Had my NT Scan yesterday and the tech was making casual conversation. She asked me what I was hoping for and I said, I'd love another boy, but I'd be just as happy with a girl. She said "Looks like you're going to get your way." I look back to the screen and she has, what appears, to be a boy shot in view. It's WAY too early right? I always thought boys and girls basically have the same looking parts at that age. We were supposed to find out as a family and I feel like she took it away. I'm probably overreacting, but feeling a bit down.
Re: Feeling disappointed..
But I hate that she may have ruined it for ya'll as a family.
@Lazzlee79 That would actually infuriate me. I don't think that's a piece of information (accurate or not) that should be tossed out in casual conversation at a time when you didn't request it, especially if you had plans for the reveal to be made with the whole family present. I don't think you're overreacting.
But, it's early and she might've gotten it wrong, so try to ignore it!
Me: 35, He: 41. Baby #1!
Oh sorry, I wasn't clear. She specifically said boy. I didn't go through the entire dialogue. I feel better knowing it might be too soon to tell. I just had an idea in my head that we were going to find out together as a family and felt bummed.
In that case that's a super shitty thing for her to do!