I am very new in the process and trying to make sure I know exactly what I believe is right and what may be wrong going into adoption. I also want to make sure
I do my best not to offend, so...
If you felt that the expectant mother could parent their child in a safe and loving environment, would you accept the placement? Ive read a lot of stories from birth moms regretting their decision (I google worst case scenarios often and have been reading anti adoption websites to get another POV) and just want what is best for the baby. I know money can be a huge obstacle to overcome, but if that is the sole reason someone is placing their child, I'm not sure I can deal with that?
Also, I have read from a lot of expectant moms that they get annoyed by their family questioning their decision to place their child. Should I just assume they have researched and that the agency has counseled them on exactly what will take place?