Whoa

thiscoffeechick

The OP came back to do a DD of the original post after her GBCB!

ghostof5letters

anfranklin2

What the actual fuck is happening?

chelseacookhurst

Honestly have no clue what's going on at this point. I would have deleted this post if could/knew how. Started out as a thread about nightmares then turned into a bunch of drama by women who clearly have nothing better to do than bring others down via pregnancy apps.
Didn't realize so many pregnant women were so hostile. Def won't make the mistake of making a new post again. It is quite funny to see the same grown ass women acting like security on multiple posts though. I could be being sensitive (pretty sure that happens in pregnancy- whoops) but doesn't seem like they're giving friendly advice to me; takes me back to middle school when you brought others down to make you feel better =D>

chelseacookhurst

I'm not the only person who has posted about dreams today. And I'm sure I won't be the last one this week so why don't the people who have issues about it build a bridge bc it's going to keep happening.

chelseacookhurst

This was my original post so you can leave now. "K Bye"

ghostof5letters

chelseacookhurst said:

 It is quite funny to see the same grown ass women acting like security on multiple posts though. I could be being sensitive (pretty sure that happens in pregnancy- whoops) but doesn't seem like they're giving friendly advise to me; takes me back to middle school when you brought others down to make you feel better =D>

*advice

They're two different words

OctoberStars

chelseacookhurst said:

This was my original post so you can leave now. "K Bye"

Why are people so possessive over posts? No one owns the content of this website. It's a public forum and you can't control what anyone posts.

chelseacookhurst

@junedear67‌ I definitely never started or asked for this drama by posting about a ether disturbing nightmare. This coffee chick loves to comment on many posts just being rude to them because they didn't go back 5 pages to look for certain posts before making a new one.
Good Lord you ladies sure know how to welcome the newbies.

OctoberStars

chelseacookhurst said:

@junedear67‌ I definitely never started or asked for this drama by posting about a ether disturbing nightmare. This coffee chick loves to comment on many posts just being rude to them because they didn't go back 5 pages to look for certain posts before making a new one.
Good Lord you ladies sure know how to welcome the newbies.

Are you kidding? @lauraneedscoffee‌ is consistently hilarious and polite about reminding people about the sticky and symptoms thread etc. If you think she is rude, you best quit the Internet immediately.

babyfever8

chelseacookhurst said:

@junedear67‌ I definitely never started or asked for this drama by posting about a ether disturbing nightmare. This coffee chick loves to comment on many posts just being rude to them because they didn't go back 5 pages to look for certain posts before making a new one.
Good Lord you ladies sure know how to welcome the newbies.

Haha coffee chick. No, she's truly vile, read most of her comments like 9 out of 10 are condescending and completely unhelpful to anyone. Think she just comes here to take out her bad day or whatever.

Edited for spelling

beepity

chelseacookhurst said:

@junedear67‌ I definitely never started or asked for this drama by posting about a ether disturbing nightmare. This coffee chick loves to comment on many posts just being rude to them because they didn't go back 5 pages to look for certain posts before making a new one. Good Lord you ladies sure know how to welcome the newbies.

Yeah, I can see how it would be annoying to look back through 5 pages of crap to find an interesting thread. 

THIS IS THE REASON WE DON'T LIKE REPETITIVE POSTS... You're contributing to the problem OP. 

beepity

babyfever8 said:

@junedear67‌ I definitely never started or asked for this drama by posting about a ether disturbing nightmare. This coffee chick loves to comment on many posts just being rude to them because they didn't go back 5 pages to look for certain posts before making a new one. Good Lord you ladies sure know how to welcome the newbies.

Haha coffee chick. No, she's truly vial, read most of her comments like 9 out of 10 are condescending and completely Unhelpful to anyone. Think she just comes here to take out her bad day or whatever.

@babyfever8 this is dangerously close to a TOU violation. Except you spelled your insult wrong. 

Don't ever say I wasn't helpful. 

Dcwtada

ghostof5letters said:

ghostof5letters, I wondered when you pop up on this thread...always lurking in those dark corners of the interwebz

babyfever8

ashleynslattery said:

babyfever8 said:

chelseacookhurst said:

@junedear67‌ I definitely never started or asked for this drama by posting about a ether disturbing nightmare. This coffee chick loves to comment on many posts just being rude to them because they didn't go back 5 pages to look for certain posts before making a new one.
Good Lord you ladies sure know how to welcome the newbies.

