TTC after 35

I survived sisters shower.....barely.

I will post pics at the bottom of the cupcakes I spent 15 hours making yesterday.
It was strange going to a shower with the baby already being born. It was supposed to be a gender neutral theme so seeing pink was weird since she had a boy. But whatever, baby is doing awesome. Still in NICU but growing stronger everyday.
It was tough for me because there were 6 pregnant woman there and one if my brothers made a comment about me announcing that I'm pregnant also. My SIL saw the look of devastation on my face and immediately came to hug me and yell at her husband. I know he didn't mean to hurt me with the comment but of course I start tearing up. His wife must have let him have it on the drive hime because he sent an apology text after they left.
So I'm at a shower with a bunch if pregnant woman and reminded by my brother that I'm not pregnant. Thanks.
Glad it's over and I'm going to relax and think positive that I will be pregnant again soon. I can hope right?
Well here is a pic of the cupcake favors I made.
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  • I'm sorry.  Showers are so tough.  The cupcakes are so adorable.
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  • I'm glad you survived. And those cupcakes are freaking amazing!
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  • I'm sorry it was such a tough day. The cupcakes are beautiful. Glad your SIL was there for you - men can be a bit dense.
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  • I'm sorry but those cupcakes! You should start selling them.
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  • Another wow on the cupcakes.

    Glad SIL set him straight and I hope some people overheard her. People just don't think. I had some people making comments at thanksgiving... well meaning, but they have no idea how much it stings.
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  • I'm sorry for the insensitive comment (glad he was put in his place!). Congrats on surviving the shower despite the rough patches.

    Those cupcakes are the best!! How talented are you?!? Holy cow!
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  • Wow for those adorably beautiful cupcakes!  I am so sorry for your brother's comment.  I wish you success soon!
  • Oh my god the cupcakes !!!

    Bummer about the comment. Major fail. The apology text... Good... But it doesn't make the situation any easier. I'm sorry.
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  • @shadiddynyc the maitre'd asked if I make cupcake favors for a living. When I to him it's more if just a hobby he looked at me like I was crazy. I gave him one to take home because he liked them so much.
    I wish I could sell them but it's hard to find customers who will pay for them. So I basically just make them for friends and family but once in a while it get a paying customer.

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  • Add me to the "sorry about your brother, but OMG those cupcakes!" crowd.  I've said it before, but you're seriously talented.

    Also, sorry it was a rough day, but I'm glad it's over with.
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  • Sorry it was a bit hard but glad you got through it. Sorry about what he said, likes others said already, sometimes men can be a bit dense. *hug*


    and another :-O at the cupcakes. Those are absolutely amazing! 
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  • Wow you made those yourself? They are incredible! You are super talented, ha ha, if I tried something like that it would be a total mess. Congrats on making it through the shower and staying strong. It will be your turn before you know it ;) have faith!
  • The cupcakes are so impressive! I'm sorry about your brother's comment. Hugs
  • How much are you charging for a dozen? You can also try shopping them at your local bakery. I would want in on those if I was a owner.
  • boo on your brother for insensitive comments, but yay on your SIL for sticking up for you! I can only imagine how strange it must be to be in an environment when you're surrounded by friends and family who are pregnant when you so desperately want to be. Congrats on making it through it, and like everyone else said, your cupcakes are amazing!
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  • @shadiddynyc I would have to charge $4.00 each for the boxed favors.  With more than half of that going into the box and baking ingredients.   I make everything form scratch and we all know that butter, milk and eggs cost a bloody fortune now.  They take so long to make that it really is not profitable for me so thats why I stick to making them for friends and family.  A paid job now and then is nice but that is few and far between.  
    Its the only art I get to do now so even when I make $3 and hour im ok with that.  

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    DD born 8/96, DS born 8/04

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  • So sorry. And yes those cupcakes are a-mazing!

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  • Those are awesome. Your brother acted like a dick. Boys are dumb. I'm sorry it was rough on you.
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  • Ouch!!!!  Men REALLY REALLY don't get it do they??
    Im sorry. I hate that you had to do that.

    However, I can not believe the insane talent you have for baking and decorating! I am in awe! 
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  • Men don't get it. Unfortunately, some women don't either.

    Your cupcakes are so amazing! Great to hear the LO is getting stronger.
  • I'm so sorry you had to go through that - some people are just insensitive (and they don't always mean to be!)

    Those cupcakes are AMAZING! You are very talented!!
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  • I just have to echo everyone else in say WOW the cupcakes are awesome and sorry about your brother. 
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    edited December 2014
    The cupcakes came out great. Aww sry your bro in his head thought he was being cute & funny, but in reality came off looking pathetic ((((hugs)))). I wish people would think before blurting what's on their mind before they talk. That goes for everything not just the inability to become prego
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