Hi again. I haven't been on here much lately as life has been hectic between starting a new job and being placed with our son at the same time. Our son is 6 years old and has been with us for 2 months. As expected the holidays are going to be a hard time for him. DS has not seen his mom in over a year since TPR. He has mentioned bio mom a few times and last night he kept saying he wanted to live with his real mom, and it isn't fair that he can't see her. I suggested that he share a happy memory from their time together and all he could say was he wants to live with his real mom.
We do have a book of photos that she made for him when she relinquished her rights. This has not been shared with him since then and we aren't sure if now is the right time to do it or not. We are still in the early stages of him attaching to us and I worry that this would set him back. There are also some decorations from his room at her house that he saw yesterday when I was going through some boxes and was wondering if maybe we should put one in his room.
Any thoughts or suggestions would be appreciated.
Started foster to adopt application process January 2014