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punkycatpunkycat member
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My husband and I got pregnant right away when we started trying around November of 2013. We were super excited when we found out you don't really think of something going wrong. We went for our First U/S in Jan of 2014 we should have been around 8weeks, we found out we were only measuring around 6 weeks 5 days. They had us schedule another u/s for around 10 days later where we had the same results. We later went through the whole D& C process and then waited to try again. We are now 20 weeks pregnant with a little boy, However I have a hard time staying positive the whole time after every U/S or Doctors appointment I am worried something will go wrong with this pregnancy as well. Anyone else been through this and do you have any thoughts or ideas that helped you not stress about the pregnancy the whole time?
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  • mkfish31mkfish31 member
    Congrats and welcome!!
    Married since Dec 2010. TTC since Feb of 2014. 

    **BFP#1 Feb 20th. EDD October 28th, 2014. MC March 20th (7.5 wks) D&C.

    **BFP #2 May 22nd. EDD Feb 8th, 2015.   MC  July 1st, 2014 (6.5 weeks) D&C

     Heard both babies heartbeats @6w3d, 122bpm and 100bpm. Will never forget that sound!

    **BFP #3 EDD 8/21/15  Please, please be our rainbow!!

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  • welly01welly01 member
    Welcome and congrats!
                                                                                              BFP #1 3/2/12, T born 11/7/12
                                                                                                 BFP #2  7/2/14, CP 7/6/14
                                 BFP #3 8/28/14, MMC 10/2/14 @ 9wks - misoprostol 10/6/14, D&C 11/3/14 for retained tissue
                                       BFP #4 12/25/14, EDD 9/7/15 - please stick baby, you are so loved and wanted!!!!!                                                                                           
                                                                                                                                                   
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  • dawnstar898dawnstar898 member
    I can't even put into words the worry I feel constantly at this point, but just read the mantras and try and live in the moment.  That's all you can do, (((hugs)))

    Me 34 DH 31, Together since 2003, Married August 20, 2011,  TTC since May 2013
    BFP #1 August 24, 2013! MMC discovered Oct. 3, 2013, D&C Oct. 4, 2013
    BFP #2 December 17, 2013! MMC discovered Jan. 28, 2014, D&C Jan. 30, 2014
    Testing done: male with complete Trisomy 16, not hereditary. Tested me for clotting disorders, all normal.
    Feb. 2014 all clear again to TTC!  Will start progesterone supplementation with the next BFP just in case.       Oct. 2014 more testing just because, thyroid and autoimmune panels = normal.  Diagnostic U/S = no abnormalities.  Will keep trying for 3-6 more months, doctor still optimistic!

    BFP #3 December 11, 2014!  Beta #1 14DPO = 122.4 Beta #2 17DPO = 296.8 Please stick little one and be our Rainbow!

            Perfect little heartbeat of 156 seen 1/7/15 :)

    ***Everybody Welcomed***  :)  

    EDD 8/21/2015 Team Green!

    IAmPregnant Tickerrainbows                

     photo Multiple4_zps436a50cc.jpg photo April3_zps882432ab.jpg August 2 

    August 2015 Siggy Challenge: Favorite mean girl from a movie or show:  Kathy Bates in "Misery"

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  • peggels24peggels24 member
    Congratulations and welcome! I'm so sorry for your previous loss. Yes PGAL brain can be very stressful sometimes but the mantras really help me when I feel down or concerned or nervous.
    BFP #1 09/26/2013 EDD 06/04/2013 MMC 11/01/2013
    BFP #2 05/15/2014 EDD 01/24/2015

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  • BostonchelleBostonchelle member
    I also had a loss at the same time you did last year, very similar situation (my 3rd). I find myself nervous a lot of the time and was particularly a wreck in the beginning. I do find relief now because I can feel the little guy moving around which makes me far more comfortable (almost 30 wks now). It's scary not knowing what is happening in there. Don't forget you are half way there! You are not alone in how you are feeling.
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  • punkycatpunkycat member

    Thanks everyone, I just started to feel my little guy moving which I think will help with my nerves about the whole thing.



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