The last time we had S FF was completely spontaneous and in the least expected time and place. But it happened because I wanted to cuddle. One thing led to another, and it was genuinely fun. I really enjoyed it. And it's been a while since I have really really enjoyed it. Sometimes even S FF feels like a duty, like something I'm doing simply for the sake of my husband and my marriage. And while I don't think I should withhold in those moments, I also don't think that's the most fun way to have S FF.
So this week, I encourage you ladies to genuinely have fun. However that needs to happen. If there's no S and you're just having fun with your husband, that counts. Because we all know that this process is freaking hard. And we need to enjoy our husbands. And we need for them to enjoy us. How will our marriages survive if we don't like each other?
So have fun with your husband. Whatever that looks like for you.
And post a gif or just let us know "mission accomplished" once you had some fun.
Happily Mrs. C
start ttc #1 in Jan 2009
dx PCOS in May 2010, begin metformin
Two failed clomid cycles (made lining too thin)
Started acupuncture while saving for IVF in Sept 2011
Add herbal infusions to the mix in Dec 2011
Hoping holistic approach works!!!
BFP on April 2012 at 11dpo
Meepy Man born on Jan 2013 - Hip Hip Hurray!
Ready to start ttc #2 April 2013, but plan to be an extended BF'er
Back on metformin Aug 2013
Restart herbal infusions Sept 2013 - currently drinking nettle, oatstraw, and red raspberry leaf
DS weaned in April 2014
Taking a break from herbs and just riding the healthy train.
Planning medicated cycle end of summer. FX I get KU before then!!!
Re: ---SFF Check-In---
DX: Severe MFI 9/1/11
Because of Undescended testicle at birth
IVF #1 October BFN; 5 snowbabies
FET: November/December 2011
ET: 12/7/11; Beta 1: 12/16/11: 66 Beta 2: 12/19/11: 212! 1st ultrasound 1/3/12! Graduated 1/10/12: heartbeat 160
SAIF Always Welcome
DS #1: April 2010
DS #2: July 2015 (preemie born at 31 weeks) - our little miracle conceived through ART - unexplained secondary infertility/adenomyosis