Haha coffee chick. No, she's truly vial, read most of her comments like 9 out of 10 are condescending and completely Unhelpful to anyone. Think she just comes here to take out her bad day or whatever.

I think it's vile? And she was being pretty nice although after being called vile I am sure she might appropriately live up to said adjective. I probably would.

Ah yes it is vile, thanks. Wasn't talking about this thread.

chelseacookhurst

@ChiaWombat‌ well said, I can see this now. I saw some of the arguing on other posts prior to today but just laughed at them because I found it amusing that so many women get all bent out of shape over pretty much nothing. Some are just so rude and ridiculous to one another on here. I will definitely not be posting anything because it's not worth it at this point. Who knows what could start someone's outburst. I know we're all full of hormones right now but goodness gracious y'all this had gotten so out of hand. This is exact reason why I rarely post on social media and why I will stick to google when I have questions regarding my pregnancy. Thank you to the few ladies who have stood up for me and to the ladies who were extremely rude- I'm so sorry your lives suck so bad you have to attack pregnant women full of questions, emotions, and confusion to make yourselves feel better or have more points on your page. Congrats, y'all win!

keiranoelle

In all honesty @chelseacookhurst‌, common sense wins it. You don't have to read five pages, but take a quick look. Read a thread or two and then post. When you originally sign up---- you can't even post for like 3 days. No one was rude to you, or the WK--- initially. Did you catch some snark, yes....from a regular, active member of this community and it show cases her awesome, funny personality! If you don't like it, or the 'rules' of our forum---- then don't punish is with your misery. Just call it a loss, let us enjoy what we built and bounce. (can someone GIF me, I'm mobile?)

babyfever8

chelseacookhurst said:

@ChiaWombat‌ well said, I can see this now. I saw some of the arguing on other posts prior to today but just laughed at them because I found it amusing that so many women get all bent out of shape over pretty much nothing. Some are just so rude and ridiculous to one another on here. I will definitely not be posting anything because it's not worth it at this point. Who knows what could start someone's outburst. I know we're all full of hormones right now but goodness gracious y'all this had gotten so out of hand. This is exact reason why I rarely post on social media and why I will stick to google when I have questions regarding my pregnancy. Thank you to the few ladies who have stood up for me and to the ladies who were extremely rude- I'm so sorry your lives suck so bad you have to attack pregnant women full of questions, emotions, and confusion to make yourselves feel better or have more points on your page. Congrats, y'all win!

No seriously this was not even that bad at all.. I have seen much much worse from these lovely ladies. But really don't let a few bad ones spoil it.. There are a lot of nice ladies on here.

chelseacookhurst

Whoops has** better go ahead and correct that before the spelling/grammar nazi comes through and points it out.

JaneJane7

chelseacookhurst said:

@lauraneedscoffee‌ Didn't your mother teach you to keep your mouth shut unless you have something nice to say? Some people don't live on this app, therefor didn't see those posts or take the time to go back 2-3 pages. Why don't you go drink some coffee Only kidding, mostly.

Well said, lady. Rudeness abounds here. I only stay for the entertainment value, and go elsewhere for needed support. It doesn't exist here.

beepity

Does anyone know where I can purchase a jumbo sized post-it? This is unreal. 

Rose0825

It's really rather amusing if you ask me to much to be upset over nothing....that goes for both side's....I opt to not give a fuck....I think we all would be better off doing so...

keiranoelle

JaneJane7 said:

chelseacookhurst said:

@lauraneedscoffee‌ Didn't your mother teach you to keep your mouth shut unless you have something nice to say? Some people don't live on this app, therefor didn't see those posts or take the time to go back 2-3 pages. Why don't you go drink some coffee Only kidding, mostly.

Well said, lady. Rudeness abounds here. I only stay for the entertainment value, and go elsewhere for needed support. It doesn't exist here.

Maybe it doesn't exist for you---- but I've never seen your name before on any thread I've read. I've never seen you contribute. You get out of this community what you put in. I posted an AW earlier this weekend and got all types of support. maybe it's you?
:-/

laurawaller7

beepity said:

Does anyone know where I can purchase a jumbo sized post-it? This is unreal. 

