told our friend we'd watch his 2 yo Saturday morning at 7 am and now I am seriously considering telling him I can't because I can't see myself getting out of bed so damn early!!! I keep complaining to my mom about my sleeping, and she keeps reminding me how once LO is here my sleep will be nonexistent. Thanks, mom!!

tkr7c9

kellimark said:

@tkr7c9‌ I could have written this exact same post. So over this cold. Except the birthday part. Happy birthday tomorrow.

Thanks!

TMast21

Wtf Dr's office. My obgyn and 2 others put in their notice to leave the practice in March, but now they've been let go as of this Friday. Not the news I wanted today with 5 days left until my due date! I was able to find out the new office they'll be at, but who knows when they'll be ready to start seeing patients? Damn it!!

Lanatir

WTF?  DH got asked today why he was still at work.  Apparently his coworkers think I should have had this kid by now...  I didn't know any of them were counting...

susannahbrynn

WTF museum concierge lady.

"When are you due?"
"7 days."
"Oh wow. You sure?"

YES, I'M SURE.

rayna912

WTF family members?!
They come over to see me and the baby for the first time since she was born, and spend almost the entire time being amazed by Hulu and Netflix on the xbox. (they're a little behind technology wise)
Maybe I'm being selfish cuz I think they should be aw-ing over new baby, and chit-chatting? Is that not what "normal" families do?
And dd1, what the hell is wrong with you?! You act like a crazy heathen because we have people over? I know your cousin you are playing with is a little wild, but that doesn't mean you act like him! The room is now a complete disaster, and you want to throw a fit now that he's gone and we have to clean it.
*Deep breath* I think it's nap time... -_-

4littlebears

WTF New year's, you kind of suck this year. My friend is mad at me. I hate it that some people can't see their own part in a simple miscommunication. And now we can't even go to our other friends' house because our dd and their dd are both sick. I think this might be worse than the year we spent NYE/NY driving 12 hours. And that was pretty depressing.

4littlebears

@ExcitedMama2‌ that would annoy me very much if I couldn't really use my microwave

CanukMam

tkr7c9 said:

WTF body: ....really need to hurry up and get over this cold before my c-section on Monday. I also don't want to spend my whole birthday (tomorrow) sick.

I'm right there with you. Still coughing a bit and am terrified for my RCS on Monday!! Been sick for over a month (on my birthday as well). Hope you enjoy yours, just take it easy. On the bright side, you won't be hung over

CanukMam

My dishwasher has been out of commission since just before Christmas. Man I hate washing dishes

sfgiantsgamerbabe

WTF crotch pain. The baby is dropping and now it feels like I've been kicked in the crotch. Holy moly!

SheHulk723

4littlebears said:

WTF New year's, you kind of suck this year. My friend is mad at me. I hate it that some people can't see their own part in a simple miscommunication. And now we can't even go to our other friends' house because our dd and their dd are both sick. I think this might be worse than the year we spent NYE/NY driving 12 hours. And that was pretty depressing.

Sorry your friend is mad and you can't go to the other party. I can commiserate on the whole crappy nye thing though. I've been talking to DH all week about what we wanted to do for tonight because I all I really wanted was to see some fireworks. We had narrowed it down to 3 options and then at like 2 today he decides he doesn't want to be out that late because he has to work tomorrow. He knew all this time that he would have to work but let me get my hopes up with awesome plans... well eff him. Now he's spent all day watching a show I don't like and I'm bored out of my mind.

kilayla13

Wtf body...... I have given up on watching my weight... I gained three pounds just to lose 4 pounds and I still have 3-4 weeks till this little girl is here. Luckily the doc didn't say anything today about it cause the baby is so healthy. Cannot wait to have my little Krissy soon!

4littlebears

SheHulk723 said:

4littlebears said:

WTF New year's, you kind of suck this year. My friend is mad at me. I hate it that some people can't see their own part in a simple miscommunication. And now we can't even go to our other friends' house because our dd and their dd are both sick. I think this might be worse than the year we spent NYE/NY driving 12 hours. And that was pretty depressing.

Sorry your friend is mad and you can't go to the other party. I can commiserate on the whole crappy nye thing though. I've been talking to DH all week about what we wanted to do for tonight because I all I really wanted was to see some fireworks. We had narrowed it down to 3 options and then at like 2 today he decides he doesn't want to be out that late because he has to work tomorrow. He knew all this time that he would have to work but let me get my hopes up with awesome plans... well eff him. Now he's spent all day watching a show I don't like and I'm bored out of my mind.

That's horrible! I'm so sorry he did that! Fireworks sound really cool.

jmcmoe

WTF DH, I pretty much spelled out that I wanted some sexy time tonight and you went to bed...at 10...uhh stupid men! I guess I'm spending New Years alone Good Bye 2014, Hello 2015! Woot woot! Happy New Year Everyone!

readyforround2

wtf husband. His friend had to leave Monday night because he had a work emergency and my husband was pouting all afternoon because he planned on drinking with him tonight. He rearranged his schedule today and tomorrow so that he'd be able to drink and relax (which pissed me off because I've been asking him for years to do that so we could go out somewhere but it was never "possible") but of course the year his friend is supposed to be here he can move mountains! Now he's drinking and playing on his stupid phone talking to all of his work friends...I thought we would have a nice evening together since his other friend wasn't here and maybe I'd get laid but no. He would rather occupy himself with everyone else but me. :-w Happy freakin new year!