Welcome to the October Check-In. This check-in is for anyone who has had a loss with an EDD in October.
Members, give us an update on how you are doing. If I didn’t tag you with specific questions, it’s only because we didn’t hear from you last week (or for a few weeks) - please jump back in. Please pop in and let us know how you’re doing even if you don’t have time to respond to everyone individually this week! New members, introduce yourself so that we can get to know you.
If you get a BFP, please PM me so everyone can congratulate you!
Quote of the Week:
"Kindness in words creates confidence.
Kindness in thinking creates profoundness.
Kindness in giving creates love."
~ Lao Tzu
Question of the Week:
At this time of year I think we tend to focus more on others ('tis the season of giving after all);
do you have a charity or any sort of philanthropy you like to participate in?
Updates:
@Stephy1221- How are you this week? I am guessing AF showed? Sorry
@Momentomori- Did you get the results of H's SA? Looks like you are gearing up to O (maybe already did?), how are you feeling about things?
@daystardreams - Looks like you got your OPKs in time I hope you are doing alright. I know there has been a lot going on in your world.
@mkfish31 - How's the 2WW so far?
@vesperlynch - Anything new? How's the grading going? Are you ready for winter break?
@whitneyandconcep - Did you see the doctor? What's the prognosis? Also, I hope you are feeling a bit more comfortable in the community at large. It can be very intimidating when you are new, but I think you're doing just fine.
@yorkielove83 - How are you feeling this week? You've been on my mind. I hope the new house is providing you with a much needed distraction.
Anyone else who missed the last check-in, jump back in with an update!!!
Re: ~~~ October Angel Mamas' Check-In 12/3/14 ~~~
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The doctor was great. After getting some great advice from the ladies on this board with PCOS experience, I asked to be referred to an RE and for a referral. She said that there were things her office could do, but if they didn't work I would be going to an RE anyway, and since I already have a diagnosis, she was ok sending me straight there. There's an RE in the next building over from her office that's in the same hospital system, and they work closely together often, so I'm going to him.
I got scheduled with the RE on Tuesday of next week, which I thought was so quick! I was mentally preparing to wait a few months, so fortunately that won't be the case. I started taking progesterone on Tuesday to jump start AF, and if I hit CD1 before my RE appointment, they said I could call and get the lab order for CD3 testing.
As for stepping out on the board, I'm glad I'm getting out there. I'm still not 100% sure I'm not saying the wrong things, but I hope if I do offend someone they'll let me know directly so I can fix it in the future. Sorry that was so long!
I am glad you got on the progesterone and that you were able to get an RE appointment so quickly! I hope you get some good advice and answers from him.
As for being afraid of saying the wrong thing, to be honest there are still times I worry that I will, too. Sometimes you just have to put yourself out there (it's never a bad idea to read over your comment once or twice before sending, though ).
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I am sorry about H's SA results, but I can understand why you'd be relieved not bearing the sole medical burden for cause. As for the SHG, I personally would because I would want to know, but it may be totally unnecessary. That's a tough one....
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I am glad you got out this evening and had fun. Sorry you're feeling frazzled.
I think "adopt a family" is a nice thing to do. We usually do the Angel Tree which is similar.
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@meredithcarole Thank you for the check in. I'll be thinking of you as your surgery approaches. I've been thinking about changing jobs soon too! I'm very undecided though.
@whitneyandconcep I hope your RE appointment goes well!
@momentomori I'm sorry about the results for YH. I'm not entirely sure what I would do in your position but my first thought would be to go ahead with the other testing, just to try and get all the information so you can start working on any potential problems at the same time, if that is possible. Just my rambling initial thoughts. Good luck!
@stephy1221 I'm sorry about AF!
@vesperlynch Hugs, that is such a tough decision.
Sorry I am running late on my post. Busy week! I did get my OPKs just in time and I ovulated this month for sure. Last month I wasn't so sure that I did ovulate even though I did get CHs. I just started the TWW and I'm hoping for the best. For some reason I think that I have gained back that extra optimism for this cycle!
TTC #1: February 1, 2014
BFP #1: 2/21/14 EDD: 10/31/14 MMC: discovered 3/31/14 (blighted ovum) D&C: 4/3/14 at 9w6d
BFP #2:12/18/14 EDD: 8/27/14 Beta #1 (16 DPO): 50 Beta #2 (18 DPO): 54 CP: 12/25/14 at 5w0d
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Formally LisaG09
"Everybody wants to be happy. Nobody wants to feel pain but you can't have a rainbow without the rain."
I like your optimism. FX for you this month!
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