I think I just accidentally reported your comment whilst scrolling through some peoples hilarious comments...

chelseacookhurst

Not true. There have been quite a few rude posts on here which I find absolutely ridiculous because I'm pretty sure most women come here for support, not to get yelled at. And, no I didn't see the dream posts until after this got way out of hand and it looked back but one was posted hours after mine but it looks like coffee chick hasn't gotten to her yet. Maybe one of us should warn her before she gets beaten down about it too.

ghostof5letters

Dcwtada said:

ghostof5letters said:

ghostof5letters, I wondered when you pop up on this thread...always lurking in those dark corners of the interwebz

Lurking... always lurking, watching and judging. 

chelseacookhurst

So glad my post was able to provide so many shits and giggles today. Won't be sharing anything on here again, guess this is what happens when you go out on a limb and open up to an online group (had details about previous MC at 12 weeks in original post that I've never shared with anyone outside of close family and friends) so thank you ladies for being so considerate. Time to get back to real life. Peace

anfranklin2

chelseacookhurst said:

So glad my post was able to provide so many shits and giggles today. Won't be sharing anything on here again, guess this is what happens when you go out on a limb and open up to an online group (had details about previous MC at 12 weeks in original post that I've never shared with anyone outside of close family and friends) so thank you ladies for being so considerate. Time to get back to real life. Peace

You promise?

And plus also, many many of us have had previous losses, and have found extreme comfort and support in the community here. I for one, definitely have. I'm very sorry for your loss, but it's not a free pass to not follow board etiquette and then act like a huge douche nozzle when corrected.

A little humility would go a long way in this situation.

lucy1190

I just don't know :-??

I feel sorry for most of you. Just stop it. Your lives would be so much easier if you left people alone. Go harass whatever idiot got you knocked up instead.

lucy1190

Cassiek90 said:

lucy1190 said:

I just don't know :-??

I feel sorry for most of you. Just stop it. Your lives would be so much easier if you left people alone. Go harass whatever idiot got you knocked up instead.

zzzZzZzzzz

I know! Right back atcha!

thiscoffeechick

lucy1190 said:

I just don't know :-??

I feel sorry for most of you. Just stop it. Your lives would be so much easier if you left people alone. Go harass whatever idiot got you knocked up instead.

Oh joy. You're back. Didn't you get enough yesterday or did you return with your zippy "I know you are but what am I?" Comebacks.

thiscoffeechick

lucy1190 said:

Cassiek90 said:

lucy1190 said:

I just don't know :-??

I feel sorry for most of you. Just stop it. Your lives would be so much easier if you left people alone. Go harass whatever idiot got you knocked up instead.

zzzZzZzzzz

I know! Right back atcha!

@lucy1190‌
You know you can take time to formulate a comeback right? You don't have to answer Cassie right away. You can pretend you didn't see it and talk to all your friend IRL and get a real zinger before returning. Your response was about as interesting as an itchy butthole. (Oops I guess it's against TOU to bring up the "winner" who knocked YOU up) but for realz yo, your "back at you" response...

lucy1190

It was, like, 6.30am. I'm not going to talk to my friends early morning.

I don't need a zinger. I'm not having an argument with you. I have no desire to win. I'm simply standing up to it.

ghostof5letters

squeakyfrog15

I just would like to take a second and confess something...I REALLY HATE when people use loss as a reason for getting their way and crap! I mean if that were the case...I and many others would be celebrated daily! 5 pregnancies in a year and half, come on special snowflake! We all have things in our life, but I don't rub it in others faces (except for maybe right here!). I'm super grateful for the ladies on here who take the time to point newbies and creepers in the right direction. I was on the April 14 board...we were the board of crazy! Everyone came to see our daily drama, so this is NOTHING! We won't stop, and we are very nice when warranted! Thanks ladies for letting me put this here, since I have 5 days to wait on the confessions thread haha

squeakyfrog15

@ChiaWombat‌ truthfully I don't remember, probably not, though a quick review might help! I was there for Santa baby! That crazy lady kept talking about Santa babies and constantly starting crap! Then she gets banned and creates a new profile to troll some more!

ahsile10

chelseamb11 said:

You know who I always wonder about? Those same handfuls of people that lovetit all of the "YOU GUYS ARE SUCH BULLIES" posts.  Crazy as they are, at least the people who actually post about it are standing up for what they believe in.  But those continual love-titters who only agree with people quietly rather than actually post?  They intrigue me the most.

I was just scrolling through seeing who all of them were. LOL