Any SPAM on this fine Sunday?

yesiknowwhatcausesthat

mels823 said:

My husband just asked me why all pregnant women want sex all the time except for me... I want to either laugh or punch him. Probably both. Ugh. Where do men come up with these things?

If you decide to punch him, I've got your back. Maybe he's got all kinds of "fun" kinky positions in mind too?  I have found that if my husband doesn't get enough "guy time" around other men (who are in a similar stage of life), he starts getting all kinds of unrealistic expectations about how things are "supposed to" go down in the bedroom. He also swings the other way and starts to think he's some kind of perv for wanting sex. I'm just like, "What?! I'm supposed to be the hormonal one with crazy irrational thoughts and emotions."

jennjilljo

yesiknowwhatcausesthat said:

mels823 said:

My husband just asked me why all pregnant women want sex all the time except for me... I want to either laugh or punch him. Probably both. Ugh. Where do men come up with these things?

If you decide to punch him, I've got your back. Maybe he's got all kinds of "fun" kinky positions in mind too?  I have found that if my husband doesn't get enough "guy time" around other men (who are in a similar stage of life), he starts getting all kinds of unrealistic expectations about how things are "supposed to" go down in the bedroom. He also swings the other way and starts to think he's some kind of perv for wanting sex. I'm just like, "What?! I'm supposed to be the hormonal one with crazy irrational thoughts and emotions."

My husband gets like this too. I showed him on medical websites that only some women get sex crazed. From anecdotal evidence alone, it seems more common to not want sex.

Maple403

mels823 said:

My husband just asked me why all pregnant women want sex all the time except for me... I want to either laugh or punch him. Probably both. Ugh. Where do men come up with these things?

Who are these women? Come on now, raise your hands! 

Seriously- while I might want sex every now and then, most the time once I get it I wish I hadn't initiated anything. It's just not the same as before- my body is different, I feel unwieldy, when I come I start cramping.... I am very much looking forward to post baby sex.You know, like several weeks after baby.

mels823

Thank you ladies! I have spd and can hardly roll out of bed, let alone want to get busy in it. I wish he knew how any of this felt!

Angeldcf

We took DS to "Super Sibling" class today at the hospital.  They made a photo "I'm a Big Brother" sign for the baby, practiced holding baby dolls, show/tell/touch diapers-wipes-pacis, etc.  Came home and taught DS how to ride his 1st bike (w/training wheels) and rode around the pond.

Still need to wrap Christmas gifts and write TY from our baby shower.

twinklymama

@WanderingA‌ oh that sounds awful! I'm so sorry. Hope you can get rid of those sores quickly

@ChickenOnSunday‌ hugs for you. You sound like a great mom.

I've missed you guys this week. Haven't read much other than this spam and something about non-maryland moms that leads me to feel the need to search for whatever weird-ass threads have happened this weekend.

My spam is that I was having a really down few days and needed to hide in bed for a bit. DH did everything he could think of to make me feel better, including putting up the Christmas tree with my girls. He's a good DH. I think I'll keep him.