Where are you on the trying for another spectrum?

Iznik

All the talk of people being pregnant has me wondering...

Iznik

We are planning to start trying -- or at least not preventing -- after LO's bday, which is soon! I'm a little terrified. However, I still have no AF, so it may be a moo point.

ramfan05

I'm a speshul snowflayke. We think we are done and are not planning anymore for now. But we reserve the right to change our minds. If I ended up pregnant unexpectedly, we would be shocked but happy.

djtippietoes

I have an IUD right now. No Plans to get it removed any time soon.

hammysmommy

Not trying not preventing. Also not dtd more than once a quarter? and AF is either not back or has gone back to anovulation so....

iwubrory

Special snowflake, we are trying except it doesn't really count because AF hasn't returned.

Iznik

adinashoshana said:

OAD here. LOL at the options...when extras pop up, leave them blank and they won't post

Thanks -- good to know

hopefuldog

I quit BFing specially so AF would show up and we are on cycle 3 of actively trying.

shellbell3845

Nope nope nope.

Talk to me a year or two from now.

MissDemeanor

hammysmommy said:

Not trying not preventing. Also not dtd more than once a quarter? and AF is either not back or has gone back to anovulation so....

this

JackieP1023

I voted 'need to think about it'... But really, we are waiting 2-3 years and reevaluating. My body isn't ready for another pregnancy yet, and neither are our wallets/bank accounts. I want another, but MH is on the fence. We'll see!

Cerisrichard

We are trying though I'm still breastfeeding and AF has not returned. I am so excited about having another and find this really frustrating since the chance of getting pregnant is so low right now. But I want to give G a full year of breast milk before weaning him in the hopes of getting things going...

sdlaura

We had 2u2 for 7 months and there's no way I'm doing 3u3! Though at this point it would be 3 under 3.25 if I got pregnant now. We don't think we're done but we want to wait until our oldest is closer to kindergarten before trying again. I have the Mirena now and the tentative plan is to have it removed in spring 2016, to try for a 2017 baby. Of course life could change....

dizzycooks

Not preventing but not dtd much either. We would've happy with a surprise, but won't probably "try" until late spring at the earliest.

yhaener

I love the spacing between my first two kiddos (22 months).  I am not on birth control so who knows what surprises may come our way, but we will not start actively trying again until the late spring or summer in hopes of a February to May 2016 baby. I would like my first born to be close to be about 4 years old when # 3 arrives:)  I am having major baby fever at the moment and I could definitely convince DH to start trying now, but I think it makes more sense financially to wait a few more months. 

AKAP2010

So I voted no more! But in the past couple days I feel a little baby fever coming on. LO is fully walking and standing up completely on her own. I started planning her 1st bday party and I cry thinking about it. I haven't told DH yet. We were so dead set on no more, but now I don't know ....

SuzyQq02

Bookshelves said:

Where is the option for wants-another-but-terrified-of-more-losses/IF-so-procrastinating-but-worried-if-it-takes-as-long-again-I'll-be-AMA-so-feeling-pressured-and-stressed-every-time-the-topic-comes-up?

Preach (though I've got a little bit of time before I'm officially AMA, but my own medical stuff gets riskier with age even before 35, so similar concerns). I desperately want to be pregnant again but the thought of going through the process again freaks me out.