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unnurmariah

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NOBB14

Sorry for your loss.

This is the wrong crowd to ask questions meant for ladies who are pregnant- this group is TTC after a loss only. If you can handle posting in another group without getting triggered, pregnant after a loss board would likely be the best place for feedback on your second and last questions.

Although I certainly understand your desire to want to try again immediately, the "when" for all ladies in this group was reliant on our doctors advice. I was cleared to try again after my second missed miscarraige once my first cycle passed after the d&c, but I know other ladies are instructed to wait longer for various medical reasons. Since we don't know all the particular details of your situation and aren't doctors, your best bet would be to have an open conversation with your OB.

Brownish discharge (spotting variety) is very common after loss and can happen for weeks following the m/c. If it gets extremely heavy, again, I would talk to your OB.

meredithcarole

Honestly, I think this went very well.  There was no explosion.  KT explained things beautifully.  Yes there was a DD, but she is gone so the loss is not ours.

unnurmariah

Im sorry i thought that was what you ment by directing my question to another board. Thanks for the advice

NOBB14

To be clear, I'm on mobile bump and at the time of my response no one had acknowledged her post yet. I wasn't intentionally piling on.

Eta: just wanted to make it known I didn't mean to hurt anyone or blatantly disregard the talk the other day! I realize in doing this I'm still bumping it up. sorry.