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New here and just wanted to say hello

GaveMiaMiracleGaveMiaMiracle member
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Hi, my name is Mia. DH and I have been trying to conceive since our loss last October 2013. It was a shock I got pregnant even then as I was 42 and we had never conceived before.

Each month that went by without a BFP, I seemed to be a little sadder. But I finally came to terms with the fact that maybe it wasn't in the cards for me. So, I gave it all to God and said it's okay if I'm not meant to get pregnant again.

Well, long story short, the following month we got the BFP we wanted without planning for it!

I am now 18+2. Just had my A/S last Monday. And due for another in 3 more weeks. My doctor said despite my age of 43 and past history of loss, all is looking great. He also stressed how important it is for me to be happy in this pregnancy and enjoy it. Not to focus on previous loss or what might happen.

Anyway, I am happy to finally be here to share in the support, trials, and triumphs we all are facing! :)
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  • littlecookielittlecookie member
    Congratulations! I'm glad that things are going well.
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  • SpartyKimSpartyKim member
    Congrats!  Very happy to hear the good news!

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  • Samuelismomma Samuelismomma member
    Congrats! There is a board for pg over 35 too. Ladies there and here are awesome!
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  • LuvLoveXoLuvLoveXo member
    Congratulations and welcome!!
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  • lcwedlcwed member
    Congratulations. I'm glad everything is progressing so well.
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    DD 3/29/12
                      BFP 6/4/14 ~ MMC 7/7/14 ~ D&C 7/15/14            
    BFP 11/28/14 ~ MMC  12/29/14    

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  • GaveMiaMiracleGaveMiaMiracle member
    Thank you for such a warm welcome, everyone! :)
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  • jjbmstincojjbmstinco member
    Congrats and welcome!

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    TTC-8/2013   BFP-4/18/14  EDD: 12/29/12 MC-5/17/14 @ 7w4d
    BFP #2-11/13/14  EDD: 7/26/14  Beta #1: 11/14/13 (135 progesterone: 19.5)   Beta #2" 11/17/14 (733 ) 
    Hoping for good news!

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  • asglover514asglover514 member
    Congrats and welcome!
    Stephanie Lynn 
    *BFP3:7/10/14 EDD: 3/19/15--Renley Alexander born 3/12/15!!*
    11/17/14-adopted a furbaby named Luna (born 9/05/14)
    BFP2: 11/25/11-Aaron Alexander born sleeping at 31 weeks on 05/31/12
    BFP1: 07/28/11-EDD:3/19/12, natural MC 09/12/11 at 12 wks-HB and growth stopped at 6wks
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  • GaveMiaMiracleGaveMiaMiracle member
    Thank you @jjbmstinco‌ !
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  • sfazarsfazar member
    Congratulations and welcome!

    Me (34); DH (35)

    BFP 11/25/13; Heard strong heartbeats for 3 weeks; Natural MC (1/15/14)

    BFP 11/11/14 EDD 07/21/15 hoping for our rainbow!

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  • GaveMiaMiracleGaveMiaMiracle member
    Thanks a lot @asglover514‌ :)
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  • footprintfootprint member
    Congrats and welcome! I fully agree with your doctor - try and stay in the present and enjoy your pregnancy (although at times, it can be difficult)!

    Married August 2003

    BFP: January 8, 2012
    Due: September 5, 2012
    DS: August 14, 2012

    BFP: November 5, 2013
    Due: July 11, 2014
    MMC Detected d&c: December 29, 2013 12w5d

    BFP: June 10, 2014
    Due: February 16, 2015


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  • GaveMiaMiracleGaveMiaMiracle member
    Easier said than done @footprint‌! I do try my hardest. I find myself counting the days between my monthly appointments. I am waiting until I can feel LO moving around (haven't gotten there yet!). I suspect it will help me not worry half as much.
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  • footprintfootprint member
    Oh yea, it is so much easier said than done! I didn't mean to imply it was easy, in any way :) keeping busy helps a lot of people. And I tried really hard not to think about being pregnant, but it didn't work too well, either. If it helps you any, as slow as first trimester was for me was as fast as second trimester flew by. Congrats again!

    Married August 2003

    BFP: January 8, 2012
    Due: September 5, 2012
    DS: August 14, 2012

    BFP: November 5, 2013
    Due: July 11, 2014
    MMC Detected d&c: December 29, 2013 12w5d

    BFP: June 10, 2014
    Due: February 16, 2015


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  • GaveMiaMiracleGaveMiaMiracle member
    Thanks so much @footprnts13‌ & @sfazar‌!

    You know, for me it seems like all of it is flying by so quickly!
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  • JustinsGirl2011JustinsGirl2011 member
    Congrats & welcome!!!
    BFP #2 3/19/14      EDD: 11/28/14
     Femara + Gonal F + Ovidrel  3/6/14  IUI #3 (plus 2x acupuncture)

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  • pblgepblge member
    Welcome and congratulations!!!
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  • Mel&John2013Mel&John2013 member
    Congratulations, and welcome! I'm glad you're trying to relax and enjoy the pregnancy, although I definitely understand that's easier said than done!
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  • Mom2anAngel2Mom2anAngel2 member
    Welcome and congrats!

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    BFP #1: 8/4/11; DS1 born sleeping on 11/16/11 at 19w1d

    BFP # 2: 5/7/12, EDD 1/10/13, DS2 born 1/4/13

    BFP # 3: 11/8/13, EDD 7/17/14, mmc 10wks

    BFP # 4: 5/16/14, EDD 1/15/15, praying for our 2nd rainbow baby 

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  • GaveMiaMiracleGaveMiaMiracle member
    Thanks all! :)
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