Secondary IF

---SFF Check-In---

The last time we had S FF was completely spontaneous and in the least expected time and place. But it happened because I wanted to cuddle. One thing led to another, and it was genuinely fun. I really enjoyed it. And it's been a while since I have really really enjoyed it. Sometimes even S FF feels like a duty, like something I'm doing simply for the sake of my husband and my marriage. And while I don't think I should withhold in those moments, I also don't think that's the most fun way to have S FF.

So this week, I encourage you ladies to genuinely have fun. However that needs to happen. If there's no S and you're just having fun with your husband, that counts. Because we all know that this process is freaking hard. And we need to enjoy our husbands. And we need for them to enjoy us. How will our marriages survive if we don't like each other?

So have fun with your husband. Whatever that looks like for you.

And post a gif or just let us know "mission accomplished" once you had some fun.
Happily Mrs. C 
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start ttc #1 in Jan 2009
dx PCOS in May 2010, begin metformin
Two failed clomid cycles (made lining too thin)
Started acupuncture while saving for IVF in Sept 2011
Add herbal infusions to the mix in Dec 2011
Hoping holistic approach works!!!

BFP on April 2012 at 11dpo
Meepy Man born on Jan 2013 - Hip Hip Hurray!

Ready to start ttc #2 April 2013, but plan to be an extended BF'er
Back on metformin Aug 2013
Restart herbal infusions Sept 2013 - currently drinking nettle, oatstraw, and red raspberry leaf
DS weaned in April 2014
Taking a break from herbs and just riding the healthy train.  
Planning medicated cycle end of summer.  FX I get KU before then!!!

Re: ---SFF Check-In---

  • Mission accomplished yesterday! Especially since we are not allowed to do the deed after Saturday :(
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    DX: Severe MFI 9/1/11
    Because of Undescended testicle at birth
    IVF #1 October BFN; 5 snowbabies
    FET: November/December 2011
    ET: 12/7/11; Beta 1: 12/16/11: 66 Beta 2: 12/19/11: 212! 1st ultrasound 1/3/12! Graduated 1/10/12: heartbeat 160
    SAIF Always Welcome
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  • We would have had S FF tonight but my freakin period started a few hours ago so no S FF happening over here. We haven't had much sex since my fertile week and before finding out that H is currently spermless (jokes on us for our efforts during my FW). Since finding out our results we have fooled around once. I guess neither one of us have felt up to it and then when we finally do my period arrives.
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  • DH is away so nothing happening here. 
    Me: 32, DH: 33
    DS #1: April 2010
    DS #2: July 2015 (preemie born at 31 weeks) - our little miracle conceived through ART - unexplained secondary infertility/adenomyosis
  • Woke up at 3 am after bad dream that I was drowning...wonder why? Cuddling works. ;)

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    June 19, 2010 - Miracle Baby Girl

    Round 2
    Since March 2013
    BFP April 2013 - Missed M/C July 2013 @ 12w6d
    BFP December 2013 - CP @ 4w3d
    Eight medicated cycles, three IUIs: FAIL
    IVF #1 Antagonist - January 2015: CP/FAIL

    IVF #2 April 2015: Microdose lupron Flare
    ICSI, CCS Freeze all
    6 blasts biopsied/5 normal

    FET #1 June 25, 2015 6AA and 5AA blast transfer
    BFP 3dp5dt!
    Beta 8dp5dt 195.2, 10dp5dt 474.8, 12dp5dt 977, 22dp5dt 25,580
    <3 Twins! Our boy and girl coming end of February!  <3

  • Family slumber party, @kikimo327‌!
    Happily Mrs. C 
    image  image

    image Image and video hosting by TinyPicimage image
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker 
    start ttc #1 in Jan 2009
    dx PCOS in May 2010, begin metformin
    Two failed clomid cycles (made lining too thin)
    Started acupuncture while saving for IVF in Sept 2011
    Add herbal infusions to the mix in Dec 2011
    Hoping holistic approach works!!!

    BFP on April 2012 at 11dpo
    Meepy Man born on Jan 2013 - Hip Hip Hurray!

    Ready to start ttc #2 April 2013, but plan to be an extended BF'er
    Back on metformin Aug 2013
    Restart herbal infusions Sept 2013 - currently drinking nettle, oatstraw, and red raspberry leaf
    DS weaned in April 2014
    Taking a break from herbs and just riding the healthy train.  
    Planning medicated cycle end of summer.  FX I get KU before then!!!
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