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At this point I just want a true answer

Last week I tested positive for pregnancy but they did ultrasoubd and saw empty sac. They said I may be early. They did hcg and it was 53000. 3 days later 77000. So no double. No fetus. They want me to get another sonogram Friday. My husband tells me to be positive but how can I when the script actually says "transvaginal sonogram due to possible fetal demise".
:(. The waiting for a true answer is killing me. And I have the worst nausea I have ever had. Sorry. I just need to vent and a hug or two.

Re: At this point I just want a true answer

  • I am so sorry. Limbo sucks. (Hugs)

    Me: 31 DH: 36
    Dated Since ‘02, Married in ‘06
    BFP#1 05/16/06, EDD01/16/07, MC 06/12/06 at 8 weeks
    BFP #2 08/14/14, EDD 04/22/15, MC 09/17/14 at 9 weeks


     My Chart

  • I am so sorry you're going through this. The waiting is the worst. 

    May *hugs* to you

    I am not sure how to say this without getting a "solicitation" warning so I guess I just say that I am not longer active on THIS site. 

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  • Hugs to you, being in limbo hell is the worst.

    Married 12/4/12

    Began TTC 11/2012

    Diagnosed as anovulatory 7/2013

    Round #1 Clomid 50 mg 8/2013= BFN

    Round#2 Clomid 50 mg 9/2013=BFN

    First appointment with RE 9/27/2013

    HSG showed left tube completely blocked, diagnosed with hypothyroid and began 50 mcg Synthroid, Vitamin D level low and began 2000 iu Vitamin D, Hubby's SA showed "super sperm" according to RE

    Round#3 Clomid 50 mg + Ovidrel trigger 10/2013= BFN

    Round #4 Clomid 50 mg + Ovidrel trigger 11/2013=BFN

    Round #5 Clomid 50 mg (no trigger, on vacation) 12/2012= BFN

    Round #1 Femara 2.5 mg, no trigger, IUI cancelled due to early ovulation 1/2014= BFN

    1/25/2014= BENCHED for the first time (two leftover follies on the right)

    2/7/14 Diagnosed with MTHFR/Benched

    4/2014 Round #2 Femara 5mg, IUI #1=BFN

    4/28/14 positive opk with no treatment while on break, confirmed with ultrasound= BFN

    5/16/14 5mg Femara + trigger + TI=  BFN

    6/2014 5mg Femara + trigger + TI= BFN

    Awaiting IVF consultation appointment on 7/29/2014

    8/8/14 Began BCP's to prep for IVF

    9/16/14 Began Lupron injections

    9/25/14 Began stimming for IVF #1 with Menopur and Bravelle

    10/8/14 10 eggs retrieved

    10/13/14 2 embryos transferred

    10/21/14 BFP!!!

    11/24/14 confirmed that baby stopped growing at 6 weeks, d&c scheduled 

  • I am so sorry you are in limbo. Hugs.
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    Oct Angel*BFP 1/25/14 * EDD 10/6/14 * US#1 2/26/14 *US#2 3/3/14 no heartbeat*d&c 3/12/14*

    BFP 1/17/15 * EDD 9/30/15


  • Past a certain point betas don't continue doubling. I am not trying to give false hope, but the betas may not be the full story. I hope you get the news you want on Friday. If not there are many here who have walked the path of loss before; we can offer support. I hope the next few days go quickly for you.
    TTCAL January Siggy Challenge: Animals in the Snow


    About Me: 

    AMA 35 :  DH 33
    BFP#1 1/26/14 (EDD: 10/7/14).  MMC 3/10/14 D&C 3/14/14
    RE Consult 11/3/14 - AMH 2.25 "great" . FSH 7.10 . Low Vitamin D
    Myomectomy 12/17/14.  Benched until March.


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  • Good luck! I'm hoping for the best.
  • Thanks ladies. I have to wait until Monday. Honestly this is the worst feeling in the world. I have had the worst nausea. Can't sleep. It's awful. I feel like I've been waiting forever. Anyway thanks to all and for all women who have been there - I'm sorry. It's terrible.
  • The waiting is terrible. I wish the best possible outcome for you! I will be sending you positive thoughts.

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