Oh yeah, I thought you were referring to reaching out to ask for help babysitting.... so that's what my answers were speaking to.
If it's just for commiseration or just to discuss the situation...eh, save it for after baby is here and things settle down that way just in case it does cause extra drama it can at least be after you get past this.
I don't have any advice that wasn't already given here, but I still wanted to say that I'm sorry you're having to deal with this stress and that you are in my thoughts.
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